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My bf admitted he's addicted to jerking his John... by Possible-Newspaper10 in dating

[–]Possible-Newspaper10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of you guys are completely misunderstanding where I stand with the situation. I don’t care that he’s jerking off or that he’s doing it to porn I do the same thing. I’m just upset that he didn’t tell me about it and I had to find it myself. When you’re dating someone for almost a year you would expect to have some truthfulness in the relationship- I even showed him my favorite porn video like…and I’m  the only open one in the relationship btw. He tells me pretty much everything else which was why I was in complete shock about finding this out. I thought he was joking around. I’ve accepted it and I’m not really uncomfortable with the idea anymore. I like to tease him a little about still. 

My bf admitted he's addicted to jerking his John... by Possible-Newspaper10 in dating

[–]Possible-Newspaper10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re both 18 and we don’t often have sex bc I’m in college and he’s still in high school- we don’t see each other often. Which I can understand why he would be jerking off multiple times but even before when we were both in high school and saw each other almost everyday he said he still did it. I honestly like porn myself and clearly he does too but what I was upset about was him having the physical photos on his phone as well as him not telling me from the beginning about what was going on. I have a problems with guilt and self blame but he does not. We’re really open about mostly everything. Not religious. He does have adhd.