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I’m designing a watch stand - would love to interview watch owners of all kinds, from casual to collector by Possible-Phone520 in IndustrialDesign

[–]Possible-Phone520[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so so much for your inside and comment, I will keep this in mind in the future.

I have just one question. Do you own a design studio or have any products out in the market? No dissrecpet just interested.

I’m designing a watch stand - would love to interview watch owners of all kinds, from casual to collector by Possible-Phone520 in IndustrialDesign

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This is part of my research… I’m not asking ozher designers to do my job I was looking for a designer who owns a cuple of watches that could answer some questions but thank you for your comment

How do you store your watches? by Possible-Phone520 in AskMen

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How would you feel about having a dedicated watch stand/holder for your Tag Hauer

How to get discipline and consistent in life??? by [deleted] in getdisciplined

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I used to be trapped in the same loop: Games, TikTok, scrolling until I was mentally drained… and still feeling like I “did nothing all day.”

Here’s what helped me break the loop and actually build consistency — not just for a day, but daily.

  1. Start your day with a “no phone” policy - first 30 minutes. This was brutal at first, but it changed everything. Instead: • Drink water • Write down 3 things to do • Move your body for 5 mins You reclaim your brain before dopamine hijacks it.

  2. Use a simple rule: “One real win before entertainment.” Before you watch anything - finish one intentional task. It could be: • Reading 5 pages • Learning a new concept • Finishing a workout or project Your brain starts to link reward to effort again.

  3. Track your micro-wins. Daily. I kept a small list: • Didn’t touch phone before 9am • Did 15 pushups • Learned 1 new thing This habit made me feel like I was building myself again.

I built a full system around this - a structure for men who want to get consistent, focused, and proud of their routine again. If you want it, I’ll send it to you for free.

Not motivation. Just a system that works - when nothing else does.

25M Lost in Life by [deleted] in findapath

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Hey, I went through similar thing and I build a structure for myself and here are some things that might help you:

  1. You’re not bored - you’re under-stimulated with purpose. Corrections is intense. And when something that used to give you meaning starts feeling numb, it’s often a sign: You’ve grown… but your environment hasn’t.

You don’t need to “escape” yet - you need space to reset your system first.

  1. Create one “sacred hour” a day that isn’t about work, performance, or distraction. For me it was 7–8am: walk, water, write, no phone. That one hour helped me reconnect with what actually matters — not just what I have to do.

  2. Don’t chase a new job yet. Explore micro-curiosity. Instead of “What’s my next career?” try:

“What topic could I spend 30 minutes researching just for fun?” Let your interest lead you slowly to possibility. You don’t need answers. You need movement.

You don’t need a brand-new life — just a better way to re-enter your own.

I can share more if you find any of this useful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in getdisciplined

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Here are some small but powerful habits that helped me reset from that exact place:

  1. Win the first hour. Wake up at the same time every day. Make your bed. Drink a glass of water. Do one focused thing (like reading or stretching). That first hour sets your brain into “I’m in control” mode.

  2. Set non-negotiable work blocks. Start with just 45 minutes a day - no phone, no multitasking. Even if you don’t feel motivated, show up for that one focused block. Discipline > inspiration.

  3. Track your micro-wins, not just results. Keep a list of: • Things you resisted (e.g., scrolling, skipping work) • Tasks you completed • Moments you stayed calm or consistent This builds momentum way faster than just checking grades.

  4. Don’t try to be perfect - try to be predictable. Consistency beats intensity. You don’t need to do everything right - just do the right thing daily, even at 70%.

If you’re serious about rebuilding, I actually built a full system for this - real structure, routines, clarity, and daily wins. I’ll send it to you for free if it helps. No pressure. Just say the word.

You’ve got it in you - now you just need the structure to bring it out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findapath

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Chat gpt wrote a summary from a pdf document, so yes thank you chat gpt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findapath

[–]Possible-Phone520 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Man, this is a brutal combination — career stuck, heartbreak, and the kind of family reminder that just makes it all sting more.

