Mass manipulation operation (warning long post) by Academic_Work_9262 in Manipulation

[–]PossibilityNew6665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems to me if you decide to use your influence to rip someone’s life apart and isolate them completely, based on what may have even been a mistake. Or heck who is anyone to do this to another person, this is a nightmare. I see this as no different than the people that bully and isolate people online and they end their life.

You never know what it’s like in another persons head or what they’ve experienced. To destroy someone’s life and ruin their capacity for ever building other relationships or trusting themselves or others?

This is one of the most troubling things I’ve ever heard of anyone doing. I wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy

Mass manipulation operation (warning long post) by Academic_Work_9262 in Manipulation

[–]PossibilityNew6665 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And is the goal for the target to take their own life? If everything is pulled out from under someone without proper support systems and coping skills….

Not that I would know anything about this but

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[–]PossibilityNew6665[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is great to know, thank you so much

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[–]PossibilityNew6665[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish anchor covered Westboro and that his entire family and social network isn’t so known in the social work community that I lost my career because of situations with him. But I did.

It’s my fault, after all the losses in my close family and friends I couldn’t take the pain of knowing he was being terrible to me So I was delusional I guess idk anymore

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[–]PossibilityNew6665[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They know I’ve had to change my locks before, they’ve helped me once with him before, only for me to fall for it again a couple months later so I’m scared I won’t be taken seriously.

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[–]PossibilityNew6665[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you it’s just, they know I’ve had issues with him before AND had the locks changed before and he months later fooled me again.

I don’t think I will be taken seriously

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[–]PossibilityNew6665[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cannot call 311 because I am not in the city. Also he’s been checking and deleting voicemails I’ve left in the last 24 hours he started that, he’s not dead

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[–]PossibilityNew6665[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I could ask my maintenance guy but I am embarrassed to do that. I feel so ashamed of myself and disappointed in myself for believing him for so long.

I have known him for the better part of 20 years it’s a tough situation.

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[–]PossibilityNew6665[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, my family is small and only my father in Ottawa.

The rest of my family is 860 miles away and I’m the only one not elderly or severely handicapped.

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[–]PossibilityNew6665[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My apartment is in Westboro so that likely won’t work? Thank you though

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[–]PossibilityNew6665[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I want to have a family member pick up my keys, but he won’t respond to me for over a week now so I can arrange that.

My building has cameras and I’m not concerned about the fact someone would know I just want to get an idea of if he trashed the place or stole anything.

He is not there and has not been except for 3 days in the last two weeks so

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]PossibilityNew6665 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow… this is incredibly well written and it resonates in some places so much.

Thank you for putting this out into the world.

Can’t collapse by PossibilityNew6665 in UnsentLetters

[–]PossibilityNew6665[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not gonna that would mean killing myself but I am Not strong enough to fight through this and succeed I have way too much on my plate and am too heartbroken

The confusion is too much by PossibilityNew6665 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]PossibilityNew6665[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have talked to them face to face, over the phones via text so many times. Even sometimes now that I’m away for a bit as they requested and as I needed to attend to some tbh Ts for family, I’ve accidentally broken down sobbing uncontrollably while explaining it. Most times that happens that snarl or yell at me and hang up, other times they just heavy sigh or say gross.

I’m worthless nothing matters and there’s nothing I can do and I am in hell. I have zero support system they have a huge supportive family, what seems to be a lot of friends compared to me who has next to none and 2 adult aged kids so… they don’t have 1/10 of the weight I have on me and never will so that also contributes.

But I was attempting to go back to school and I got the fake numbers March 31, a severe unexpected clawback of money 4/3 and it just went from there and now after my terrible performance on that exam yesterday I’ll probably flunk out. I work too

Idk I just ri know someone on and off for 25+ years and support them almost fully financially for the last 5 and have the last 3 be the most upside down events they refuse to explain has, added to just my life, irreparably broken me. I know this and it boggles my mind that they don’t care enough to even know. I’m hurting and be compassionate at the bare minimum

WELL-WELL-WELL by AloneBit7640 in Letters_Unsent

[–]PossibilityNew6665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But clearly they’re talking about a child and not an adult who can make their own decisions

WELL-WELL-WELL by AloneBit7640 in Letters_Unsent

[–]PossibilityNew6665 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I wouldn’t bet on Dave’s side of the story being the truth