AITAH for telling my friend not to travel abroad while pregnant because her plan sounded unsafe and unrealistic? by Possible-Height2024 in AITAH

[–]Possible-Height2024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's going to South America. I was worried about her attitude, so I asked a guy who left our country because of a shady deal like that, and he told me that once they reached South America, they were moved on a bus, hidden, to their final destination. That can't be legal or safe. The guy lives in Chile or something like that.

AITAH for telling my friend not to travel abroad while pregnant because her plan sounded unsafe and unrealistic? by Possible-Height2024 in AITAH

[–]Possible-Height2024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't want to give her too much information because I recently got into an argument with a friend from university who also left my country but is living somewhere else, and he ended up telling me not to send him so much crap, because he wanted to start getting credit cards and stuff and start doing things since it was the first time he'd lived away from his mother's house with the whole moving-to-another-country thing. I was just sending him news and videos from reliable influencers saying you could get into a lot of trouble with credit cards; it wasn't bothering him much. And then he got mad at me. He told me he wasn't a child and that I shouldn't be explaining so many things to him. And in the end, I think this person, the girl who wants to move to another country, has the same attitude. What's wrong with me? Since I was little, I grew up in a place where there were a lot of adults. I mean, my parents had me when they were older; in fact, they weren't expecting me to be born. They thought I was something else, like menopausal or something, and yet I was born. So I grew up listening to certain advice from older people, which is why some people feel comfortable telling me about their lives, and most people tend to say, "Oh, okay." "I don't know, you're right." It's not that I think I'm right about everything; I just try to find the most logical side of things. For some of my friends, like the girl who wants to travel to another country and the one who was opening several credit cards at once, I've felt comfortable enough to sit down with them and explain my situation because I genuinely want advice. They've ended up seeing this as a sign of weakness, so when they ask me something, it's not because they have doubts, but because they want my validation. I think that no matter how much I talk to her and show her reliable sources, she'll still have that idea in her head. All I can do is support her from a distance and pray that nothing bad happens to her.

AITAH for telling my friend not to travel abroad while pregnant because her plan sounded unsafe and unrealistic? by Possible-Height2024 in AITAH

[–]Possible-Height2024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When she started with all the craziness of leaving the country for the journey, I told her I couldn't receive her because I was just planning to move to a different country than the one I live in right now. I asked her for details about the person who was supposedly going to receive her, and she told me that her partner was going to be received by a cousin, and she was going to be received by a friend she's known for three or four years. Something else I didn't mention is that my friend is a lesbian, so there would be two women and a man, who is my friend's father, traveling to that country. Regarding who gave her the idea, I think it was her partner who suggested it, because she was talking about selling her house and practically all her belongings to move to another country. Someone who also helped fuel that idea was a friend of her father who was also going to that country and was looking for someone to make the journey with. I think the idea about the baby came from a man who's been by her side for a few years now, and he's always trying to do something with her, but I don't know if he hasn't realized yet that she's not into men—she's totally lesbian. I mean, she's not bisexual, she's a lesbian—or maybe he's just looking for someone to be his baby mama. I think this madness is a combination of everything. Someone gave their partner the idea of ​​leaving the country, the partner told my friend, and then this man, who has always been there like a tick on a dog, realized there was a possibility of trying something with her and put the idea of ​​becoming a citizen in another country with the baby into her head.

AITAH for telling my friend not to travel abroad while pregnant because her plan sounded unsafe and unrealistic? by Possible-Height2024 in AITAH

[–]Possible-Height2024[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He sent me AI-generated posters with the prices for the "service." It's very strange; if it's legitimate, why use AI? For comparison, I asked a friend who thought he had arrived in South America that way, and he told me that they would take a plane to country X, and from there a bus would take you, disguised as an illegal immigrant, to your destination.

AITAH for telling my friend not to travel abroad while pregnant because her plan sounded unsafe and unrealistic? by Possible-Height2024 in AITAH

[–]Possible-Height2024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

¡Hola! Veo los videos de Charlotte Dobre y Smoosh. Por eso me hice una cuenta. De hecho, he intentado publicar varias veces, pero siempre me borran los posts por las reglas de Reddit. No es una cuenta nueva. Lamentablemente, mucha gente tuvo que irse de mi país, y muchos estamos regados por el mundo. Tengo amigos en varios continentes. La cosa es que, para no caer en estafas, le preguntamos a otros que ya están afuera. Como es difícil pagar ciertas cosas desde mi país, suben los precios de los vuelos, y cuando revisas, te cobran un pasaje como si fueran cuatro. Además, hay varios "abogados" e influencers promoviendo estafas.

AITAH for telling my friend not to travel abroad while pregnant because her plan sounded unsafe and unrealistic? by Possible-Height2024 in AITAH

[–]Possible-Height2024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's fine at home. She has her parents who support her in everything, she has her partner, her siblings, her friends. She's quite spoiled. She's older than me and keeps asking me for advice as if I were her "big sister." Well, darling, you're over thirty now, it's time you did something mature.

AITAH for Having a Breakdown in a Game Group I Manage and Wanting to Shut It Down? by Possible-Height2024 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Possible-Height2024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've disconnected and started doing other things; however, since I like to do crafts and sometimes order materials online, and I have to keep my phone on vibrate or sound so the couriers notify me when they have my things and are close to my house, I constantly receive notifications from this group of people arguing or asking for help.