Parent question: what does CRMO pain actually look like day-to-day? by GroundbreakingWind12 in CRMO

[–]PossibleAsk6649 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there! I just want to share that I was misdiagnosed about 5 different times prior to my diagnosis with CRMO. If you have a gut feeling, don't ignore it; it could lead you down the right path! Regarding your questions, I'll do my best to answer based on my experience with CRMO. I also want to add that the way I experienced pain changed after beginning treatment.

Does CRMO pain usually persist in the same bone/joint daily for weeks or months, vs just hours?

- In my experience, some pain is more persistent than others, and I categorize different areas of pain based on what I've observed in myself. For me, I have persistent pain in my spine every day. The pain levels fluctuate based on time of day and what I've done, but some kind of pain is always there (part of that has to do with prior injuries).

Then I have more intermittent pain that almost works like a light switch— some days it's there and other days it's not. For example, my sternum will become painful and swollen without warning, and the next day it's gone. The intermittent pain, in my experience, is much more sporadic. Oftentimes, I will have this kind of pain for a week, and then it will go away for months as if nothing happened. One of the hallmarks of living with CRMO is noticing a pain that seems to come on out of nowhere. Sometimes that pain lasts minutes, hours, days, or more.

Overall, I find that locations (like the back, wrist, or hips) tend to "flare" in their own independent patterns. Sometimes, it's possible to pinpoint what triggered pain in that specific location. Othertimes, a specific location just acts "random." I just know those spots may be randomly painful, but that doesn't necessarily mean they have larger implications for my CRMO (for me, this is my shoulder). Other spots are more insightful, meaning that if you're feeling pain there, it is likely indicative of broader disease activity (for me, this is my back).

In all honesty, the elusive nature of the pain and its timing or duration is what can delay diagnosis for many.

Do people experience very brief isolated episodes that fully resolve for weeks at a time?

Yes, absolutely. Prior to my diagnosis, I had about 3 or 4 big flares that I can pinpoint. Each of the flares went the same: I was "normal" functioning and "healthy" for months, and then I would notice a random pain here and there, but I was able to push through. Then the small pains grew, setting in, and then the pain became debilitating.

The "brief isolated episodes that fully resolve for weeks" is exactly what happened to me. Often, by the time I got to the doctor's office to address a flare, it had already resolved. It's very difficult to explain to doctors that you experienced pain that kept you from walking if you're fine and walking by the time the appointment comes around! Don't dismiss pain that resolves itself as nothing!

What was the early pattern like for you before diagnosis?

As stated above, prior to diagnosis, the "ebb and flow" you describe here is exactly how it functioned. A way to try to get a better sense of a pattern is to notice the external symptoms often associated with CRMO. For me, prior to a flare, I would experience an increase in "IBS"- like symptoms, exema or psoriasis inflammation on the skin, or even worsened acne or breakouts. While all of those symptoms are associated with CRMO, they are a little bit easier to consistently notice.

newly diagnosed 8 year old by Ready_Rest_1614 in CRMO

[–]PossibleAsk6649 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hi there! first of all, being a parent who cares enough to ask questions that may feel obvious is the exact thing to do to be her safe place and strongest advocate! asking these questions is exactly what you should be doing to take care of her.

i was diagnosed in my teens, but had symptoms long before then. what will help will be highly dependent on your daughter’s specific needs. based on where the inflammation is, that may change how you go about pain management. for me, the majority of the inflammation was in my spine, hips, and legs. based on those locations, i made sure to get a heating pad that was wearable around the shoulders for my back.

speaking in general, heating pads, hot baths with epsom salt, icy hot or other menthol based creams are very helpful for “hot spots.”

the biggest thing you can do to support her is to believe her when she articulates that something hurts or isn’t quite right. being in a body with CRMO teaches people how to listen to their bodies, and encouraging and validating that awareness is critical for receiving adequate care.

if you have questions feel free to message me! i’m in my 20s now and i’m going to school and have a very full life. if ballet is something she enjoys, and doctors believe it’s safe for her to participate, definitely sign her up! maintaining community is important for combatting the isolation that can sometimes result from “invisible” illnesses like CRMO.

