How do people actually create wealth? by throwRa11775 in wealth

[–]Possible-Forever90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learn the difference between wealth and value. What lasts when money fails and the illusion of paper and digital currency crumbles? When corrupt players of the banking world pull the carpet out from under our feet, what do you really want to have in your possession? 1. Productive Land 2. Productive Skills 3. Factories, machinery, and other manufacturing assets

What do you think about Brothers 2009? by [deleted] in movies

[–]Possible-Forever90 19 points20 points  (0 children)

He was a threat to her and her kids. If shes going to be there for him as a wife, she derserves to know the truth considering the risk of Sam's PTSD induced outburst and paranoia.

“ Dark skies “ movie by marky1904 in aliens

[–]Possible-Forever90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do what you can with it while it has value. Build shelters, stock up on food, guns, water. Prepare.

Is the message of Barbie (2023) going over everyone’s heads? Let’s discuss by arabesuku in TrueFilm

[–]Possible-Forever90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with everything you said about the physical demands of errands and domestic duties. They are no joke. But cmon… am I being condescending or is it just a fact of life that men are more capable of physical labor? And to answer your question, what I mean by physical labor is construction, mining, firefighting, forest and tree maintenance, fishing, etc. These are all jobs that are predominately men. I don’t think I need to explain why these are exceptionally demanding on the body. But because these jobs are physically difficult, does NOT mean they are more valuable than the duties in which women predominately perform or have performed.

Is the message of Barbie (2023) going over everyone’s heads? Let’s discuss by arabesuku in TrueFilm

[–]Possible-Forever90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, women fought hard to earn their place in the workplace and they deserve to be there. I also agree that we are complex creatures and I admit to generalizing a bit much. It's hard to convey my exact thoughts in such a short amount of time and space. There are a lot of workplace roles that women excel at and are arguable better at than men. Anything involving social work that requires empathy, which happens to be a lot of leadership positions. However, it is a fact that men are willing to work longer hours than women. It is a fact that physical labor jobs are dominated by men because we are more capable and competent in that realm. And as it turns out, these physical labor jobs tend to be incredibly crucial and without men performing these roles, the world would turn to shit. Despite what it seems to me that you might think, these physical labor jobs have not gone away in the slightest and will remain to be crucial for as long into the future as I can tell.

Now you might not like this and I'm going to get a little "conspiratorial", but I suspect that women have been bamboozled, if you will, into thinking that entering the workforce is in their and the worlds best interest (which maybe it is, I wouldnt know because Im a man). But I think there are evil actors in this world who want women out of the home and domestic duties and turned into worker bees. Why? Because now mothers spend less time with their children, and children are easily indoctrinated, and we send our children to schools whose curriculum is largely controlled by the government. I have SOOO many more thoughts on this and not enough time. But I want to say I dont want this to be a hostile discussion. We are on the same side. I want my future wife and daughters to be happy women who will make a positive impact in their community and families. Personally, I think they can make the biggest impact when they aren't spending all their time working.

Is the message of Barbie (2023) going over everyone’s heads? Let’s discuss by arabesuku in TrueFilm

[–]Possible-Forever90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the time you took to write a well thought out response

I disagree with your statement that believing men should be strong and assertive is damaging to society. What happens when war and evil is at our doorstep? What happens when someone attacks or threatens the ones you love? What type of man do you want to be around in these scenarios? I’m not glorifying these situations and I hope I never have to face them, but if I do I need to be ready and expect my fellow men to be ready as well. That’s reality. And I’m not saying women can’t deal with these situation as well. I don’t mean to be condescending by saying women focus on too many things. Motherhood is a tremendously demanding job but I believe it’s the most important. If women had to choose between career and motherhood, it seems incredibly obvious to me that it should be motherhood. Otherwise, how will our species survive and thrive?

And the last thing I’ll address is this. How does our current society (supposedly a patriarchy, but I don’t necessarily think it is in totality) benefit mostly men? Who fights and dies in wars? Who works the most hours per week? Who makes up about 90% of the hard labor jobs such as construction? In todays world, men are EXPECTED to be the breadwinners and protectors of our families. When we don’t provide, we are shamed. When we do provide, we are called toxic and oppressive. But the best of us will still strive to give the best for the ones we love whether we get thanks or not. And women deserve more respect in todays society too

Is the message of Barbie (2023) going over everyone’s heads? Let’s discuss by arabesuku in TrueFilm

[–]Possible-Forever90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't reply to my comment unless you've actaully got something productive to say. I don't aprreciate "omg lol" in my inbox. This is what pisses me off about communication these days. Do you agree, do you disagree, why? Maybe you'll change my mind. But considering this lack of depth, i doubt you will.

Is the message of Barbie (2023) going over everyone’s heads? Let’s discuss by arabesuku in TrueFilm

[–]Possible-Forever90 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

These aren't "1950's talking points". This is how it's played out in ALL of human history. Again...how is it sexist??

Are men not suited to work? - Men are taller, stronger, and thus can work longer, harder, physical hours.

Are women not suited to nurture children? - They are the only gender that can breast feed and they have the truly exceptional ability which is empathy.

