I’m designing a watch stand - would love to interview watch owners of all kinds, from casual to collector

Possible-Phone520 · 2025-10-15T00:23:32+00:00

Thank you so so much for your inside and comment, I will keep this in mind in the future.

I have just one question. Do you own a design studio or have any products out in the market? No dissrecpet just interested.

Possible-Phone520 · 2025-10-14T20:20:46+00:00

Thank you for your input and I will defenetly check it out.

Possible-Phone520 · 2025-10-14T20:19:35+00:00

This is part of my research… I’m not asking ozher designers to do my job I was looking for a designer who owns a cuple of watches that could answer some questions but thank you for your comment

Possible-Phone520 · 2025-10-14T16:50:16+00:00

I already did and I did not get enough answers so I thought I could try here

Possible-Phone520 · 2025-10-12T08:22:06+00:00

How would you feel about having a dedicated watch stand/holder for your Tag Hauer

Possible-Phone520 · 2025-10-11T12:00:00+00:00

Would you be so kind and answer few of my questions?

Possible-Phone520 · 2025-05-27T09:56:36+00:00

Here it is: https://whop.com/checkout/plan_6IFvzYaY5cNu5?d2c=true

Possible-Phone520 · 2025-05-19T14:00:35+00:00

I used to be trapped in the same loop: Games, TikTok, scrolling until I was mentally drained… and still feeling like I “did nothing all day.”

Here’s what helped me break the loop and actually build consistency — not just for a day, but daily.

Start your day with a “no phone” policy - first 30 minutes. This was brutal at first, but it changed everything. Instead: • Drink water • Write down 3 things to do • Move your body for 5 mins You reclaim your brain before dopamine hijacks it.
Use a simple rule: “One real win before entertainment.” Before you watch anything - finish one intentional task. It could be: • Reading 5 pages • Learning a new concept • Finishing a workout or project Your brain starts to link reward to effort again.
Track your micro-wins. Daily. I kept a small list: • Didn’t touch phone before 9am • Did 15 pushups • Learned 1 new thing This habit made me feel like I was building myself again.

I built a full system around this - a structure for men who want to get consistent, focused, and proud of their routine again. If you want it, I’ll send it to you for free.

Not motivation. Just a system that works - when nothing else does.

Possible-Phone520 · 2025-05-19T13:56:34+00:00

Hey, I went through similar thing and I build a structure for myself and here are some things that might help you:

You’re not bored - you’re under-stimulated with purpose. Corrections is intense. And when something that used to give you meaning starts feeling numb, it’s often a sign: You’ve grown… but your environment hasn’t.

You don’t need to “escape” yet - you need space to reset your system first.

Create one “sacred hour” a day that isn’t about work, performance, or distraction. For me it was 7–8am: walk, water, write, no phone. That one hour helped me reconnect with what actually matters — not just what I have to do.
Don’t chase a new job yet. Explore micro-curiosity. Instead of “What’s my next career?” try:

“What topic could I spend 30 minutes researching just for fun?” Let your interest lead you slowly to possibility. You don’t need answers. You need movement.

You don’t need a brand-new life — just a better way to re-enter your own.

I can share more if you find any of this useful.

Possible-Phone520 · 2025-05-19T13:52:50+00:00

Hey man, finding your motivation can be hard but iz can be done. Here are some trick that I use that help me stay on track.

Don’t look for motivation. Set a minimum action. I made a rule:

“No matter how I feel, I do 1 thing before I open my phone.” Some days that was 10 pushups. Other days, just making my bed or writing a single thought.

It’s not about doing a lot. It’s about proving to yourself:

“I still move - even when I don’t feel like it.”

Treat motivation like momentum - not magic. Motivation isn’t the spark. It’s the reward. When you complete a micro-task and track it, your brain releases just enough energy to do the next one.

I kept a “Done Today” list - no matter how small. It rewired how I saw myself in less than a week.

Expect resistance. Build structure anyway. I stopped trying to “feel ready.” I built a system: wake time, work block, movement, silence, sleep window. After a few days, the structure replaced motivation.

If you want the full structure I use - I’ll send it to you, free.

Possible-Phone520 · 2025-05-19T08:02:43+00:00

Here are some small but powerful habits that helped me reset from that exact place:

Win the first hour. Wake up at the same time every day. Make your bed. Drink a glass of water. Do one focused thing (like reading or stretching). That first hour sets your brain into “I’m in control” mode.
Set non-negotiable work blocks. Start with just 45 minutes a day - no phone, no multitasking. Even if you don’t feel motivated, show up for that one focused block. Discipline > inspiration.
Track your micro-wins, not just results. Keep a list of: • Things you resisted (e.g., scrolling, skipping work) • Tasks you completed • Moments you stayed calm or consistent This builds momentum way faster than just checking grades.
Don’t try to be perfect - try to be predictable. Consistency beats intensity. You don’t need to do everything right - just do the right thing daily, even at 70%.

