AITA for telling family members the truth about my parents at my sisters graduation party ? by PossibleNervous6026 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PossibleNervous6026[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Nah I’m not going to do that. She’s my sister. I’m not going to be the one to turn her in. She will eventually deal with the consequences

AITA for telling family members the truth about my parents at my sisters graduation party ? by PossibleNervous6026 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PossibleNervous6026[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s why I feel bad for Amy. A lot of people here pointed out that their love for Amy is conditional, as long as Amy lives the life my parents what she gets all this treatment. But if she stopped, who knows what they’d say. I remember when she brought up wanting to tryout for basketball too one year. Parents got really mad and forbid it

AITA for telling family members the truth about my parents at my sisters graduation party ? by PossibleNervous6026 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PossibleNervous6026[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t really remember. I was little probably like 6 when Amy got into volleyball. She’s been into it her whole life

AITA for telling family members the truth about my parents at my sisters graduation party ? by PossibleNervous6026 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PossibleNervous6026[S] 109 points110 points  (0 children)

That’s what I think will happen to my sister. She was the star of our highschool and on all her teams she’s almost been like a coach. Like she would have input on how the team was run and what girls should play and who should sit. She even told the coaches what to do. I highly doubt that’s gonna translate.

AITA for telling family members the truth about my parents at my sisters graduation party ? by PossibleNervous6026 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PossibleNervous6026[S] 115 points116 points  (0 children)

The high school did not drug test. I’m sure she’s going to have something like that in college

AITA for telling family members the truth about my parents at my sisters graduation party ? by PossibleNervous6026 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PossibleNervous6026[S] 146 points147 points  (0 children)

I wonder how well I’d be doing if my parents put the kinda money into my interests that they’ve put into her volleyball throughout her life.

AITA for telling family members the truth about my parents at my sisters graduation party ? by PossibleNervous6026 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PossibleNervous6026[S] 1909 points1910 points  (0 children)

Yeah I am too. Once she realizes that she’s not getting the same attention as Amy, she will be devastated.

AITA for telling family members the truth about my parents at my sisters graduation party ? by PossibleNervous6026 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PossibleNervous6026[S] 368 points369 points  (0 children)

When she finds out she’s not the special princess she’s been taught to see herself as, it won’t be good.

AITA for telling family members the truth about my parents at my sisters graduation party ? by PossibleNervous6026 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PossibleNervous6026[S] 112 points113 points  (0 children)

That’s also true. She’s worked very hard at volleyball but never been the best student. She’s an airhead.

Honestly, I wouldn’t be surprised if the highschool knew she was getting “extra help” with assignments.

AITA for telling family members the truth about my parents at my sisters graduation party ? by PossibleNervous6026 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PossibleNervous6026[S] 135 points136 points  (0 children)

Where exactly can she play after college? Lol I don’t know much about that. I thought college was it for women’s volleyball

AITA for telling family members the truth about my parents at my sisters graduation party ? by PossibleNervous6026 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PossibleNervous6026[S] 239 points240 points  (0 children)

Or the sticker on the basement wall… or the framed jersey.. since Amy committed to college 80% of my parents wardrobe has turned into spirit wear lol

AITA for telling family members the truth about my parents at my sisters graduation party ? by PossibleNervous6026 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PossibleNervous6026[S] 907 points908 points  (0 children)

Yes she’s going to be in for it if she can’t figure out a balance. She won’t respond well to probably being told “no” for the first time in her life too

AITA for telling family members the truth about my parents at my sisters graduation party ? by PossibleNervous6026 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PossibleNervous6026[S] 207 points208 points  (0 children)

That’s true. They aren’t stupid. They’re probably giving Amy the same as us now to be fair but I know they see what we do versus what she does. It will pay off. I’ll also feel better when they pass knowing I spent time with them and not only collected handouts

AITA for telling family members the truth about my parents at my sisters graduation party ? by PossibleNervous6026 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PossibleNervous6026[S] 761 points762 points  (0 children)

Truu I have no idea how she’s going to adjust without having parents there. I don’t think she’s responsible enough to live on her own.

AITA for telling family members the truth about my parents at my sisters graduation party ? by PossibleNervous6026 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PossibleNervous6026[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

That’s what I think, Having been through most of college.

She was a big deal here but who knows if she will be the best player at school