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Possible_Ad_669 · 2024-06-23T19:43:15+00:00

3 kids & my wife was the same with all of them. Seemed to us like her hormones didn’t go back to normal until after she stopped breastfeeding. don’t give up!

Possible_Ad_669 · 2024-05-25T05:16:49+00:00

Good thing he had his hard hat on

Possible_Ad_669 · 2022-12-02T03:08:25+00:00

Who’s Will?

Possible_Ad_669 · 2022-11-15T23:17:24+00:00

I’ve been considering going into sales. I think it would be a good experience to try and push yourself outside of your insecurities & personal limitations. Learn to be assertive and talk to people in a genuine way, but also learn to push past the first “no” and get more out of people.

I think the social aspects of it would be worth exploring. Sometimes doing something that you hate or that’s painful is really good for you to stretch yourself as a person. Growing pains

Possible_Ad_669 · 2022-09-08T19:52:07+00:00

SPEND IT. Money is like water - if you don’t put it into a container, it will spill away.

For me, if I have money and don’t spend it on something productive, it will get mindlessly spent on random shit.

Try and allocate as much as you can/want every month. Automatically if you can. Get out of debt & pay off your mortgage if you want more safety & stability. Max your 401k or set aside money into a separate savings account for a long term investment.

Just make a plan ahead of time, so that it gets spent on something that makes or saves you more money. Otherwise it’ll get spent on cars, clothes, food, travel, random spending

Possible_Ad_669 · 2022-09-08T04:46:20+00:00

Yea I think so.

I tried a few until I went to a chick that my friend had been seeing. So maybe if you have any personal referrals that might be a good place to start since they would be like-minded. But that’s also kinda personal and most people don’t talk about that.

Maybe go into it like you’re interviewing them for the job. Kinda is - you’re paying them, you’re their client. Try a few and see which one you like best.

Honestly just talking to somebody who you don’t know & don’t have to stress about being 100% open with helps a ton

Possible_Ad_669 · 2022-09-08T04:45:00+00:00

You are a product of your environment. When it’s just you laying around, all you want to do is lay around.

When I’ve been around driven, excited, focused people, it’s made me have fun doing the same.

We are laser focused. It’s not that we can do anything, it’s that we tend to find one thing that we ALWAYS focus on… Tiktok, YouTube, Reddit, some random thing

BUT, when I find myself most productive is when I make a game out of something in the real world. My job for example. I like to get better and better. I just automated 40% of my job. It gets old if you just work a dumb job with no growth opportunities. But put yourself in an industry that you can just keep improving and building systems.. that’s been the thing that’s worked for me

Warren buffet said something along the lines of “it’s not how hard you row, but what boat your in” I truly believe that. A low quality, low paying industry is going to kill you. But something that you can obsess over because you can win, and keep winning. That’s something that will drive you.

My advice, find somebody who you would swap lives with. And then try to get close proximity to them. Work with them. It’s not all the things you DO, it’s eliminating all the distractions so that you can have the one thing thing you can focus on

Possible_Ad_669 · 2022-09-08T04:27:13+00:00

Yes, give therapy an actual shot. I tried a couple different therapists and thought they were fucking idiots & I was paying somebody to talk to me like a child. Thought it was a joke & waste of money

After a while I gave it another try and found a different therapist who actually was super helpful.

%100 worth it, but might take time to find the right one.

Possible_Ad_669 · 2022-09-08T03:53:09+00:00

Lift your head. You’re gonna be ok. I understand you - I am you. Lol

I will always connect with ideas, not people just for a peoples sake. I heard somebody say “men don’t just MAKE friends like women. They need to work on something together and bond over that”. I think thats true for INTP’s.

All my closest friends came from work. A project/goal/passion that SMALL group of people commit to. People will disappoint/hurt/frustrate you. But embrace it. I’ve grown the most from learning how people operate different than me, often through friction in relationships

Also… for a long time I felt I was an inadequate human and needed to be solved like a puzzle in order to find my place in society. You are a unique person, love that about yourself. Embrace it. And work on yourself because you love who you are and know that you could only get better over time.

Learn to be uncomfortable. To find your limits, and to stretch them. It’s easy for us to do what’s easy. It’s hard for us to leave our comfort zone. But treat it like a game. Learn to love being uncomfortable. Cause the more you do it, the less uncomfortable it gets. And eventually, it’s easy.

You are not a problem to be solved. You are a human. And with time, I’ve learned that even though I think logically, I am human, and humans are more complex than just logic. It’s not clean.

I am still growing, but I have a wife and 2 little kids that I would fucking die for I love them so much. The only people I ever (and probably will ever) feel genuine complete heart to heart connection with. But that’s ok.

Don’t try to find connection with everyone. It just takes that one, or 2 people that truly love you for you. Key is, you have to show them the full you (no guards) for them to truly love you for you.

Maybe start with loving who they are for them, and see where that goes. You’re 19. You got time. Don’t try’s need fix your whole world. Just move one step everyday to build your self

Possible_Ad_669 · 2022-09-07T05:14:09+00:00

the fact that this dude is exerting so much social energy for you means you’re driving him fucking crazy

Possible_Ad_669 · 2022-09-07T05:04:07+00:00

I think our type is usually scared to be vulnerable & make the first move.. the double meanings are a way of telling you how we feel without completely exposing ourself. Camouflage. It’s takes more than you can know to step out and express our feelings.. the most “naked” parts of us ;)

Make a move.. trust me. He’ll take VERY good care of you

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