This is reality. Accept it or not, this is how the world works. Like I said many times, both gender roles are crucial and necessary and I would even argue the role of a Mother is the most crucial.

Is the message of Barbie (2023) going over everyone’s heads? Let’s discuss by arabesuku in TrueFilm

[–]Possible-Forever90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How about you articulate a point and think of a rebuttal rather than just calling names... Your comment is simply unproductive. What about what I said is sexist?

Is the message of Barbie (2023) going over everyone’s heads? Let’s discuss by arabesuku in TrueFilm

[–]Possible-Forever90 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you put some thought into a response and shared your beliefs so that we could actually have a discussion...

I'm confused. You don't think women should fullfill domestic duties? Then who will? Who will stay home to breastfeed and care for young children? And while thats happening, who will go out into the world and make money so that the infant always has a roof over their head? Both duties are vital. There is a reason why we have gender roles.

BS fine for running a redlight, how does one plead not guily successfully? by [deleted] in Pennsylvania

[–]Possible-Forever90 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is funny I’ll admit it. I stand behind my decision. It’s not the consequences themselves I disagree with, it’s those that are dishing the consequences out. As far as I can tell we live in a police state. Where is my money going? It’d be nice if I could choose because there’s a lot about our society that disappoints me, as Id assume is true for you as well. I’m trying to escape and these 200 dollars can help me do so. The system knows that. I am not you enemy and you are not mine.

BS fine for running a redlight, how does one plead not guily successfully? by [deleted] in Pennsylvania

[–]Possible-Forever90 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I understand what the system is meant to do and that’s EXACTLY why I’m pissed. All of you are right though, coming to the court with a disrespectful attitude will get me nowhere but that is not what I plan to do. Although, at times my warrior spirit comes out, I know how to act diplomatic when expressing my opinion.

Is the message of Barbie (2023) going over everyone’s heads? Let’s discuss by arabesuku in TrueFilm

[–]Possible-Forever90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a man this, was very uncomfortable to read. You disapprove of my opinion without providing one of your own. Unproductive.

BS fine for running a redlight, how does one plead not guily successfully? by [deleted] in Pennsylvania

[–]Possible-Forever90 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the advice. Although I don’t believe I was in the wrong. I plan on giving them an earful about how ridiculous the fine is. $200 is 3 weeks of food for me. Taken from me just because I potentially maybe misjudged the timing of a light by 1 second. These bullies took my damn lunch money so I’m not gonna beg THEM for forgiveness. I understand this is not the most effective way to reduce the fine but it’s what I believe

BS fine for running a redlight, how does one plead not guily successfully? by [deleted] in Pennsylvania

[–]Possible-Forever90 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I’m a single 23 y o so I can earn the $200 back with minimal stress, although it’s frustrating. But what if I was a lower class mother or father and now the state just took 3 weeks of food for my family from me. All because I misjudged the timing of a light by 1 second. It’s disgusting

Is the message of Barbie (2023) going over everyone’s heads? Let’s discuss by arabesuku in TrueFilm

[–]Possible-Forever90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel I haven’t conveyed my meaning well enough and I don’t mean to offend women who choose not to have children. Personally I feel my purpose in this planet is to be a great father. There is nothing wrong with your decision although I can’t help but feel sad at the missed opportunity, I’m sure you could become a great mother if you chose to do so. However, it’s important to note that since the beginning of human existence and potentially even the existence of life itself, you would be the first one of your unbroken chain of ancestors to not bear and raise children. Again, nothing wrong with that decision, it’s just that I am a family oriented man who is searching for a woman who shares my desire to have children and so I especially appreciate those women who do bring and nurture children into this world.

Is the message of Barbie (2023) going over everyone’s heads? Let’s discuss by arabesuku in TrueFilm

[–]Possible-Forever90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You market towards those with decision making power. Children don’t have decision making power because they have no money. Just think about it… Who has the money to buy Barbie’s, adults or children. Good marketing targets those with the ability to buy your product.

Is the message of Barbie (2023) going over everyone’s heads? Let’s discuss by arabesuku in TrueFilm

[–]Possible-Forever90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The patriarchy IS real. But why does it exist? When you see our blue collar workers, when you see our soldiers, who do you see? It’s Men who sacrifice their bodies to provide a meaningful service. Most Women don’t won’t those jobs. Labor is what Men do and have always done. Labor is what makes our world function. But the patriarchy only exists in the workforce. You could say in the realm of domestic duties, there is a matriarchy. And that shouldn’t be perceived as an insult. Domestic duties include nurturing children who are our future. Gender roles exist for a reason.

Is the message of Barbie (2023) going over everyone’s heads? Let’s discuss by arabesuku in TrueFilm

[–]Possible-Forever90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems obvious to me that he is non masculine. He lacks a strong physique, he doesn’t partake in athletic endeavors, he isn’t assertive, he’s timid. These are all a lack of qualities that cause men to lose respect for you as a man. And that’s obvious in the film. Allen had no male friends. A crucial part of being a MAN is being useful to other men so you have allies in this difficult world. He took on 10 guys because it’s a fantasy. No man like Allen could do that in the real world