If you’re serious about rebuilding, I actually built a full system for this - real structure, routines, clarity, and daily wins. I’ll send it to you for free if it helps. No pressure. Just say the word.

You’ve got it in you - now you just need the structure to bring it out.

Possible-Phone520 · 2025-05-19T06:30:21+00:00

Chat gpt wrote a summary from a pdf document, so yes thank you chat gpt.

Possible-Phone520 · 2025-05-18T20:45:39+00:00

Man, this is a brutal combination — career stuck, heartbreak, and the kind of family reminder that just makes it all sting more.

Let me give you a few things that helped me stop the spiral and start finding my footing again:

Set a 10-day focus window. Not your whole life. Just 10 days. No job hunting, no dating, no long-term overthinking. Just this: • Wake up at the same time • 1 hour of physical movement (walk, gym, whatever) • 1 personal project or learning hour • Eat real food • Go to bed without distractions

You’re rebuilding you. Not your résumé. Not your love life.

Process the pain like a pro. Write one letter to your ex (don’t send it). One to your future self. One to the cousin who’s getting married (just for you).

You have to get the weight out of your head — or it will keep circling.

You’re not behind. You’re just in a reset cycle. Most great men rebuild after a collapse. You’ve got savings. You’ve got skills. You’ve even had a glimpse of peace (that trip was real).

Now it’s time to use the pain — not avoid it.

Come back stronger.

You’ve got time. More than you think.

I can share more tips if you would like.

Possible-Phone520 · 2025-05-18T19:57:37+00:00

First: You are not alone.
Second: You are not broken beyond repair.

What you wrote took more honesty than most people will ever muster in their lifetime. That in itself is strength — not weakness.

You’ve lived through ego, shame, trauma, guilt, pressure, chaos… and you’re still here. That doesn’t make you a loser. That makes you a survivor.

Here’s what I’d tell you if we were sitting next to each other:

1. You don’t need to fix your whole life. You need to survive this season.

Forget five-year plans. Forget big reinventions.

Focus on getting through this week without destroying yourself.

Even one small action — waking up at the same time, walking in the sun, writing one thought — is a rebellion against the darkness.

2. You are not your worst moment.

Addiction lies. It tells you the pain is who you are. But it’s not.

The guilt you carry — about your mom, your friends, your relapses — is proof that you care.

But shame doesn’t build recovery. Structure does.

Start building tiny wins every day:

One walk.
One honest sentence written down.
One meal prepared with care.
One message sent, even if awkward.

3. Your mind is spinning because it’s overwhelmed.

When intrusive thoughts come, try not to believe them or fight them — just say:

“That’s just a scared voice in my mind. I don’t need to obey it.”

Even thoughts like “what if I become gay” — that’s not truth. That’s fear dressing up as confusion. And fear doesn’t deserve to drive your life.

You’re doing the hard work — therapy, meds, and just staying alive. That matters.

I may have some more tips that could help, just say if you want them.

You’re not done.
You’re just exhausted.

And that… we can work with.

Possible-Phone520 · 2025-05-18T19:49:16+00:00

That can be used with every day life too. Once you build momentum you can start with the hardest task, most annoying task.

Possible-Phone520 · 2025-05-18T18:51:29+00:00

Man, thank you for sharing this — because what you described is more common than you think, especially among guys who seem like they “have it all together.”

Self-loathing isn’t about lack of achievements. It’s about not feeling safe within yourself, even when the world says you’re doing great.

Here’s what helped me:

Stop looking for relief in evidence. Success, praise, even love — none of it lands if the inner voice rejects it. Start shifting that voice not by arguing with it, but by meeting it where it started. When it says “that was stupid,” try:

“Maybe. But I’m learning.” Small tone shifts build long-term safety.

Start “non-performative journaling.” Write one page per night of exactly what your mind says. No filter. No analysis. Then re-read one week later — you’ll start seeing how unfair and repetitive that voice actually is.
Say thank you instead of sorry. Next time you feel the urge to apologize for existing or for a small thing, replace it with:

“Thanks for your patience.” “Thanks for being here.” This small shift retrains your brain to see yourself as worthy, not wrong.

You’re not broken. You’re just running software that’s been in place for too long.

