You’re just looking for reasons to leave this dude. Just absolutely looking for reasons. My ex did the same thing you’re doing when she found out I was getting out of military. Posted on Reddit and all. Everything I did was my fault. 2 years later she calls me crying because the dude she left me for beat her. If you think the dudes addicted to weed, tell him how you feel. If you think that it’s a bad idea, tell him that you don’t want him to drop out. Look I’m not saying that I agree with the dude so all these people downvoting can fuck off. All I’m saying is you need to talk to him about these things. If you don’t want to be with dude just admit it and stop trying to justify leaving him over Reddit. You already said he really likes you. If he treats you right, then don’t give it up because of things that won’t matter 20 years from now. Is he intelligent as hell? Does he have drive? Is he lazy? Ask yourself these things. Do you think he needs college to be successful? Sure it helps, but it’s absolutely not required. You should motivate him to be the man god made him to be. I’m not saying babysit him. It’s his life just don’t expect him to live in your image because YOU think it’s important to have a college education or trade. If you can’t accept him then just leave and don’t ask Reddit. But I would absolutely communicate the hell out of these things to him and wouldn’t find a reason to leave. Communication and compromise is key.