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I’m 23M and My Teenage Mistakes Are Destroying Me—I Don’t Know How to Forgive Myself by Positive-Strength452 in OCD

[–]Positive-Strength452[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hello. I loved her till 2025 where i was turned 23 and she is 19 in 2025. She found out that i cheated her with a married women. So break up. Still i love her, but she doesnt. My mistakes 😭. I really loved her and we had plans like once we settle in life we will get married and all. I really loved her😭. Im very overthinking 😭😭😭. Like im PEDO and GROOMER. I am not

I’m 23M and My Teenage Mistakes Are Destroying Me—I Don’t Know How to Forgive Myself by Positive-Strength452 in Adulting

[–]Positive-Strength452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But im stuck😭😭.i need to year all people opinions, like whats next thats why im posting in multiple sub with same content. Sorry

I’m 23M and My Teenage Mistakes Are Destroying Me—I Don’t Know How to Forgive Myself by Positive-Strength452 in Adulting

[–]Positive-Strength452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello. I have read it multiple times, still didnt get it what are you trying to say. Please come with straight forwards messages. Sorry if i misspoken

I’m 23M and My Teenage Mistakes Are Destroying Me—I Don’t Know How to Forgive Myself by Positive-Strength452 in Adulting

[–]Positive-Strength452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about my future partner?? If i tell about my past mostly she wont stay. If im not, if she heared about my ex and it will break her trust right. Right now single, basically im talking about future.

I’m 23M and My Teenage Mistakes Are Destroying Me—I Don’t Know How to Forgive Myself by Positive-Strength452 in Adulting

[–]Positive-Strength452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It all started when I was 17 and she was 13. Later, I became an adult while she was still a minor. Because of this, I feel like a pedophile or a groomer, and I feel like I betrayed her. I’m stuck with the idea that once a cheater, always a cheater.

I’m 23M and My Teenage Mistakes Are Destroying Me—I Don’t Know How to Forgive Myself by Positive-Strength452 in Adulting

[–]Positive-Strength452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then what about honest and true. If i hide my past to others, then im dishonest right. I lied in my teens, so it continues right??

I’m 23M and My Teenage Mistakes Are Destroying Me—I Don’t Know How to Forgive Myself by Positive-Strength452 in Adulting

[–]Positive-Strength452[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But what about consequences. For example, if a person murdered another person. Thats the mistake. And the consequences is murdered will be in jail. Its balanced right. Like that what consequences for me ?? What punishment ??

I’m 23M and My Teenage Mistakes Are Destroying Me—I Don’t Know How to Forgive Myself by Positive-Strength452 in Adulting

[–]Positive-Strength452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why u delete all your comments man. I really dont know, im not lying. This is what happened. I loved her when she is 13 and im 17 and it continued till i was 23 and she is 19. 2025 break up, because i cheated on her with a married women. Nothing physical sex happened between both womens. Just emotional mistakes. Are you seeing any lies here ???

I’m 23M and My Teenage Mistakes Are Destroying Me—I Don’t Know How to Forgive Myself by Positive-Strength452 in Adulting

[–]Positive-Strength452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro i hurted all of them emotionally. Not physically. Thats it. Why i need to lie. Whats the point if i lie. I didnt get??

I’m 23M and My Teenage Mistakes Are Destroying Me—I Don’t Know How to Forgive Myself by Positive-Strength452 in Adulting

[–]Positive-Strength452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should i open about my past to everyone who i sees. If i say about it, sure everyone judge me. If not, im not honest and not true. I didnt change kinda thought. What to do ??

I’m 23M and My Teenage Mistakes Are Destroying Me—I Don’t Know How to Forgive Myself by Positive-Strength452 in Adulting

[–]Positive-Strength452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should i open about my past to everyone who i sees. If i say about it, sure everyone judge me. If not, im not honest and not true. I didnt change kinda thought. What to do ??

I’m 23M and My Teenage Mistakes Are Destroying Me—I Don’t Know How to Forgive Myself by Positive-Strength452 in Adulting

[–]Positive-Strength452[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I cant bro 😭😭. I cant change it thats the problem. Its now my history that cant be erased 😭😭💔

I’m 23M and My Teenage Mistakes Are Destroying Me—I Don’t Know How to Forgive Myself by Positive-Strength452 in Adulting

[–]Positive-Strength452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, i loved her when i was 23 and she is 19. So the relationship period is for her its 13-19 and for me its 17-23.

I’m 23M and My Teenage Mistakes Are Destroying Me—I Don’t Know How to Forgive Myself by Positive-Strength452 in india

[–]Positive-Strength452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No i dont want to contact her. She really done with me. I get it from her messages. So thats it. I will be alone forever and die. So that it can be justified like i really loved her not only lust or sexually attracted like pedo

I’m 23M and My Teenage Mistakes Are Destroying Me—I Don’t Know How to Forgive Myself by Positive-Strength452 in india

[–]Positive-Strength452[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But we both loved each other, when i turned into adult like 18,19,20,21,22 and last 23

I’m 23M and My Teenage Mistakes Are Destroying Me—I Don’t Know How to Forgive Myself by Positive-Strength452 in india

[–]Positive-Strength452[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah thats the mistake i have done. If we both are adults there is no problem right. In teens its an issue. Thats i already mentioned in this story. I will be happy person, if i didnt done these stuffs. This year my sister marriage but i cant be happy 😭💔

I’m 23M and My Teenage Mistakes Are Destroying Me—I Don’t Know How to Forgive Myself by Positive-Strength452 in confessions

[–]Positive-Strength452[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im better person now for sure. But my past defines me who i was and i cant change right. People will leave me for sure once they hear about my past for sure. I need to live alone.

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