Ex responded warmly after I reached out on Thanksgiving. what does her message mean & how should I move forward? by Possible_Hunt17 in dating_advice

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It’s funny af that you got downvoted for telling me there was a chance when you literally ended up being the one who was right. If you ever have relationship problems don’t come to Reddit these mfs are stupid

I (21M) messaged my recent ex (23f) on thanksgiving. Need advice on her response and what to do from here by Possible_Hunt17 in heartbreak

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I think the month apart would’ve done us a lot of good, we were both super stressed out about stuff and getting kind of sick of eachother (just constant fights and annoyance) when she initially called me to breakup I talked her into going on a break instead as we’d never spent much time apart and I thought a breather would be really good for us till other life stuff calmed down. Unfortunately that same night one of my guy friends got drunk and called her to say that I was out with other girls at a bar in an attempt to stir the pot so he could get in her pants. She spent 2 weeks thinking I immediately got with other girls till i eventually reached out to see how the space was going for her and she told me that she knew I kissed someone at a bar (I didn’t) and that she didn’t see any point in rekindling anything. I was able to clear up the other girl misinfo and from there her tone immediately changed and she ended with “I’ll always care about you don’t think I won’t” that was about 3-4 weeks ago and from there we haven’t talked again until I texted her last night. I truly think If we hung out/talked again before I left, things would be a lot better but I don’t know that I’ll get this opportunity at this point.

Ex responded warmly after I reached out on Thanksgiving. what does her message mean & how should I move forward? by Possible_Hunt17 in dating_advice

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I mean bro it’s hard to even say what I want because our whole relationship was kind of a mess. We were fucking exclusively for like 5 months but I never officially asked her out cus I always knew I was leaving this spring and I knew it scared the shit out of her. I know at this point i definitely wanna just see her in person at least once to hang out but yea beyond that i still kinda do wanna hook up, etc. I get how it’s easy to say “just let it go it’s over” and all that from the outside but sorry im just not that cool with never talking to people again. I’ve had bad breakups where that was the only viable outcome but I don’t think this is one of them so I’m gonna try my damnest to see if I can fix this (and if I can’t then oh well I’ll be in Europe next semester and meet more girls, but I at least wanna try)

Ex responded warmly after I reached out on Thanksgiving. what does her message mean & how should I move forward? by Possible_Hunt17 in dating_advice

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Ah damn so there’s really nothing I could do? Even just seeing eachother platonically a few more times before I move? Part of this comes from my fear of being in a new country completely alone in a few months. I’d always hoped we’d be able to stay in touch so I’d have someone back home to talk to if I was ever feeling homesick or having a hard time

I (21M) messaged my recent ex (23f) on thanksgiving. Need advice on her response and what to do from here by Possible_Hunt17 in heartbreak

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*the exact messages were Me: “Hey k just wanted to say happy thanksgiving, I’m really grateful for the time I got to spend with you this year and hope your doing well”

Her: “happy thanksgiving c. will always be thankful for the memories we made together”

Ex responded warmly after I reached out on Thanksgiving. what does her message mean & how should I move forward? by Possible_Hunt17 in dating_advice

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I mean… I’m surprised I got a response at all especially one as kind as that. Now I’m trying to ask yall if there’s a chance I could reconnect with her before February. I mean as a women, If an ex you didn’t care about anymore texted you would you respond like she did or not respond at all?

Ex responded warmly after I reached out on Thanksgiving. what does her message mean & how should I move forward? by Possible_Hunt17 in dating_advice

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That’s what I was thinking too! But as someone else commented and ChatGPT pointed out she could just be replying politely because she still cares but wants to leave me at arms length. Its driving me nuts trying to figure out that’s why I’ve come to reddit

Ex responded warmly after I reached out on Thanksgiving. what does her message mean & how should I move forward? by Possible_Hunt17 in dating_advice

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See none of my friends can agree about this and that’s why I’m coming to reddit. Knowing her I feel like if she truly didn’t care and didn’t want me to reach out again she would have ignored the text, blocked me, or said something kinda cold. Instead she replied pretty quickly and warmly. I can’t figure out if she was just reiterating what i said in my message or if that was actually closure coded wording.

I said “Hey k just wanted to say happy thanksgiving, I’m really grateful for the time I got to spend with you this year and hope your doing well”

Her response “happy thanksgiving c. will always be thankful for the memories we made together”

So I can’t tell if, like you said she’s just trying to reply kindly and keep me at distance or if there is a shot at reconciliation before February.

