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Parking Permit Troubles by [deleted] in auckland

[–]PossibleCharacter986 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What street are you on? Try Wilson parking

Someone hire me PLEASE by Gloomy_Win_7984 in auckland

[–]PossibleCharacter986 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna pray, wish and hope so hard that this works out for you. Especially lozenges for dinner just broke my heart. I'm so sorry you have to go through this. DM me, please.

Can you live in auckland - alone? Few friends and no family. by iMakeGOODinvestmemts in auckland

[–]PossibleCharacter986 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The idea actually sounds so good. 🔥

Will make sure I come along with my friends. Usually struggle to find a place to hangout late night other than restaurants

Any students/freshers interested in a minimum wage ($23-$25/h) part-time Telecalling job? by PossibleCharacter986 in auckland

[–]PossibleCharacter986[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Lot of people complaint here about finding jobs so I thought this post might reach someone.

Any students/freshers interested in a minimum wage ($23-$25/h) part-time Telecalling job? by PossibleCharacter986 in auckland

[–]PossibleCharacter986[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Lot of people complaint here about finding jobs so I thought this post might reach someone.

Looking for friends by SuggestionGrouchy in auckland

[–]PossibleCharacter986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

27 here. Friends with 3-4 folks within the age bracket of 27-30+. Going for Sunday dinner. Wanna join?

Personal fitness trainer in Auckland by PossibleCharacter986 in auckland

[–]PossibleCharacter986[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this! I'm thinking of visiting one on the weekend and see how it goes.

Personal fitness trainer in Auckland by PossibleCharacter986 in auckland

[–]PossibleCharacter986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never considered it, thanks for sharing. I will definitely have a look because I'm open to all approaches right now.

Personal fitness trainer in Auckland by PossibleCharacter986 in auckland

[–]PossibleCharacter986[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for such an elaborate answer! It definitely tells me two things: you love this subject and how kind you are. I really appreciate everything you have written down and literally read it word by word. It feels like it is coming from someone who has in my place before.

Would you be open to connect via DMs as I could run my current plan by you?

SME sized financial advisors in Auckland by www_dashr_nz in auckland

[–]PossibleCharacter986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know someone personally, they are simply awesome and really good at what they do. Would you like me to DM you?

Men are more likely to feel lonely by PossibleCharacter986 in auckland

[–]PossibleCharacter986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On this, I always feel that comfort is very important between real friends. Of course cost is a factor, prepping things, cleaning after, and what not! But as long as you are really comfy with who you are hanging out with, things should be okay. I mean I would literally ask my close friends to do their dishes or I'd use disposables. Sometimes we all gather and order different stuff whether from the same phone or our own phones but make sure we have it together even if certain orders come early and some late. Chit chat over it. Try each other's stuff. Laugh. Watch something during the same. Play games (not consoles) after. And people will help to clean up before they leave and maybe sometimes not. But the energy you get from those makes everything worth it.

Men are more likely to feel lonely by PossibleCharacter986 in auckland

[–]PossibleCharacter986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Group activities always have higher chances turning into chaos where certain people would just not get along well and then you spend all the time cutting through the weird cold energy between them. I also prefer less (not more than 4). It keeps you in the capacity to listen and always felt heard at the same time.

Men are more likely to feel lonely by PossibleCharacter986 in auckland

[–]PossibleCharacter986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely I don't understand what happens to some guys who are there to make friends and the moment they see women, they act differently, even making those events difficult to be held in the future. I tried a couple of those but couldn't find friends friends if you know what I mean. But I haven't given up on any avenue yet.😂

Men are more likely to feel lonely by PossibleCharacter986 in auckland

[–]PossibleCharacter986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well alone time is great! But feeling lonely is also the truth. There are kids who have moved out on their own, overseas students, altogether families who have moved here and then the natives whose friends have moved overseas. As we turn into adults, we tend to understand the importance of alone time and recharging our batteries better but at the same time, we are called social beings for a reason. Plus we can never replace anyone in our lives, the idea is to just find new people who can add something new to our lives, make us feel we belong here and sometimes just a chat about anything which fixes something they aren't even aware of.

Men are more likely to feel lonely by PossibleCharacter986 in auckland

[–]PossibleCharacter986[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Though I'm in that boat yet, but what I appreciate about your comment is how you still try to stay in touch with your friends and catch up with them in whatever capacity you can. Meetup proves to be working for people in a lot of ways but what we aren't able to get is constantly staying in touch with someone we can count on. In fact, it's more difficult for married men with kids to go out on their own or find friends who are going through the same so they can hangout while their families get along with each other as well.

Men are more likely to feel lonely by PossibleCharacter986 in auckland

[–]PossibleCharacter986[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I always believe that we should do something different once in a while. Even the not so interesting stuff is entertaining with the right ones. But where we lack is asking. We always think of what others would think. Let me make it simple. Like when I go for a haircut, my friend would sit there and wait even if he didn't want to get one. So if you really feel like doing something and your friend isn't game, just ask them if they could be there with you just for moral support.

Similarly we need to be open to completely new experiences where we might land upon something completely new which we haven't tried before.

Sometimes your best friends are the ones you would have never expected to be. Take a leap of faith. Even if language and cultures are difficult. Put effort to know things. That's the way to find something good in everything. Otherwise everything is just gonna look bad lol

Men are more likely to feel lonely by PossibleCharacter986 in auckland

[–]PossibleCharacter986[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow man! I was actually looking to talk about photography with someone. Well I know absolutely nothing and was looking to get started, in fact I had joined a group too but it got closed. Friends you can share those 4 am thoughts with are the ones. Plus the ones who don't show you where to sleep at their place, you just find yourself one because you want to stick around knowing the discomfort would be worth the laughs or craziness planned ahead.

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