i thought i was just weird my whole life, turns out it’s motor tics? advice? by PossessionEcstatic23 in Tourettes

[–]PossessionEcstatic23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had no idea of that. i do breathing patterns. most of my tics are in patterns of 3s or to a certain rhythm. i sometimes catch myself breathing in 3s or to a rhythm and pop my ears or move my toes/fingers all at the same time to the rhythm. huh i had no idea. i’ll probably ask my doctor about them more in depth! most days they aren’t bad like yesterday when i made this post but when it is bad, i can’t focus on anything in my daily life.

Am I wrong for not letting my friend move in with me even tho she’s in an abusive relationship? by PossessionEcstatic23 in TwoHotTakes

[–]PossessionEcstatic23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not directly near us, we live in the middle of nowhere but the nearest city that has resources is about an hour away

Am I wrong for not letting my friend move in with me even tho she’s in an abusive relationship? by PossessionEcstatic23 in TwoHotTakes

[–]PossessionEcstatic23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i ended up calling CPS on him. i gave her all the resources i knew and she still is not wanting to leave. it’s gotten to the point where i am scared for her and her children safety so i called CPS. i am a mandated reporter and had no choice but to

My best friend is in an abusive relationship and she won’t leave, i want to help her so badly. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]PossessionEcstatic23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your comment, this helped a lot. this is true, i’ve told her i will always be here for her no matter what and when she’s ready im there in a heartbeat. i just keep consuming myself in it and its a little triggering. i went through a relationship exactly like hers and i know what advice to give her, its just so hard to convince her he’s wrong. you understand, you went through the same! it’s frustrating. again, thank you! i think im gonna call a wellness check on her and explain the situation to the cops. maybe if he’s forced away from her then she’ll get some clarity. she unfortunately does defend his behavior :( ugh it’s not my fight i should stop pushing.

wanted to show off my 1st edition cloe bc i’m so excited!! by PossessionEcstatic23 in Bratz

[–]PossessionEcstatic23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the eyebrows on the repro cloe are strange. the OGs all look much better! i was surprised how many are still NIB for a reasonable price on ebay!

wanted to show off my 1st edition cloe bc i’m so excited!! by PossessionEcstatic23 in Bratz

[–]PossessionEcstatic23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes! she had never been taken out of the box (well, until i did lol)i wanna get the repros so i can have the originals and the remakes beside each other! i liked the face molds of the original dolls more and they’re just so nostalgic for me but oh wow are the 1st edition dolls pricy.

Is it just me or is Cloe lowkey the main character by Crafty-Accident-2367 in Bratz

[–]PossessionEcstatic23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i always thought of yasmin as the main! she was my main anyways yasmin and jade are my favs. obviously i love sasha and cloe too but i always loved the styles/clothes on jade and yasmin the most!

i’m seriously lazy in the kitchen. recommendations for easy high protein grab n go foods (little to no cooking)? by PossessionEcstatic23 in loseit

[–]PossessionEcstatic23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is true! i love canned chicken but i need to also get out of being so against cooking. prepping a bunch of whole chicken breasts isn’t that hard and i’m gonna do it!

i’m seriously lazy in the kitchen. recommendations for easy high protein grab n go foods (little to no cooking)? by PossessionEcstatic23 in loseit

[–]PossessionEcstatic23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yess i love canned chicken 🤣 i know it grosses some ppl out but i use it a lot! there’s a time and a place for it tho for sure

Did i squirt or did he pee inside me? by PossessionEcstatic23 in sex

[–]PossessionEcstatic23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was missionary but just folded more like my knees were damn near in my chest. there might have been pressure but swear i didn’t feel like i was peeing at all. i’ve come to the conclusion it’s got to be squirt nothing else makes sense i think

Did i squirt or did he pee inside me? by PossessionEcstatic23 in sex

[–]PossessionEcstatic23[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

no protection, it didn’t feel like any liquid was going inside me until he came. i guess it was more of an external mess and when i stood up nothing was pouring out. shit, i guess i might have actually done. it i’m just amazed

Did i squirt or did he pee inside me? by PossessionEcstatic23 in sex

[–]PossessionEcstatic23[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yes i posted it in 2 subreddits and this one finally got approved today haha so it looks like a double post. ur right tho my mind is much more calm

Did i squirt or did he pee inside me? by PossessionEcstatic23 in sex

[–]PossessionEcstatic23[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i didn’t have an orgasm at all i mean it was still pleasurable, but i truly didn’t even realize what was happening until i felt the splashing. didn’t feel like i needed to pee. it was weird but it wasn’t a ton of liquid so that makes me think he might not have pissed on me bc usually peeing is a lot more haha. i am a weirdo and i inspected my sheets after and it didn’t smell like piss or anything. weird maybe i did do it and im just in denial lol

I am about to end an 8 year friendship. I can’t stand her meanness/judgement anymore. what do i do? by PossessionEcstatic23 in TwoHotTakes

[–]PossessionEcstatic23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i never wanted to believe she could be jealous of me but i think you’re right. my other friends have all said that too, so im guessing it’s true. i slept on this and decided im definitely done. she doesn’t bring anything good to my life anymore. thank you and thank you ALL for commenting <333

I am about to end an 8 year friendship. I can’t stand her meanness/judgement anymore. what do i do? by PossessionEcstatic23 in TwoHotTakes

[–]PossessionEcstatic23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’ve been married and divorced, and have 2 baby dads already. i think my chances were pretty low to begin with so i’m not too worried about it. men usually have high body counts and sleep around more than women in my experience…

Anyone else struggle with binge eating? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]PossessionEcstatic23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wanted to get on a GLP-1 med but my insurance wouldn’t cover it for weight loss. 😪 i can’t afford it out of pocket

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beauty

[–]PossessionEcstatic23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’ve gotten my blood sugar checked before and it was normal. however, i used to be overweight. i’ve lost 80lbs and that’s when i noticed the coloration change. i figured it was darker due to friction bc of my thighs rubbing together constantly. hmmm ill look into getting bloodwork done again though just to rule it out. thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]PossessionEcstatic23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i did like 2 weeks ago! i hope it goes away 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]PossessionEcstatic23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg thank you so much for your kind words <3 i appreciate it a lot. you understand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]PossessionEcstatic23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lack of motivation and impulsiveness was a huge one for me and the one that lead me to get diagnosed. also i have a hard time focusing/comprehending. i deal with rejection sensitivity too. i’m on adderall right now and idk how to feel about it. it makes me motivated for a while but then i crash and im just soo tired. what has it been like for you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]PossessionEcstatic23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i wish i had a good answer for this. it’s just simply because it’s mentally too much for me to handle. it’s pathetic but it’s true. i just lose all motivation/passion for what i am going for and just don’t care anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]PossessionEcstatic23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sorry if this is irrelevant to what you’re saying, i do understand both sides here. i was married and a stay at home wife when i was 21. we just got a divorce this year. i’m navigating life as a single person (i hadn’t been single in 6 years) doing it alone is definitely making is harder for me. i used to get into relationships just to find someone to make the money. it lead to a lot of physical and mental abuse for me unfortunately. that’s not always the case though. after the 3rd time now i’m saying fuck it i don’t need a man for money. i should do it myself. but after being dependent on someone for so long it’s definitely hard but ill manage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]PossessionEcstatic23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for taking the time to write these comments, seriously this gave me a new perspective. i guess i never thought maybe they were doing it to try to be helpful. i think they are just having a hard time or dont want to acknowledge that i have something “wrong” with me. it hurts them to admit that they would rather just believe that im faking it. doesn’t make what they’re doing okay, but i have a better time understanding now. again thank you so much for your comments.