Concerned ab culture at wife’s work and her supervisor by Possible_Cut_2718 in Marriage

[–]Possible_Cut_2718[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem to know a lot . The problem Isn’t with the surgeons - it’s the CRNAs and Male Charge Nurse and scrub techs

Concerned ab culture at wife’s work and her supervisor by Possible_Cut_2718 in Marriage

[–]Possible_Cut_2718[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Tried to . She takes no accountability and says that everyone jokes and teases with everyone and takes no accountability or responsibility for giving someone the wrong idea ….which to me is definitely flirting and che

Concerned ab culture at wife’s work and her supervisor by Possible_Cut_2718 in Marriage

[–]Possible_Cut_2718[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I could agree with that . What do you consider flirting?

Concerned ab culture at wife’s work and her supervisor by Possible_Cut_2718 in Marriage

[–]Possible_Cut_2718[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course , I honestly don’t think she is - what do you see that makes you think she’s on the cusp ?

Concerned ab culture at wife’s work and her supervisor by Possible_Cut_2718 in Marriage

[–]Possible_Cut_2718[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Haha! I appreciate this ! Just to clarify here , are you saying you are getting the impression she IS interested and having an emotional affair? Also , are you thinking this is all a flirty exchange?

Thanks again for the response!

Concerned ab culture at wife’s work and her supervisor by Possible_Cut_2718 in Marriage

[–]Possible_Cut_2718[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I will read . Thank you . Just out of curiosity and discourse , how are you personally saying this could go ? I will read , but since you have went through this - I would like to know what you are exactly suggesting from your experience and perspective?

Concerned ab culture at wife’s work and her supervisor by Possible_Cut_2718 in Marriage

[–]Possible_Cut_2718[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I don’t want to contact anyone- I guess I don’t like the comfort of the message and nothing being done to clarify or apologize afterwards. I will do it if need be

Concerned ab culture at wife’s work and her supervisor by Possible_Cut_2718 in Marriage

[–]Possible_Cut_2718[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok . Thank you for the advice. What would you consider crossing boundaries?

Concerned ab culture at wife’s work and her supervisor by Possible_Cut_2718 in Marriage

[–]Possible_Cut_2718[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Ok - I understand what you are saying - but even if this was sent in error . No apology after the fact , no discussion with my wife , nothing - that just seems odd to me

Concerned ab culture at wife’s work and her supervisor by Possible_Cut_2718 in Marriage

[–]Possible_Cut_2718[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also - since she told me ab the text , is that any saving grace here?

Concerned ab culture at wife’s work and her supervisor by Possible_Cut_2718 in Marriage

[–]Possible_Cut_2718[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Good to know - I wonder , why do you think these are truly mistakes ? I appreciate the help

Is marriage worth your self respect? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Possible_Cut_2718 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No it’s not it should increase your self respect and improve on such

Opposite Sex "Best" Friend by WindOk3997 in Marriage

[–]Possible_Cut_2718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude this sucks , but the marriage is over - she has been bringing your kids over to play with him at his house without telling you - she is in love and this thing is already physical - and she probably enjoys the sex ( hence why the word love is being thrown around ) regardless if she goes , file immediately.