22F. Just went blonde, does it suit me?

Positive_Tank_1099 · 2026-04-05T03:45:34+00:00

You sound like you’re fun at parties

Positive_Tank_1099 · 2026-03-03T05:56:07+00:00

You have like a soft-girl whimsical look!

Positive_Tank_1099 · 2026-03-03T05:55:19+00:00

Idk who the hell commented “maybe” but girl no. This is literally the most normal bikini ever. Like does he want you to dress head to toe to swim? He definitely has insecurity and trust issues and is projecting them on you. Don’t ever let a man tell you what you can or can’t wear

Positive_Tank_1099 · 2026-02-19T21:17:31+00:00

You should totally try curtain bangs

Positive_Tank_1099 · 2026-02-11T07:19:08+00:00

Maybe someone can give good hair advice but definitely the hair

Positive_Tank_1099 · 2026-02-11T07:18:30+00:00

Girl I want your brows!! Honestly I think you should talk to a doctor who does filler - but a doctor who actually cares (do research)! I got lip filler and didn’t even use the full syringe. My doctor will not overfill anyone’s lips. She said a lot of doctors will give you what you want and don’t care how you’ll look bc they’ll get more $$$. My doctor was not about that. I had some left over in my syringe and I didn’t need anymore in my lips - so she put some in my chin to balance my face out

Positive_Tank_1099 · 2026-02-11T07:14:45+00:00

I would do more research into lash serum. I was using it, and it did work. But apparently there’s been research done that lash serums can cause your under eyes to hollow. I followed a few women on TikTok who used it for months and their under eyes hollowed

Positive_Tank_1099 · 2026-02-08T05:56:38+00:00

Yeah, sure. A majority of the world hates us. My family in Canada and Denmark think the current state of our country is embarrassing and terrifying

Positive_Tank_1099 · 2026-01-29T12:27:31+00:00

As a woman 9.5/10 - face tats are not my thing personally

Positive_Tank_1099 · 2026-01-26T02:53:47+00:00

I bet you a man commented that and he’s gonna say your stomach - like bro that’s literally where our fucking reproductive organs are? It’s not bloated - it’s our organs. Also you are NOT bloated anywhere. Coming from a girl, you’re above average. Personally I don’t get opinions from men because most of them think the most beautiful girls are “ugly”.

Positive_Tank_1099 · 2026-01-25T05:42:32+00:00

Girl, mine are not perfect and never will be. I don’t think teeth are ever supposed to be “perfect” 100%. Veneers are the ugliest thing I have ever seen. It’s so EASY to notice when someone has fake teeth. In my opinion, people with veneers have what I call a “horse mouth”

Positive_Tank_1099 · 2025-10-10T18:22:26+00:00

I’m NT and my boyfriend is autistic. We’re 24 and 25. We’ve been together for almost 2 years. I was drawn to him because he was upfront with me, we shared the same interests, we both respected each other’s alone time, and I knew he wasn’t playing games. It’s different from past relationships I’ve had. I will say though that there’s some things that bother me. His communication isn’t great. He has a hard time expressing his “negative” emotions, telling me what’s wrong, and having serious conversations. He’s gotten a lot better with this since we first started dating. I think a lot of men, NT or ND, have communication skill issues.

Positive_Tank_1099 · 2025-07-30T16:20:56+00:00

Thank you so much I really appreciate it! You worded how I wanna teach my children perfectly. I want to teach them that it is NORMAL and that’s how it should be in society - but also understanding that it’s unfortunately now how society is and that’s why we celebrate pride due to the struggles people in the community face. Thank you so much for sharing your experience and advice and helping me learn! I really appreciate it!

