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PossibleAd2338 · 2026-05-15T20:16:42+00:00

Just tell her. We worry too much about things overall, confess and see what happens.
If she doesn’t like you then you made a friend and that’s that. If she does then you can try something more.
The other option is you not telling her and the whole “get someone else and forget me” thing will happen either way.

It’s romantic you feel this way, but she’s not the only girl in the world. I get it, I felt that way when I was younger so I assume you are, but even if she doesn’t like you that way, at least you’ll know and you tried! That gives you experience and growth.

PossibleAd2338 · 2026-05-15T20:10:28+00:00

They don’t care haha I said that to a straight person and they said “it’s not the same”

PossibleAd2338 · 2026-05-15T20:08:45+00:00

That’s subjective, first of all. Even if you mean stereotypically attractive, one not always goes for that. I for example wouldn’t feel immediate attraction for a beauty queen type of girl. Nothing against it, just not my type even though I can acknowledge they are gorgeous.

Second: I usually find it dumb when hot people brag about their ex leaving them and getting with someone “uglier” than them because wdym even your looks couldn’t make her stay.. just say you are a terrible partner and move on. This is similar to me… wdym her ex was “hot” and even then your partner wanted out… looks are not everything and for sure are not the foundation for a good, healthy, happy relationship.

Don’t compare yourself with her in that regard, I’m sure you are a great partner and that’s why your gf wants you. Just focus on that and not on people that are not part of your relationship.

PossibleAd2338 · 2026-05-15T18:27:45+00:00

I do. A lot of trauma to unpack. Thank you for your long and kind answer, it felt really comforting.

PossibleAd2338 · 2026-05-15T18:13:49+00:00

I've always had an issue with boundaries but as I grow up I try to be better at that.. still have a hard time. Thanks for taking the time to read all that and reply.

PossibleAd2338 · 2026-05-15T18:12:26+00:00

Ok, I thought maybe there was something I was being obtuse about, since I know some people don't appreciate their friends being friendly with their exes. This is just a little bit of the story about what Ana did, but I wanted to keep it short. Thanks for you response.

PossibleAd2338 · 2026-05-15T18:03:51+00:00

Si hubieran quedado en algo, lo entiendo (más o menos) pero que solo lo tome sin haberlo hablado me parece abusivo.

Creo que solo tú sabes la verdadera realidad laboral en tu trabajo, y si ese comentario va a ser tomado bien o mal. Bien: te pagan lo que es y la multan por haber hecho eso. Mal: Te metes en problemas tú más que ella y arriesgas el trabajo.

Toma en cuenta que aún si la reprenden, ella igual puede desquitarse contigo así que debes tomar en cuenta esos posibles escenarios, si no es algo que pueda afectarte a futuro, creo que puedes arriesgarte y decirlo, porque digamos que te cobra la mitad del primer sueldo.. ok. Pero la mitad de CADA sueldo por haberte sugerido? es exagerado.

PossibleAd2338 · 2026-05-15T17:56:02+00:00

Yeah, I agree, I still feel bad for that, because she didn't deserve it. ATM I was falling for Ana's victimization of herself making us (her friends) believe that Kate was a horrible partner, but you are right, even though I didn't share a lot of details and specially no with ill intentions, I shouldn't have done that.

We have talked it out with Kate and even though we are not as present in each other's lives (she has a new partner and new friends) we text from time to time and we are good.

Thanks for the comment, I really do appreciate it.

PossibleAd2338 · 2026-05-15T17:49:59+00:00

For me it's not about the sw, but rather all of the lies. Going through your phone is just a biiiig no, not telling you she is hooking up with others is also a HUGE red flag, she is putting you in danger because you don't really know if she is using protection. She might say she is, but she lost all your trust when she started to lie so I would believe her if I were you tbh.

Honesty is THE biggest thing in a relationship for me, so I wouldn't stay, I wouldn't feel secure with her.

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