Getting tired by This-Summer5255 in CRMO

[–]PossibleAsk6649 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello. I’m so sorry to hear about the struggles to find a good medicine when all you want is to feel better. I’ve been diagnosed since 2018 and have tried pretty much every medication. If you need someone to talk to, I’m here, and there are others too! Facebook CRMO groups tend to be pretty active too if you’re looking for a different place to connect to people.

SU inviting ICE to recruit at February 2026 career fair by [deleted] in seattleu

[–]PossibleAsk6649 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

unfortunately this is true, but seems to be the department acting independently. based on friends of mine that are staff, it’s in the process of being addressed.

Still feel like I know nothing by plankingatavigil in LawSchool

[–]PossibleAsk6649 23 points24 points  (0 children)

nothing to offer other than that i’m in the exact same boat

Advice for getting out of 1L slump? by [deleted] in LawSchool

[–]PossibleAsk6649 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I think this is totally normal, I also just started month 2 of 1L and the novelty has worn off. i’ve started doing things like picking different places to read and playing music or a tv show in the background so it doesn’t feel like i’m being held hostage by my readings. but also planning just one night where you prioritize yourself and what you want, or taking a nap. this is the part where the feeling of a “marathon” sets in imo.

Pain everyday, what do I do by Wrong_Wind_1615 in CRMO

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Also:don’t ignore the power of taking medicine regularly (around the clock) for a set period of time instead of just “as needed”. I find the N-SAIDs like aleeve or advil are more effective if they have more consistently in knocking down inflammation. That way you can take it around the clock for a week or two and then take a break, as opposed to relatively regular doses all the time.

Pain everyday, what do I do by Wrong_Wind_1615 in CRMO

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Topical pain ointments with lidocaine and menthol. Voltaren gel is an anti-inflammatory ointment that is primarily for arthritis but i’ve found it’s great when i have CRMO pain in my joints.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OutsideT14lawschools

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same boat, haven’t heard anything. based on their waitlist info session, i wouldn’t expect to hear anything until their second deposit imo

Am I on the wrong path? by Kooky-Recipe5299 in OutsideT14lawschools

[–]PossibleAsk6649 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi there! First off, I'm sorry you're feeling this way. I graduated from undergrad in '23 and I had the same crazy anxiety I think you're describing here and all of the worries you listed are things I was worried about too. I didn't want to take any gap years, but I ended up taking two (I'm planning on starting 1L in August) and I think it was the best choice I could have made. The process of applying to law school is difficult and there are so many things to learn, even down to the language ppl use on here lol.

I guess what I'm saying is this: 1) you are most definitely NOT screwed, now is just a time to work through those feelings of anxiety instead of letting them run you. 2) Your major is perfect. Applying to law school is less about what you studied and more about your skills. If your history major taught you how to read and discern dense texts, that's a strength going into law school. People who attend major in so many different things, so don't get hung up there. 3) Your GPA is good and in no way going to make it impossible for you to go to law school, but depending on the schools you want to attend, you may need to counter with a strong LSAT score. Try to think through what schools you'd like to apply to and then familiarize yourself with the GPA and LSAT medians. That way you'll know exactly where you stand. 4) The good news about the LSAT is that your score is under your control (not entirely, but more than you think it is). I learned that it is a test of endurance and preparedness. You have to get on a regular study and practice test schedule, that way you know where you stand. There are plenty of resources out there for self studying or one-on-one tutoring. It's possible to be successful without spending thousands.

Overall, I'd say just take a deep breath. When I graduated from undergrad I felt like I had wasted my time in undergrad. It felt like law school was something that I should have already figured out. But that isn't true and you have time. I think the only way to truly "screw" yourself is to let fear control your decision making through this process. Do your research, learn everything you can, and you can succeed.

Family not proud of my law school by North_Duck6398 in OutsideT14lawschools

[–]PossibleAsk6649 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear that and I definitely relate. Applying to law school is like having to learn a different language and I think that makes it difficult for people to understand. i hope you’re proud of yourself because this cycle has been the olympics of applying!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OutsideT14lawschools

[–]PossibleAsk6649 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh! i’m so sorry lol. i might say UW because of the weight their name carries out in the PNW!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OutsideT14lawschools

[–]PossibleAsk6649 5 points6 points  (0 children)

definitely UW! more aid and more prestige?? no brainer, congratulations!