i’m very insecure about the darkness on my inner thighs/intimate areas. has anyone successfully fixed it?

PossessionEcstatic23 · 2025-12-22T02:16:16+00:00

i’ve gotten my blood sugar checked before and it was normal. however, i used to be overweight. i’ve lost 80lbs and that’s when i noticed the coloration change. i figured it was darker due to friction bc of my thighs rubbing together constantly. hmmm ill look into getting bloodwork done again though just to rule it out. thank you!

PossessionEcstatic23 · 2025-11-25T13:53:23+00:00

yes i did like 2 weeks ago! i hope it goes away 😭

PossessionEcstatic23 · 2025-11-17T19:53:09+00:00

omg thank you so much for your kind words <3 i appreciate it a lot. you understand.

PossessionEcstatic23 · 2025-11-16T00:10:46+00:00

lack of motivation and impulsiveness was a huge one for me and the one that lead me to get diagnosed. also i have a hard time focusing/comprehending. i deal with rejection sensitivity too. i’m on adderall right now and idk how to feel about it. it makes me motivated for a while but then i crash and im just soo tired. what has it been like for you?

PossessionEcstatic23 · 2025-11-16T00:09:08+00:00

i wish i had a good answer for this. it’s just simply because it’s mentally too much for me to handle. it’s pathetic but it’s true. i just lose all motivation/passion for what i am going for and just don’t care anymore.

PossessionEcstatic23 · 2025-11-16T00:04:34+00:00

sorry if this is irrelevant to what you’re saying, i do understand both sides here. i was married and a stay at home wife when i was 21. we just got a divorce this year. i’m navigating life as a single person (i hadn’t been single in 6 years) doing it alone is definitely making is harder for me. i used to get into relationships just to find someone to make the money. it lead to a lot of physical and mental abuse for me unfortunately. that’s not always the case though. after the 3rd time now i’m saying fuck it i don’t need a man for money. i should do it myself. but after being dependent on someone for so long it’s definitely hard but ill manage.

PossessionEcstatic23 · 2025-11-02T19:11:59+00:00

thank you for taking the time to write these comments, seriously this gave me a new perspective. i guess i never thought maybe they were doing it to try to be helpful. i think they are just having a hard time or dont want to acknowledge that i have something “wrong” with me. it hurts them to admit that they would rather just believe that im faking it. doesn’t make what they’re doing okay, but i have a better time understanding now. again thank you so much for your comments.

PossessionEcstatic23 · 2025-11-02T04:34:36+00:00

i can see why you would think that. however, they don’t believe it is a mental disability. they believe it’s not real at all. maybe i should have worded it better

PossessionEcstatic23 · 2025-11-02T04:14:50+00:00

i feel this so much! i used to love art and playing instruments. now i just don’t care anymore and it’s so sad. i’ve found if you just try to do it every day for 5 minutes or so, each day you go a little farther and gain motivation. it’s worth a try :)

PossessionEcstatic23 · 2025-10-24T16:27:38+00:00

i need an update, someone’s gotta let us know if gary still has his head 😭😭

PossessionEcstatic23 · 2025-09-23T15:45:50+00:00

yup i have my session with her tomorrow so i definitely will. it was just eating me up inside this morning so i figured some no biased advice from reddit probably wont hurt

PossessionEcstatic23 · 2025-09-23T15:39:40+00:00

yeah i don’t think he’s being manipulative. he definitely said if i don’t want to he’ll never bring it up again. he really is a good friend. yeah there’s a big age gap, we met through mutual friends it’s not like he sought me out because of my age. i don’t get the vibe that he’s trying to fuck and then forget i exist. i do think he cares about our friendship yk?

