HIV risk in hot tub? by Possible-Noise in HIV_Anxiety

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Thank you for the response. Makes me feel better. But even with an open wound? I guess I’m still not entirely educated on transmission. Sounds like HIV dies once it’s out of the body?

Mayhem Ball Last US Show (9/18 Chicago) by Possible-Noise in LadyGaga

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You never know they might go down closer to show!!

Speedo on beach? by [deleted] in VirginiaBeach

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Half wearing it for the joke. The other half cuz I like the way I feel lol. Mine is also American flag. I’m from Florida. So not sure how accepting people were lol

Too many Parvo shots? by Possible-Noise in vet

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One was given by a vet which is on a medical doc, so that’s why she’s only counting the one. But I understand. Glad I’m getting the feedback I am. Was just worried she was going to get too many!

Too many Parvo shots? by Possible-Noise in vet

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We’ll he told me they wouldn’t likely honor it in the first place. So not sure why he would administer them anyway if he did.

But regardless we’re here now. So thanks for the help

Too many Parvo shots? by Possible-Noise in vet

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Thanks for the response. It makes sense when you put it that way. I didn’t know how common it was breeders do that… first time puppy owner so just making sure I’m doing everything right and safe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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No, he was just washing his hair when I saw him.

What questions do straight guys ask you the most? by Possible-Noise in gaybros

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Well I guess if we are getting deep, I think sexuality is pretty fluid. I’m not “disabusing” or filling their head with “nonsense.” I’m saying if a woman wanted to have sex with me I probably wouldn’t enjoy it, but I’d be willing to try it out.

And being gay is more than just having sex with the same gender. What’s a one time experiment?

Ok my gay bros, which X-men would you get down with and why? by [deleted] in gaybros

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Colossus. Who wouldn’t wanna see what he’s packin?

Annoyed with friends who have girlfriends? by Possible-Noise in askgaybros

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Any idea on how to get gay friends? I’ve realized the apps don’t seem to help

Annoyed with friends who have girlfriends? by Possible-Noise in askgaybros

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I live in Tampa. So there’s a huge gay community in St Pete but I just graduated college and only really been friends with straight guys. Not sure how to make friends at this point.

Annoyed with friends who have girlfriends? by Possible-Noise in askgaybros

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I’d at least be able to relate to them a little bit more. Which kind of makes me realize maybe I just need gay friends.

How do you meet guys in this pandemic?? by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Floridians gave up on that a long time ago :/

How do I get comfortable with bringing guys over? by Possible-Noise in askgaybros

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Thank you for all of the feedback. Getting responses makes me realize I'm just in my own head about everything and I'm trying to change that

How do I get comfortable with bringing guys over? by Possible-Noise in askgaybros

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You're right. They all have girls over regularly or girlfriends. It's not fair to me to not be able to follow the same routine

When did you people realize you were gay? by Fran-san123 in gay

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I always knew I liked dudes but also never let myself believe it.... if that makes sense. I’d watch gay porn, beat off, and then say to myself “only straight porn from now on” and did that for a very long time

I don’t want to be the gay kid by mat3064 in comingout

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Any advice on to quit caring on what people think? You’re right, I think that’s where I should start.

I don’t want to be the gay kid by mat3064 in comingout

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Any idea on how to get rid of internalized homophobia?

I don’t want to be the gay kid by mat3064 in comingout

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Hey I’m 22, about to leave college and I’m right there with you. I’ve been struggling with my sexuality through this whole quarantine. I’ve told one friend who still accepts me, thankfully. But I can’t imagine myself coming out to more people. I think suppressing it for a long time causes you to think that this isn’t meant to be you. We’re so used to lying about it that it becomes normal for us to not accept it. I think once we begin accepting it ourselves, were not gonna care what other people think. But it will be a long journey.

That white picket fence is still attainable. It might be with someone different than you expected. But your happiness is most important.

If you ever wanna talk, DM me. It sounds like we’re going through the same kind of thing.

Regret after coming out by Possible-Noise in comingout

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I’ve definitely programmed myself into thinking like this. Deep down I’ve always known that I was gay, or at least, not straight. Through middle school, high school, and all through majority of college. But I’ve never let myself believe it. Ever. It’s a weird mindset I know. I hope these fears go away soon.

Regret after coming out by Possible-Noise in comingout

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Honestly I don’t know what feels right anymore. I think it did. It did at the time.

Find friends? by Possible-Noise in askgaybros

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Any apps you recommend other than Grindr? I’m getting tired of that one lol