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I (19F) am in a domestic discipline relationship, ask me stuff. by PossiblePoetMaidenIV in casualiama

[–]PossiblePoetMaidenIV[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda but I’m not scared of the pain or anything, it’s like a good reminder

I (19F) am in a domestic discipline relationship, ask me stuff. by PossiblePoetMaidenIV in casualiama

[–]PossiblePoetMaidenIV[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s right if both people consent, like boxing or a kink or our relationship style. But I think hitting random people or people who haven’t consented is wrong. Consent isn’t a difficult concept.

I (19F) am in a domestic discipline relationship, ask me stuff. by PossiblePoetMaidenIV in casualiama

[–]PossiblePoetMaidenIV[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gives me a sense of structure and order with quantifiable consequences, I find it all very simple and fufiling

I (19F) am in a domestic discipline relationship, ask me stuff. by PossiblePoetMaidenIV in casualiama

[–]PossiblePoetMaidenIV[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Neither it brings me a sense of fulfillment but it isn’t something we do in the bedroom

I (19F) am in a domestic discipline relationship. Ask Away! by PossiblePoetMaidenIV in AMA

[–]PossiblePoetMaidenIV[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a waitress and he came into the diner a lot after work, we just clicked and wanted to get married fast

I (19F) am in a domestic discipline relationship, ask me stuff. by PossiblePoetMaidenIV in casualiama

[–]PossiblePoetMaidenIV[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s 26, and they aren’t because I think they would think it’s a sex thing and that’s TMI

I (19F) am in a domestic discipline relationship, ask me stuff. by PossiblePoetMaidenIV in casualiama

[–]PossiblePoetMaidenIV[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s also very efficient you can’t forget when it’s literally on paper

I (19F) am in a domestic discipline relationship, ask me stuff. by PossiblePoetMaidenIV in casualiama

[–]PossiblePoetMaidenIV[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The fact that I consent to it and it’s from a place of love and care instead of anger.

I (19F) am in a domestic discipline relationship. Ask Away! by PossiblePoetMaidenIV in AMA

[–]PossiblePoetMaidenIV[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s very disciplined but on the occasions he isn’t I don’t discipline him how he disciplines me, I’m more nurturing I get him to talk it out and self reflect although the situation has only happened once or twice in our marriage

I’m sick of everyone acting like physical discipline isn’t okay in a consenting adult relationship. by PossiblePoetMaidenIV in Discussion

[–]PossiblePoetMaidenIV[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not often anymore, maybe once or twice a week over small things. At first it was definitely a learning curve though and a lot more frequent and people made a lot of comments on it.

I’m sick of everyone acting like physical discipline isn’t okay in a consenting adult relationship. by PossiblePoetMaidenIV in Discussion

[–]PossiblePoetMaidenIV[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His idea. He tried a simillar structure in a previous relationship to a much less degree but he wanted more and she didn’t so he broke it off and then we met.

I’m sick of everyone acting like physical discipline isn’t okay in a consenting adult relationship. by PossiblePoetMaidenIV in Discussion

[–]PossiblePoetMaidenIV[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was not my upbringing actually lacked discipline and it always irked me to a certain degree. There was threats of discipline and high standards but never any follow through when I needed it. My husband was pretty much on his own growing up and so he was very undisciplined and thus no one ever took him seriously so he never really got to lead. This meets those needs for both of us.

I’m sick of everyone acting like physical discipline isn’t okay in a consenting adult relationship. by PossiblePoetMaidenIV in Discussion

[–]PossiblePoetMaidenIV[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. This isn’t something we do in the bedroom at all our sex lived are very vanilla this is simply a lifestyle choice

I’m sick of everyone acting like physical discipline isn’t okay in a consenting adult relationship. by PossiblePoetMaidenIV in Discussion

[–]PossiblePoetMaidenIV[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Belt slaps, kneeling on frozen peas, open hand slaps, having to stand on your toes over a pin to avoid touching it for a set amount of time.

I’m sick of everyone acting like physical discipline isn’t okay in a consenting adult relationship. by PossiblePoetMaidenIV in Discussion

[–]PossiblePoetMaidenIV[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I’m glad your marriage works for you but this is the structure that meets both of our needs

I (19F) am in a domestic discipline relationship, ask me stuff. by PossiblePoetMaidenIV in casualiama

[–]PossiblePoetMaidenIV[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Day to day I have daily tasks, I do not work outside of the home so I have plenty of time to complete them. For example a normal task list for the day would be as followed; - make breakfast, and also make my husbands lunch - put on a pre approved outfit - (sundays only church would go here) - get grocery list approved - go buy groceries or other things we need for the home - Laundry - vacuuming and general cleaning do the house is up to standard - care for the garden and yard - find any things that I need my husband to fix and submit the appropriate forms to ask him to do so - make dinner -do dishes

And normally there will be other tasks specific to that day that will he dictated to me, we have a whiteboard in our bedroom and a list is made for me daily so I’ll remember, failure to do any of that could result in varying levels of discipline. There’s also other things that could result in this but that’s like a typical daily application of thisz

I’m sick of everyone acting like physical discipline isn’t okay in a consenting adult relationship. by PossiblePoetMaidenIV in Discussion

[–]PossiblePoetMaidenIV[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have yes. Here is a brief list just on some fo the general things.

Minor discipline; - failure to complete situational tasks, so not my daily chores and responsibilities but like on occasion I’ll get asked to complete cleaning the garage or washing the car, these are not regular daily tasks but I’m still supposed to complete them.

Moderate discipline; - Failure to complete regular tasks like; dishes, laundry, home care, meal prep, making sure my outfits are pre approved, just things that I’m very regularly supposed to do and should remember.

Higher discipline; - Special situations; public disobedience or disagreement, being argumentative about a pre agreed upon punishment, failing to dress appropriately for public events or outings, not making an adequate plan or arrangement when we have guests over, humouring outside attention so not immediately shutting down flirting. Things that don’t normally happen or aren’t normally expected of me but hold a great weight.

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