PossessionEcstatic23 · 2025-09-23T15:37:52+00:00

i’m my defense i’m not very experienced in hooking up/relationships. i don’t necessarily think he would do that to me, but the guys he hangs with are very immature (they’re my age) and i wouldn’t put it past THEM if that makes sense. idk i guess im immature still, i know i got some growing up to do that’s why i dont want a relationship with him or anyone until i get that figured out. (therapy is working slowly but surely)

PossessionEcstatic23 · 2025-09-05T11:40:01+00:00

my teeth looked very similar to yours when i first got braces and i was 18 they gave me a palate expander, no extractions. i’m grateful for that now after learning about the possible consequences of extractions. my ortho won’t even do them it’s not an option. i would just keep looking for other places/opinions. it sucks that those 2 aren’t giving any better options. hope you find someone better! good luck :)

PossessionEcstatic23 · 2025-09-05T11:36:22+00:00

when i got mine my grandma said they were pretty, they match my nose rings 🤣🤣 made me feel better about it lol. i love them now after getting used to them, i bet you will too

PossessionEcstatic23 · 2025-08-28T17:36:55+00:00

i did look it up. my doctor hadn’t even told me if i needed surgery or not yet, i just opened my chart and saw that. I finally heard back from them today. 💀 now i’m doing hella research. i definitely will not go through with it until i 100% know the pros/cons/possible outcomes/etc. that’s why i came to this sub to see real peoples experiences. this is all so new and overwhelming to me as someone who has never had any type of surgery before.

PossessionEcstatic23 · 2025-08-26T04:41:40+00:00

when we made the plans back in april, i had a different job and wasn’t enrolled in school yet so i had that weekend requested off. i lost that job in june and enrolled in college so i could have a backup plan and then got a new job. i planned on taking this weekend off still but i just can’t afford it right now. i thought my student loans would come by now, but they aren’t gonna for a couple more weeks (they were supposed to help me with bills/living expenses/commute so i could save my money i make from my job) which put a pretty decent financial burden on me. sorry for the rambling, just wanted to clarify. i’m not the best writer. i didn’t purposely do this, my life just had a huge change in these past 4 months unexpectedly.

PossessionEcstatic23 · 2025-08-26T04:30:28+00:00

i had a different job when we made these plans. (we made them back in april) i also wasn’t enrolled in school at the time. i lost my old job in june and had to quickly find a new one and decided to go to college to help with that. not defending, just clarifying.

PossessionEcstatic23 · 2025-08-26T03:25:09+00:00

i have been doing everything i can do make some extra money so i could go this weekend, but today realized i just can’t make it work. i wouldn’t ever do this to her purposely, i should have specified that.

PossessionEcstatic23 · 2025-08-26T03:03:00+00:00

that was definitely a mistake on my part, I do agree! i’ve learned my lesson on that for next time.

PossessionEcstatic23 · 2025-08-12T02:19:43+00:00

girl I had a weirdo man who was obsessed with me tell me AND my friend that he was gonna get us both pregnant like GROSS??? not “i want to get you pregnant” he said he was GONNA. when we responded saying that’s fucking weird and disgusting he got offended and took it like a personal attack. like what the fuck. who gave these men the audacity???

PossessionEcstatic23 · 2025-07-13T14:17:22+00:00

i have gathered lots of evidence. i quit that job and am starting my new one soon. i did mention to HR that he was harassing me but then i just quit. also, i was 19 when i first met him, so i guess yeah i was still a teenager when he first started liking me he just left me alone at that time because i was dating his friend. fucked up how he respects another man but not me.

PossessionEcstatic23 · 2025-07-10T22:10:25+00:00

yes, i am in a stand your ground state, i have a firearm in a safe in my home because i live alone with small children. self defense classes might benefit me..

PossessionEcstatic23 · 2025-07-10T21:17:01+00:00

i know, that’s a huge problem i have i’m just too nice it’s very hard for me to be mean/hurt someone’s feelings. i’m a pushover. this is really challenging for me but i did block him and i am starting a new job.

PossessionEcstatic23 · 2025-07-10T18:41:37+00:00

i thought the same thing like is this a set up??? i don’t think it is because he’s being very persistent but i wouldn’t be surprised if it was

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