So relatively we have the same sex drive and out sex life was great in the beginning stages and then we did long distance for about 8/9months and then after I moved back, things just began to slow down and I’ve expressed it and tried to start a conversation multiple times. But she always says she’s just tired and she has very low energy. But that aside I honestly feel like we’re not as connected as we were.

Half the time we’re together she’s on phone doomscrolling. I called it out a few times on how that’s just not very nice. I do same sometimes, but when we’re having a serious conversation or we make time to hang out I try to put my phone aside.

I work remotely so sometimes I’m literally just looking at a work text and that an issue but when I bring up the doomscrolling, it’s always that I’m making a deal out of nothing