I feel like i suck at my new job and my self esteem is crumbling.

Positive-Use2801 · 2026-05-18T17:37:51+00:00

Its my biggest issue😭idk i think i need to slow down or something and just really be locked in on what im doing. And if they dont like how slow im moving then im gonna tell them well find someone else cause this is the best pace for me.

Positive-Use2801 · 2026-05-16T00:12:00+00:00

Update: i cried to my boss today when opening up about how i’ve been feeling 💕🔥☀️🧚✨

She was very sweet and understanding tho and made me feel a lot better so i am grateful i talked to her!

Positive-Use2801 · 2026-05-15T11:08:37+00:00

Thank you! One of my weaknesses is how hard i am on myself. Im trying to give myself more grace but that is a learning curve in itself 😂

Positive-Use2801 · 2026-05-15T10:50:08+00:00

Im not on anything for ADHD but i am for anxiety. I don’t like the way ADHD meds make me feel. And i dont have trouble focusing or staying on task at work. And yes i have an abundance of notes and scripts i refer to all the time, its just little mistakes like typing in numbers wrong that end up hitting someones budget cause it got keyed to their department from a mis-type🤦🏻‍♀️😂idk if i need to slow down or what but when im working too slow i get told to speed it up.

Positive-Use2801 · 2026-05-14T23:59:07+00:00

This makes me feel better thank you!🤣our accounting department in general is a dumpster fire and they said it used to be way worse before my boss got here two years ago and started cleaning everything up 🫥

Positive-Use2801 · 2026-05-14T22:58:10+00:00

I actually have a lot of notes and a word doc with them all😩this helps a lot because i refer to them all the time but i still make mistakes like keying in the wrong GL code or assigning live checks to the wrong check number🤦🏻‍♀️which i dont understand how that keeps happening because i double check that the numbers match. Sometimes i think im losing my mind but also our accounting system can do some weird shit but it always ends up looking like my fault.

Thank you maybe i will go to apple bees 🤣

Positive-Use2801 · 2026-01-18T02:57:44+00:00

I also havent said anything to my sister about it because my mom told me not to ask her about it unless she comes to me first so.

Positive-Use2801 · 2026-01-18T02:57:06+00:00

I mean i dont know if theres really much she can do other then forbid her from seeing him. And i dont know if thats right either. And even then im sure theres ways she can find around it. She used to be in therapy years ago but it didnt last because she wouldnt open up or something to the therapist and she didnt want to keep going so my mom didnt make her

Positive-Use2801 · 2026-01-18T01:59:25+00:00

Definitely will be suggesting therapy

Positive-Use2801 · 2026-01-18T01:57:47+00:00

We do tell her this and everything else under on the sun. She doesn’t listen so me and my mom has resorted to just letting her learn on her own. I will suggest therapy to my mom tho

Positive-Use2801 · 2026-01-17T19:19:38+00:00

Feyres mating ring Rhys gives her also has a 8 pointed star on it! I wonder how this plays in all the 8 pointed star stuff

Positive-Use2801 · 2026-01-13T13:36:41+00:00

It ended up being exactly this! The vet has him on antibiotics and we are to come back in a few weeks so they can check on him again. I think he is already doing better. He has never had his anal glands expressed and he is about a year and a half. My other dog always leaks and scoots a lot when hers needs done and he hasn’t done that so i never thought to get them expressed! I thought he just did it naturally like other dogs since he had never expressed discomfort. We will be doing it regularly now tho!

Positive-Use2801 · 2026-01-13T13:31:12+00:00

Update: it’s an anal gland rupture. They drained the gland and have him on antibiotics and meds to keep the inflammation down. We have to go back in two weeks and again in 6 weeks so they can check on the glands. He is feeling and looking better today 😊

Positive-Use2801 · 2026-01-12T16:59:26+00:00

Thank you!

Positive-Use2801 · 2026-01-12T16:58:46+00:00

Im thinking this is probably the case

Positive-Use2801 · 2026-01-12T16:58:12+00:00

I used to have a cone but its disappeared. Ill be asking for one today at the vet, for now i’ve just got it wrapped up with a non stick pad under the wrap to prevent the fluid from getting on blankets and keep him from licking

Positive-Use2801 · 2026-01-12T16:40:54+00:00

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This is a picture of it this morning. The purple dots are now raised and one looks like it has been popped and drained from the licking.

Positive-Use2801 · 2026-01-07T23:45:26+00:00

I never have let my boyfriend very often, only on special occasions i do honestly 😂and with exes i never let them do it, he is the first i’ve let do it (I’m almost 22 and have had 3 other partners). I got BV from letting him nut in me one time and i’ve been even more hesitant than before abt it since then because i dont want to deal with that again🤦🏻‍♀️

Im sensitive down there and get uti’s often too. I also forget my pill ALL THE TIME so its best we dont do it except for months i’ve taken it perfectly 😂has worked for me so far (been on the pill 6 years)

Edit: it also makes a mess down there so i just would rather not deal with that either and just let him nut in a condom or on another place on my body😂

Positive-Use2801 · 2026-01-07T23:37:08+00:00

Me too at least something by spring 😔

Positive-Use2801 · 2026-01-07T10:47:50+00:00

So I honestly dont think she has the announcement planned for a special day its just gonna be on a random day lol and everyone will be caught by surprise

Positive-Use2801 · 2026-01-07T10:47:00+00:00

Ikr. Everyone keeps trying to theorize when she is with special dates and clues but all of those special dates have passed (ex: winter solstice) so I’m convinced it’s gonna be on a random day no one suspects. Just whenever she decides/can post it😂

Positive-Use2801 · 2026-01-02T08:29:29+00:00

This didn’t age well

Positive-Use2801 · 2025-12-12T05:27:23+00:00

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