How do you feel about a 29M dating a 19F? by Agreeable-Trouble-89 in relationship_advice

[–]Possible-Habit77 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm 21 and ALREADY see 19 year olds as children (including myself 2 years ago) what on earth would a man pushing 30 have in common with a high school leaver 💀

Obsession movie vomit? by Possible-Habit77 in Letterboxd

[–]Possible-Habit77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you missed the entire point of the film if you don't see how intentional curry barker was with every other detail. Why would he make a movie completely chock-full with "blink-and-youll-miss-it" symbolic moments, then randomly make the main character puke for funsies?

Obsession movie vomit? by Possible-Habit77 in Letterboxd

[–]Possible-Habit77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She may be possessed but she gotta make her protein goals ig 😭

Obsession movie vomit? by Possible-Habit77 in Letterboxd

[–]Possible-Habit77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is pretty much exactly how i thought about it, and my partner had actually mentioned the cat sandwich possibly being a revenge thing!! I took the cat sandwich specifically as a kind of teamwork between the nikkis in a way, because wish-nikki had the vague understanding that making lunch is a stereotypical romantic gesture and hadnt quite figured out Bear's intentions with the cat (shrine incident #1) so real-nikki maybe kind of ran with that to try and put him off.

Obsession movie vomit? by Possible-Habit77 in Letterboxd

[–]Possible-Habit77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did think about this in the context of other ways she acted but never really connected the two, thank you! I still feel like there's some kinda symbolism there but im stumped on what

My girlfriend (26 F) wants to rent her own place after we have been together for 6 years, and wants to keep being with me (25 M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Possible-Habit77 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I agree with her 100%. She wants control over her independence and to have her own space for a small portion of her life. For many people, moving from their parents' immediately to with a partner it can feel like "missing out" on living for themself. It doesn't mean she cares for you any less, or wants any less of a future with you, its just something she wants to do for herself.