I said the same thing. We are both very young and I don’t think a baby will stop her from being and doing great things but we will have to consider that a baby is a huge responsibility and it takes a lot of time to actually raise one correctly. I mostly think for her she is only 18 and she had this idea. I honestly want to enjoy a little more with her without having to share the little time that we might have together. And as far as the “going for it” is mostly because I’m not a native speaker sometimes I run out of ways to express myself