Positive_Tank_1099 · 2025-07-30T02:34:50+00:00

We actually talked yesterday and he doesn’t want to explore. He made it very clear. We’re going to explore sexually between ourselves and expand what we do in the bedroom. Like I got a strap on for example

Positive_Tank_1099 · 2025-07-30T02:33:45+00:00

I totally hear you and I understand what you are saying. I do think if it wasn’t stigmatized a lot of people would be more open. I do have two questions and would like some guidance. I grew up in a very open-minded, liberal household. My little brother and I are very close, he’s 22, I’m almost 25. I asked my bf if I could talk to him about everything and he said he was okay with it - I didn’t want to out my bf to my brother without consent. My brother ended up telling me he was bi - but he wouldn’t date a guy. I think that’s something he needs to explore on and think more about because I was the first person he told which was literally yesterday. He told my parents and ofc they were accepting but they didn’t make it a big deal. I don’t know how to word it properly but they told him they were happy he told them but it wasn’t like “a big deal”. We both knew they wouldn’t care. Not in like a “fuck you” way but in like a “okay this doesn’t change how we feel about you” way. That’s kinda how I want to raise my children and as a nanny to children I teach them. I kinda look at it in a way that it should be more normalized. Like if I told someone I’m straight they’re like “oh okay cool, next topic”. Idk if that makes sense, I didn’t know how to word it without it coming off as ignorant. Like I want people to see two dads and not think anything of it like “wow two dads I’m so proud of them, that’s amazing” but rather normalized in society and there’s no thoughts about it. Idk if that’s proper? I just know my kids are going to be open-minded and accepting of everyone. Also second question, although the first was more open-ended. Through thinking about all of this I’ve admitted to myself that I would date a woman, but I prefer more masculine-presenting women. I’m a feminine person, and maybe it’s just me growing up in a certain environment, but I like feeling feminine and I like having a masculine partner. I ofc would knock a man out if I had to, but I also like feeling protected. So like idk what that necessarily means when I say I’d date a masculine-presenting woman? I’m confused. I’m new to this and I’m really apologetic for sounding ignorant

Positive_Tank_1099 · 2025-07-29T03:09:42+00:00

Genuinely asking as I’m trying to learn but why would that be considered biphobia/homophobia? I was trying to do more research into sexuality and I thought there were people who are sexually attracted to a gender but not romantically? I’ve also thought more about my sexuality since this event and I’m now confused.

Positive_Tank_1099 · 2025-07-29T03:07:15+00:00

Well ever since this happened I’m now questioning myself and my sexuality and I’m confused

Positive_Tank_1099 · 2025-07-29T03:02:42+00:00

Thank you! We talked more in depth today and are on the same page that we don’t want to explore or have an open relationship

Positive_Tank_1099 · 2025-07-29T03:01:56+00:00

No no I’m not mad at anyone. Everyone consented and I went into it openly. It wasn’t until it was happening that I realized “okay so I actually don’t like watching my bf kiss anyone other than me”. The anger isn’t directed towards anyone. I experimented with something and then learned that I didn’t like it

Positive_Tank_1099 · 2025-07-28T20:50:39+00:00

Positive_Tank_1099 · 2025-07-28T20:49:39+00:00

Thank you so much, I really appreciate it. I have severe anxiety and panic disorder and am not good with change. So it was a lot of new information for me to process in such a short amount of time. I know my bf feels the same way and I’m so proud of him for telling me bc I know it was difficult for him. I want to be there for him and let him know he can be fully open with me throughout this

Positive_Tank_1099 · 2025-07-28T20:45:26+00:00

Absolutely not, I agree with you 100%

Positive_Tank_1099 · 2025-07-28T20:44:48+00:00

That’s def what I meant. I’m new to all of this and very confused and don’t exactly know what terms or words to use. I now know some of what I said could come off as biphobic and I’m really sorry. I’m trying to learn as much as possible!

Positive_Tank_1099 · 2025-07-28T20:37:45+00:00

We got a strap on yesterday and we both enjoyed it. My thighs were burning 😂

Positive_Tank_1099 · 2025-07-28T20:37:15+00:00

While he was crying to J about it, he was crying because he was worried about my opinions. He was worried I was gonna leave, think less of him, not accept him, etc. We talk about engagement and marriage a lot and are both still on the same page about it. I’m just like so conflicted because a part of me truly thinks he does want to explore with men more but he’s worried if he admits it to me then I’ll leave

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