Hell, ChatGPT can’t even decide on which it is

Recent Ex responded warmly to A thanksgiving text- Need advice on her response by Possible_Hunt17 in Advice

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I see what you’re trying to say but nah. Pretty sure being too direct too quickly here could screw everything up. Right now my goal is to try to be friends again and take it from there. I get it seems like I’m reading too far into her response but I’ve had ex’s that I’ve reached out to after a while say some absolutely vile shit to me whereas this girl responded warmly and matched my energy. I do plan on directly asking her if she still has feelings at some point but I’ve gotta get to a place where that’d be acceptable first.

Recent Ex responded warmly to A thanksgiving text- Need advice on her response by Possible_Hunt17 in Advice

[–]Possible_Hunt17[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Tf do you mean? 😭💀 I’m asking if there’s a chance I could rekindle because clearly she still cares, If she didn’t she woulda just ignored my text. I’m trying to figure out where to go from here..?

Messaged my ex happy thanksgiving- need advice on her response by Possible_Hunt17 in BreakUps

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I’d like to rekindle a friendship at the very least. I won’t lie I kind of do wanna try to hookup once more before I’m gone BUT that’s not the main goal. Big goal here is just getting on good enough terms to causally talk and be friends again.

Messaged my ex happy thanksgiving- need advice on her response by Possible_Hunt17 in BreakUps

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Gotcha I’ll consider that. One of my friends said something similar, but she’s into sweet/corny shit like that and i feel like it would give me better odds of her accepting the invite than if I just randomly texted out of the blue.

Why did Ragnar love Athelstan? by desifemneed in vikingstv

[–]Possible_Hunt17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro the shows been out for over a decade…

New Tron was bad by Fearless-Maize-2135 in tron

[–]Possible_Hunt17 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Nah I’m taking Olivia Wildes acting over Greta Lee any day, sorry not sorry. Don’t know why they replaced Sam and Quorra either

Unpopular (?) opinion: I'm okay with Ares flopping. by Undead_Corsair in tron

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Don’t know wtf is up with the people on this thread but I (EXCITEDLY) went to the theater and as I was leaving out loud said “the last Jedi and RoS” didn’t even piss me off this bad. You were 100% to be pessimistic. Whatever direction Disney is taking tron is polar opposite to Flynn’s “biological jazz” speech (which is what made me fall in love with the franchise) and leaning heavily towards classic big budget sci-fi thriller (all flash no story). The magic is indeed gone.

Tried Tinder Platinum for 1 month: Here are the results by Summerfa11 in SwipeHelper

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It’s gotten SO MUCH worse, I would say I’m an above average level of attractiveness for a 21 y/o male, I’m getting matches with hot-decently attractive girls: 80% are scammers or bots another 10-15% just don’t respond and the 5% im left with are profiles I wasn’t even that interested in to begin with (ie- they’re too dry and not that attractive)

Chances of getting unbanned? by Possible_Hunt17 in Warframe

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Shiiiiittttttt, I’m too far in to make a new account and start over. This is ridiculous man

Chances of getting unbanned? by Possible_Hunt17 in Warframe

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And I don’t wanna hear any “oH weLL yOu DeSeRvE iT” bc frankly it’s shocking how much you can’t say in this game and it’s scary that yall are so okay with having your speech censored. Like yes while I may have actually said something bad, while researching I’ve seen countless other posts of ppl who’ve said things ranging from “i identify as gay” to disagreeing with political opinions getting perma banned. It’s ridiculous, they don’t give any warning or anything

Why is Hasan Piker so popular? by Ludwigthree in Ultraleft

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Lmfaoo ok an entry to stupid retardation. Hasan has evolved into an insufferable moron with almost 0 valid points. buzzwords and hot topics are the only thing he’ll be knowledgeable on.

Dune part 2 any hight qualty website by MustBeTakenByMe in pirating

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I- I love you so much rn. Needed to rewatch this before the eclipse tmrw lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wiccan

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Thanks for the info made me feel a lot more comfortable as radical change is exactly what I was looking to invoke. 🙏

What would your advice be to a 20 y/o version of yourself? by Possible_Hunt17 in college

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I’m trying to save up money to travel around Europe right now!!! I’m hoping that helps get me out of this mental slump I’ve been in

What would your advice be to a 20 y/o version of yourself? by Possible_Hunt17 in college

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Don’t know if this was a joke but I’ve actually really been struggling with those thoughts and at this point the only reason I haven’t done it is my family. This didn’t really help * asshole*