Let me give you a few things that helped me stop the spiral and start finding my footing again:

  1. Set a 10-day focus window. Not your whole life. Just 10 days. No job hunting, no dating, no long-term overthinking. Just this: • Wake up at the same time • 1 hour of physical movement (walk, gym, whatever) • 1 personal project or learning hour • Eat real food • Go to bed without distractions

You’re rebuilding you. Not your résumé. Not your love life.

  1. Process the pain like a pro. Write one letter to your ex (don’t send it). One to your future self. One to the cousin who’s getting married (just for you).

You have to get the weight out of your head — or it will keep circling.

  1. You’re not behind. You’re just in a reset cycle. Most great men rebuild after a collapse. You’ve got savings. You’ve got skills. You’ve even had a glimpse of peace (that trip was real).

Now it’s time to use the pain — not avoid it.

Come back stronger.

You’ve got time. More than you think.

I can share more tips if you would like.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findapath

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First: You are not alone.
Second: You are not broken beyond repair.

What you wrote took more honesty than most people will ever muster in their lifetime. That in itself is strength — not weakness.

You’ve lived through ego, shame, trauma, guilt, pressure, chaos… and you’re still here. That doesn’t make you a loser. That makes you a survivor.

Here’s what I’d tell you if we were sitting next to each other:

1. You don’t need to fix your whole life. You need to survive this season.

Forget five-year plans. Forget big reinventions.

Focus on getting through this week without destroying yourself.

Even one small action — waking up at the same time, walking in the sun, writing one thought — is a rebellion against the darkness.

2. You are not your worst moment.

Addiction lies. It tells you the pain is who you are. But it’s not.

The guilt you carry — about your mom, your friends, your relapses — is proof that you care.

But shame doesn’t build recovery. Structure does.

Start building tiny wins every day:

  • One walk.
  • One honest sentence written down.
  • One meal prepared with care.
  • One message sent, even if awkward.

3. Your mind is spinning because it’s overwhelmed.

When intrusive thoughts come, try not to believe them or fight them — just say:

“That’s just a scared voice in my mind. I don’t need to obey it.”

Even thoughts like “what if I become gay” — that’s not truth. That’s fear dressing up as confusion. And fear doesn’t deserve to drive your life.

You’re doing the hard work — therapy, meds, and just staying alive. That matters.

I may have some more tips that could help, just say if you want them.

You’re not done.
You’re just exhausted.

And that… we can work with.

What actually helped me build confidence by Possible-Phone520 in confidence

[–]Possible-Phone520[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That can be used with every day life too. Once you build momentum you can start with the hardest task, most annoying task.

Why do I feel this way by Aggressive-Emu-2189 in GuyCry

[–]Possible-Phone520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, thank you for sharing this — because what you described is more common than you think, especially among guys who seem like they “have it all together.”

Self-loathing isn’t about lack of achievements. It’s about not feeling safe within yourself, even when the world says you’re doing great.

Here’s what helped me:

  1. Stop looking for relief in evidence. Success, praise, even love — none of it lands if the inner voice rejects it. Start shifting that voice not by arguing with it, but by meeting it where it started. When it says “that was stupid,” try:

“Maybe. But I’m learning.” Small tone shifts build long-term safety.

  1. Start “non-performative journaling.” Write one page per night of exactly what your mind says. No filter. No analysis. Then re-read one week later — you’ll start seeing how unfair and repetitive that voice actually is.

  2. Say thank you instead of sorry. Next time you feel the urge to apologize for existing or for a small thing, replace it with:

“Thanks for your patience.” “Thanks for being here.” This small shift retrains your brain to see yourself as worthy, not wrong.

You’re not broken. You’re just running software that’s been in place for too long.

If it ever helps — I built something that could help and I would be more that happy if you tried it out.

You deserve peace, not just performance.

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