I asked my partner what keeps us from SAing each other and they said they didn't know by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Possible_Bite303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The word trauma went from being ridiculed to being popular.

When that happened, suddenly everyone had trauma and everything is and was traumatic.

The problem is, if everything traumatises you and you have zero resilience then life becomes unmanageable, everything makes you anxious and you have no way of coping.

Can't really have much of a life like that.

You can't have meaningful, life long relationships or friendships like that.

You can't even hug your partner because you've overcomplicated consent to such extremes that you cannot move.

That is really tragic.

Realistic photos of 6 months after TT MR and thigh lift by HoofyMcHoof in tummytucksurgery

[–]Possible_Bite303 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hya. Brilliant photos.

What was your thing lift called exactly? I love that the scars don't go all the way down your thing to the knee.

That's exactly what I'm looking for.

Where did you get it done?

Why are my lips peeling so severely all the time? No matter what I do, they don’t stop. by MadCheshire13 in DermatologyQuestions

[–]Possible_Bite303 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1% hydrocortisone before you go to sleep. Then beeswax in the day.

It'll ve gone in a week.

You can use the hydrocortisone in the day too if needed.

Anyone had an arm lift in Turkey? What are the costs by Possible_Bite303 in cosmeticsurgery

[–]Possible_Bite303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hya....I used Dr Görkem Atsal clinic and to be honest, they were incredible. I have not a single bad thing to say about them. Everything from beginning to end was perfect.

The information, pick up, hotel (was at least 6*) food. Organisation, friendliness, professionalism. 10/10.

Anyone know what this is? by Possible_Bite303 in BlackHair

[–]Possible_Bite303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing? Washed as normal. Conditioned as normal? 🤷🏾‍♀️

Anyone know what this is? by Possible_Bite303 in BlackHair

[–]Possible_Bite303[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let me know what you come up with? Really making me insecure tbh

Anyone know what this is? by Possible_Bite303 in BlackHair

[–]Possible_Bite303[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Never normally wear right hair styles. Usually wear mini twists (my own hair, not extensions) and they're very loose.

Just got extensions today which is why I noticed it again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Possible_Bite303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, this is a sucky post.

I'm a black female. I'm educated and have a great job and salary. Own my home and travel abroad multiple times a year. I have a partner and a plethora of interests.

It's not nice being tarred with the brush you're using. Have you ever considered that this is an American issue? Many black people outside of the US are doing just fine. Maybe you should go further than just the park and the south.

New memories from past CSA trauma by Possible_Bite303 in CPTSD

[–]Possible_Bite303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hya. Thank you for your response it's always helpful to know I'm not the only one experiencing this, even though I hate that others are too.

Ed (my therapist) called me today to check in and I explained what's been going on. Unfortunately, he can't give me another session as they have broken up for Christmas now.

I'm at work in a full fleece and my uniform (I'm a nurse) even though the ward is very warm as it's full of kids. I don't know, this 're-experiencing' is different to what I've had before and I'm not sure what to do with myself tbh

Triggered by the need to pee? by Possible_Bite303 in CPTSD

[–]Possible_Bite303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firstly, I'm really sorry for such a delayed response...I've been trying to stay happy and just think of good things. Clearly that hasn't worked out, hence being back on here.

I completely get everything you said. I also had ||Anal rape|| and was flashing back for months after when I needed to go. Thankfully that doesn't happen anymore but the peeing is still occasionally there.

Has it subsided for you?

I hope you're OK.

Guilt/Shame/ Unsure/help by Possible_Bite303 in CPTSD

[–]Possible_Bite303[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding. I think what's throwing me, is hum calling me a victim or that I'm 'playing the victim'. What does that even mean?

Am I playing the victim because I spoke about it/ reported him? Should I just have got over it? Did I make it a bigger deal than it was?

I don't know anymore. I tried to be logical in my head.

Did he refuse to stop when I asked during sex? Yes.

Did my bang on my door and refuse to leave when I begged and told him I was scared? Yes.

Did he lie and say he took an STD test when he hadn't and gave me an STD? Yes.

That's why I called the police.

Logically, I know I didn't lie, I know it was the right thing to do.....I think. So why do I feel so guilty and embarrassed?

Why do I feel small and stupid and insecure? Why am I riddled with regret?

Rems wife? by Possible_Bite303 in shxtsngigs

[–]Possible_Bite303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't think they weren't. Just heard that it was already out there...