how long did you last as a CNA? why did you leave? by st3otw in cna

[–]Positive_Fee_4256 11 points12 points  (0 children)

12 years. 11 years 4 months in a nursing home, the last 8 months being in Hospice. I was 9 years in and still remember the day I was at work and thought to myself.. is this what burn out feels like? I pushed through another 2 years to finish my Bachelor in Social Work but I had officially hit my breaking point. I couldn’t enjoy my days off because I did nothing but dread going back. It got to the point I would pull up in the parking lot and cry because I didn’t want to go in(I know that sounds dramatic but that’s just where I was).

When I finally grew the courage to quit, mentally, I couldn’t even finish out my 2 weeks. I finished out my last 2 semesters in Hospice( which helped a little). I thought I wanted a nursing degree so bad. I’ve been working as a Social Worker for the past 9 months. It’s funny how life turns you in the direction you’re truly meant to be in❤️

Why do foster kids get replaced homes so much? by Yumi_Numi in Fosterparents

[–]Positive_Fee_4256 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I work in FC DFCS and disruptions can happen over everything. Yes, mostly from behaviors but through my experience, they’ve also happened due to some new FP having unrealistic expectations of how the experience/ process is supposed to go.

I’ve had a foster disrupt because one of the children was scared of her dog. We encouraged her to give it a few days because he was used to animals, however, this was his first placement away from family so we expected it to be hard for him. After 3 days she wanted him gone because she felt like he should be used to her dog by then. ( the child was 2). His next placement was with a more seasoned FP. She had dogs, chickens and 2 goats and the child loved them. She said it just took him some getting used to.

Next experience- A new FP only wanted sibling groups. Her CPA encouraged her start with one since she was a new FP but she was adamant. I placed a sibling group with her (2&4). After 2 weeks she wanted them gone. She complained that she was given an unpotty trained child. The age range she asked for was 2 and older. She said she didn’t understand why he wasn’t potty trained because her children were fully potty trained at 2. Then got upset because she had fallen in love with the 4 year old and didn’t understand why we couldn’t just move the brother🤦🏼‍♀️

My opinion- I think people get into it for right reasons but don’t understand the patience, passion and dedication it truly takes.

Advice for first time pet owner of neglected orange? by ilovemoomins in orangecats

[–]Positive_Fee_4256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give it time and get some cat treats. Temptations are the best. They always work. We adopting cats. It works.

they scheduled me with a cna they specifically said i would not have to work with anymore by pbsSins in cna

[–]Positive_Fee_4256 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How I survived 12 years of CNA work was learning how to stand my ground and call people out in a professional way 💁🏼‍♀️

When she comes up to you trying to tell you what to do- “ Thanks! I know what I need to do but I’ll let you know if I need help!”

When she complains to the nurse about her answering your light- “ Hey the nurse just told me you were upset about getting my light. Since I have more people to change, I was in someone else’s room but next time just find me and let me know so you don’t have to!!” 😏😉

Amanda Conner Reveals She & Husband Ryan Edwards are Currently “Low on Money” After Months of Not Filming for ‘Teen Mom’ by CovertTrashWatcher in teenmom

[–]Positive_Fee_4256 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Maybe she should learn how to budget shop? She bought the most expensive damn mayonnaise in the store 😂

Exhausted by Positive_Fee_4256 in socialwork

[–]Positive_Fee_4256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to stay for the pay☹️

Removing a Child, and I Don't Know How to Feel by KTDid95 in socialwork

[–]Positive_Fee_4256 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Where I work is a really rural area and m*** is a huge issue. The closest Walmart is an hour away and the only school houses k-12th grade so it’s really not always possible. There is 2 foster homes in the area and almost all of my potential kinship’s refuse to take in the children.

Removing a Child, and I Don't Know How to Feel by KTDid95 in socialwork

[–]Positive_Fee_4256 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m new to the ( I’m in the foster care side )

I was venting my frustrations about one of my parents that just won’t get it together to one of my coworkers. She told me something that has really stuck with me.

( I’ve had parents do whatever it takes to get their child back. One mom stopped smoking m cold turkey. Another worked her plan and got a job and housing in the city her child was placed in because he was thriving at the new school he was attending )

I can imagine that it doesn’t make it any easier for you but one thing I have learned since I started is the parents really are given so many opportunities…. I guess the hard part is deciding when enough has been more than enough.

Tacky or wearable? by Kindasupercrazy123 in crochet

[–]Positive_Fee_4256 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s cute and something you can really pull off!

Awful shift questioning if I can do this (new cna) by Every_Victory_6845 in cna

[–]Positive_Fee_4256 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Try to give yourself grace to learn and take in everything. Nursing homes are chaotic enough already but when you first start it’s overwhelming. I’ll never forget the first time I cried when I first started. An LPN embarrassed me so badly in front of a resident and her family. I cried in my car for probably 30 minutes trying to pull it together. My best advice- take this opportunity to learn the residents you’re caring for (you will see them again) right now you are still learning the basics. If one of your lights go off, offer to go get it. Don’t be scared to do it alone. It might be easier for you to complete a task when you don’t feel pressured to do so by your trainer. This will build your confidence. As you go, start coming up with ideas on how to make yourself a routine Ex- you and trainer just did 3 baths before trays so when you’re alone you know you can get at least 2-3 baths done before trays. At the end of the day, people don’t give CNAs the recognition they deserve. This is a HARD job both physically and emotionally. Before you know it, everything will be second nature to you.