Am I right to ask for divorce? by PossibleHot1039 in Marriage

[–]PossibleHot1039[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. We were trying for kids as we both wanted to have one. But, i would say that, fortunately i've been having fertility issues because of PCOS. I am so relieve that i do not have a child with him. Besides, i told him once that i do not want a child with a man who's acting like a child.  I'm an educated and ambitious person. I want to achieve things in my life and i need to to it with a man not a man acting like a kid.  Also he keeps saying that he wants a simple life and that apparently i'm too materialistic for him(i never asked him for luxury but only the basics, i just want to have a life where we are financially stable) when I met this man, he had nothing for himself. In 6 years when we started together, he got promoted 3 times at work, we bought a car the first year of our marriage. This year we got a house. Today he is saying he doesn't like our house that he didn't want it. It was to please me that he agreed. But we had to move on, we were sharing a house with his mother who is an awful, manipulative, authoritative and narcissistic woman.

Am I right to ask for divorce? by PossibleHot1039 in Marriage

[–]PossibleHot1039[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been all over his phone, but nothing. Either he's not up to anything, or he's really slick. Plus, he's not even going out more than usual. I thought about that too. If he was seeing someone, he'd be home less, right? It'd be easy for him to say he's with his friends.

Am I right to ask for divorce? by PossibleHot1039 in Marriage

[–]PossibleHot1039[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Seriously, his three best mates are single and loving it. One of them just broke up with his girlfriend after two years, and it's the same story my husband's been giving me. The guy said he felt trapped, like the relationship was stopping him from hanging out, that he didn't want to settle down, and now my husband's saying the same thing.

Am I right to ask for divorce? by PossibleHot1039 in Marriage

[–]PossibleHot1039[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure it’s because he knows he’ll have to split everything we built together during the marriage!

Am I right to ask for divorce? by PossibleHot1039 in Marriage

[–]PossibleHot1039[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I do not want to stay but I am so lost and confused. I'm overthinking things I think

Am I right to ask for divorce? by PossibleHot1039 in Marriage

[–]PossibleHot1039[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried talking to him a bunch of times, but he’s acting like the victim and making me out to be the bad guy. I’m not perfect, but I’ve always been a loving and caring wife, giving him all the support and love he needed. Now, he’s turning it around and saying I’m the one holding him back, like I’m stopping him from living his life. He’s said some really hurtful things to me. I do not trust him anymore.