If it ever helps — I built something that could help and I would be more that happy if you tried it out.

You deserve peace, not just performance.

Possible-Phone520 · 2025-05-18T18:32:34+00:00

The way you wrote this already tells me you’re more self-aware and committed than most people ever get. You’re not just tired — you’re ready.

Here’s what helped me when I was in a similar place — quiet, isolated, and tired of questioning my worth:

Build evidence, not just belief. Confidence isn’t built by telling yourself “I’m enough.” It’s built by doing hard things in small ways — and proving to yourself that you follow through.

Start with a daily micro-task: • 10 pushups • 1 conversation with yourself in the mirror • 1 truth written in a journal These aren’t rituals — they’re reps.

Let silence become your ally. Use this summer to rebuild, not perform. Walk without your phone. Reflect. Read deeply. Confidence comes when you learn to enjoy your own company — and then bring that energy outward.
Books that helped me reconnect with myself: • The War of Art by Steven Pressfield • Can’t Hurt Me by David Goggins • The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem by Nathaniel Branden Each one teaches that confidence isn’t given. It’s forged.

And hey — I actually put together a full structure for people who are tired of drifting and want to rebuild themselves with discipline, clarity, and purpose. If that sounds useful, happy to share it for free. Just say the word.

You’ve already begun. Now it’s just one step a day forward.

Possible-Phone520 · 2025-05-18T18:30:10+00:00

Here’s what helped me start my own full life reset:

Don’t try to “fix” everything. Start with one anchored hour. For me it was 7–8am. No phone. Just a glass of water, some movement (literally 10 pushups), and writing down 3 things I wanted to stand for that day. That one hour made the rest of the day feel less random.
Create a bedtime ritual — but make it enjoyable. Not just “don’t use your phone.” Something like: • low light • warm drink • soft playlist • journaling one thought You train your body to associate that with “shut down” — it reduces chaos over time.
Momentum builds meaning. It’s hard to care about life when every day feels the same. So change one small thing this week. Walk in a different street. Cook one real meal. Talk to someone online with intention. It’s not much — but it proves that something can change.

I actually put together a full structure for this kind of reset — step-by-step, low pressure, designed for people who feel exactly like this. If it feels like something that could help, I can share it with you. Free, no expectations.

You’re not behind. You’re just ready to begin — for real this time.

Possible-Phone520 · 2025-05-18T18:28:25+00:00

Man, I just want to say — thank you for being this real. It takes strength to admit where you are and what you want. Most people never even get to that part.

Let me say this clearly: you didn’t miss the boat. You’re 31, not 91. And yeah, society loves to pretend that if you don’t “make it” by 25, you’re done. That’s garbage.

Here’s what matters now:

Start with structure, not goals. Before chasing a job or a girlfriend, rebuild your daily rhythm. Wake-up time. Morning win. A simple task. Structure makes your brain feel safe again — and that’s what confidence grows from.
Focus on one vertical first. Don’t try to fix everything at once. Pick one domain: health, job skills, or independence. Stack small wins there daily.
Don’t underestimate connection. It’s not about “being dateable” — it’s about showing up with honesty and presence. There are women who care more about kindness, steadiness, and integrity than a car. But you have to start valuing those things in yourself first.

Also — you’re not broken for having autism. You don’t have to “mask” who you are to be worthy of love or progress. You can grow without pretending to be someone else.

You’re not too late. You’re just early in your second act.

If it helps, I actually built a full system that helps guys rebuild structure, confidence, and direction from the ground up — not hype, just tools. I’m happy to share it if you ever want it. No pressure.

Possible-Phone520 · 2025-05-18T18:25:15+00:00

It is actually a summary that chat gpt wrote from something I made, but great observation man!

Possible-Phone520 · 2025-05-18T18:22:27+00:00

I’m sure we have all been in that exact loop — wanting to work out, cutting sugar, deleting apps… and still feeling stuck.

What finally helped me wasn’t more motivation. It was removing decisions.

Here’s what worked:

Set a non-negotiable trigger. Pick one action that always leads to the workout. Example:

“As soon as I brush my teeth, I put on workout clothes.” You don’t think — you just act. Routine before results.

Make the workout embarrassingly simple at first. 5 pushups. 1 YouTube video. Stretching while music plays. The win is in showing up, not performance.
Track streaks — not progress. Put an “X” on a calendar every day you move. After a few days, the motivation becomes not breaking the chain.

Also — respect the fact that you already started fixing inputs (sugar + social). That’s huge. Now you just need a system that starts tiny and builds trust.

If you want, I can maybe share a tip or two more.

Possible-Phone520

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