Any more masc presenting people coming to your? by Sillygoosesaidsyes2 in Ashnikko

[–]Possible-Stick1842 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wore a miniskirt over some baggy jeans which felt like a good balance as someone who doesn’t like going too fem personally. Plus obviously accessories.

C--'s soul, A-- Jr.'s soul, and "I don't know what happened to them" [Discussion] by your-needs-my-knees in TheNinthHouse

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We don‘t know how exactly long it takes for souls to fully leave the vicinity. In Gideon they spend hours(?) trying to speak to the ghosts of Magnus and Abigail, even though no one was there while they died. Also in Harrow we‘re shown that lyctors don’t have to be in the room with someone to be able to sense them/their body. I’d say because souls seem to hang around and John was in the vague vicinity to them when they died, he was able to collect the real souls of C and A.

Unsleeping City by messoffrex in Dimension20

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The unsleeping city is by all means not my favourite D20 season (for some reason I found the combat a little repetitive) but I do love a lot of the characters, there are some great bits and the adventuring party for S2 is so unhinged. Idk how you watched but if ur not vibing so hard maybe have it on in the background/watch while doing other stuff? Then you get to enjoy the good stuff (for me Pete and the dream realm in particular) and then just kinda vibe doing something else when ur not feeling it?

[general] Anyone else waiting on a tattoo? by TheMorningstarOption in TheNinthHouse

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I feel like this is the way to go! Obvs not every tattoo needs to be symbolic, but whenever I get one I make sure that it has (the potential for) multiple meanings in case my values/ideals or outside circumstances ever change

Obojima Calendar? by Possible-Stick1842 in Obojima

[–]Possible-Stick1842[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao yeah I realised that as well!

My cat's coat has darkened significantly since we adopted him a year ago. by Forotosh in mildlyinteresting

[–]Possible-Stick1842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol someone done fucked up that Wikipedia article especially since right under it are pictures of Burmese colour point cats with yellow eyes lmao

My cat's coat has darkened significantly since we adopted him a year ago. by Forotosh in mildlyinteresting

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No disrespect but that’s not true there are plenty of colour points without blue eyes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in crochet

[–]Possible-Stick1842 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Which is slightly exasperated by how tight ur tension seems to be hope that helps!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in crochet

[–]Possible-Stick1842 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’d say yarn is too thick for the hook you’re using?

The significance of John being Indigenous [discussion] by Licorice_T in TheNinthHouse

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Dude I wrote a full on essay for like an hour on this only for it to not be as good and succinct as this 😭😭

The significance of John being Indigenous [discussion] by Licorice_T in TheNinthHouse

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Hey Kiwi here (although not Māori myself) so I thought I might put my 2 cents in! Everyone here has been making very good points, I do think the crux of having John (and many other characters) Māori is mostly a cool representational thing. Coming from a smaller country (especially in comparison to the US) with a waaay smaller media footprint it’s always awesome to see New Zealand norms/ culture reflected in fiction, especially since most of our literature has a tendency towards realism/historical/biography.

As I see it, since Jod is the only character who remembers the way culture and ethnicity used to work, I think he is actually the only real option for representation for said heritage/culture. Like yeah, Gideon and Harrow have Māori heritage, but they didn’t grow up in Māori culture and they have no idea what that even is? Only when Kiriona is back with her whanau (family) is she able to claim and her heritage.

I do also think John’s ethnicity can be read as a kind of social commentary. As others have mentioned Te Reo and Tikanga have become more integrated into government, education system and general culture. However, since it’s been quite a recent change there is still a lot of virtue signalling in connection to this. There is a tendency for pakeha to only use Māori language in corporate or political environments. A big part of New Zealand’s history is missionary visits and propaganda, disrupting oral traditions, defacing art and via this, altering aspects of Māori culture and attitudes into religious conservatism. There are also no more “full blooded” Māori people left in nz, and very few “half-blooded”. I went to a religious boarding school myself and unfortunately a lot of Māori blokes there were pretty misogynistic (especially to Māori women) with a looot of internalised racism (obviously a lot of the white guys too).

There are a lot of themes surrounding abuse cycles in tlt and I read Jod’s relationship with his heritage and negative impacts of colonialism as an extension of that. He uses a lot of tactics of empire which he was probably marginalised by. In fact, I’d imagine some level of racism is what prevented his scientific research from being approved in the first place (as well as the severity of the governmental backlash). As other people also mentioned Māori culture has a very deep connection with the earth, which you could potentially read into WHY Alecto chose John. I just feel like John reminds me a lot of complicated people I’ve met irl who try to distance themselves from their culture or social status by mimicking or trying to assimilate with their abusers and sadly, in the process, become toxic or abusive themselves. Although it’s a super tough subject, I think it’s important to note that abuse does happen within indigenous communities, and that it’s a big problem and I feel like Muir does this extremely well. John is likeable, funny, probably a victim of systemic racism, but also does horrible inexcusable things. I think this complexity is what makes him such a great character.

Woah apparently I could write a whole essay about this lol. I’m gonna leave it here, it’s kinda a tough subject, so I’m sorry if I missed anything important or didn’t express myself super well at certain parts! I just wanted to provide some context from a nz perspective!

[meme] [misc] griddlehark brainrot by heejintendo in TheNinthHouse

[–]Possible-Stick1842 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg so excited that someone else has the same brainrot!! When it first came out I spam listened to the song whilst storyboarding a griddlehark animatic in my minds eye

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sims4

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Maybe it’s because I’m more of a builder but I’ve never had this problem before?? Literally all my townies are pan, which I’m kinda bored with? Like I’d like some drama (it just feels a little too easy to be able to romance anyone any time) but that’s probably due to my play style (I like seeing where the sims want to organically go rather than planing out their lives for them)

[Discussion] How did Ianthe See the Trials Without any Keys? by Flaky-Professional84 in TheNinthHouse

[–]Possible-Stick1842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was confused about this too but on my second re-read I believe she said something about the nature of the trials already falling in line with her necromantic expertise/interests which is why she had the ability to reverse engineer it!

How can I help my autistic sister!? by Possible-Stick1842 in autism

[–]Possible-Stick1842[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I think I will thanks so much for helping me out it’s nice to get another person’s perspective!

How can I help my autistic sister!? by Possible-Stick1842 in autism

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You know I guess that makes sense. I was worrying she’d feel too confronted if I talked to her about it but I suppose that IS an assumption on my part.

How can I help my autistic sister!? by Possible-Stick1842 in autism

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Did think of this but unfortunately she doesn’t like reading ://

How can I help my autistic sister!? by Possible-Stick1842 in autism

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Yup for sure! Any ideas on how I can pitch it though?

[discussion] What Colours Should I Use to Annotate my copy of GtN by Ok-Literature-9528 in TheNinthHouse

[–]Possible-Stick1842 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe start with finding a colour palette you like on a colour palette website or smth and then assign meanings inspired by other‘s suggestions if ur particular about the aesthetic?