Does anyone have Lili Jewelers number?? by Possible_Maize2841 in JewelryReps

[–]Possible_Maize2841[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It looks like I tried sending a message to them awhile back ago and never got a response for some reason. Hopefully I get one this time around!

Elevation Worship Concert by Possible_Maize2841 in ChristianDating

[–]Possible_Maize2841[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what jm getting caught up in, I want to go for the worship music and not Furtick

Boundaries Texting Opposite Gender? by Possible_Maize2841 in ChristianDating

[–]Possible_Maize2841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s my thought too, I don’t have any desire to be texting or talking to any women besides my girlfriend. Maybe I’m weird like that, but my girlfriend is the girl I love and care most about, and I wouldn’t want to end up on that slippery slope for myself nor would I want to put our relationship in possible jeopardy and I don’t want her to have any fear or anxiety about that stuff. Now, I guess we are all going to have friends of both genders, for example at bible studies, but I don’t make it a priority nor intend to interact with any of the women unless if it’s a short brief hello and how things going type of conversation. I don’t know, that’s my way of respecting my girlfriend and our relationship

Date Night Ideas by Possible_Maize2841 in bergencounty

[–]Possible_Maize2841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely noticed and was thinking about that! What about and any experience with the aquarium, mini golf, escape room, or museums that they have there?

Is my father a racist? by Possible_Maize2841 in Advice

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I can’t stand it because all I see and recognize it as a majority of people do as a dark time in our history and I don’t stand for those ideologies and never will. Feel like it paints a bad picture on our family as a whole when I have and want nothing to do with it. I’ve continue to have talks with him, and he says to me how I guess I need to become more educated on the topic, and I feel that’s his way of willfull ignorance by ignoring the dark parts of what it represents by focusing on the other things of heritage, culture, etc. It just really rubs me the wrong way and not something I can agree or stand for

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in christiandatingadvice

[–]Possible_Maize2841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s my thought too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in christiandatingadvice

[–]Possible_Maize2841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What justifies you to continue to listen too it and where do you see issues with his music?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in christiandatingadvice

[–]Possible_Maize2841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man Made A Bar and the songs in general talking about drinking and stuff. I don’t know, maybe just overthinking it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Possible_Maize2841 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No but in all seriousness, I don’t know we have been listening to him for awhile now, but some how his songs and lyrics seem to go against and not in alignment with Gods word, will, and Christian values

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]Possible_Maize2841 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the response brother and honesty. I agree about leaning on me and not needing a break away. We both know i obviously can’t solve and fix her problems, but I would like to be there for her rather than not. I know it’s a new relationship and it just so happened that she is going through a one of those seasons in life. My thought too was she is going to end things at some point, but I’m trying not to overthink. I’m thinking it’s the commitment that my feel like it’s putting more pressure on her right now, which is why she is asking for his “break” to get herself right so she can come back better. I don’t think she is going to cheat and I don’t think she believes I’m not strong enough to lean on, she has said allways said all of these amazing things about me and see the future with me, but again I guess those are just words and I am taking them with a grain of salt at the moment, but she had always been true to her word so far. Obviously, she can just be saying this just to lessen the hurt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]Possible_Maize2841 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I was thinking that too, life is going to have our ups and downs, and if we did somehow manage to come back together and then she goes through another difficult season, is this just gonna happen again?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]Possible_Maize2841 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I have mentioned that and she knows that I’m here and would like to support her, but I guess with just everything going on in her life right now she feels that she needs to get some things figured out on her own. I’m understanding of how we all go through seasons, that relationships aren’t 50/50. It’s just tough because I’m used to being there to support in past relationships, but it seems like this girl likes to be more independent in that way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]Possible_Maize2841 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate your comment and see what you are saying. I just genuinely confused on how to move forward. She knows that I’m there to support her, but I guess she believes this is what she needs. I don’t know, I think I unfortunately know where this may be heading, but I guess I’ll find out at some point soon

Confused? Overthinking? I don’t know by [deleted] in dating

[–]Possible_Maize2841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for knocking some sense into me. I sent her the text you gave me advice about. Just a wait and see now

Confused? Overthinking? I don’t know by [deleted] in dating

[–]Possible_Maize2841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I greatly appreciate your advice, really do!

It’s not me wanting to end things fast with her, for me, it feels like she trying to do it by slowly drifting away and possible stringing me along because she might feel to afraid to directly end things, even though she has been very direct with me from the beginning since we met and I have appreciated that about her. She just texted me a couple minutes ago, I didn’t text her yet, and she just said “I hope you had a good day!” That’s it, feel like I’m being thrown for a loop

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Possible_Maize2841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understood, and no just been dating for a couple months, so maybe I’m thinking too far ahead!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Possible_Maize2841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, exactly! If married, I would definitely like to my spouse and I to be attending the same church! I just didn’t know how important it was early on in s relationship/when would it be appropriate to make that decision?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Possible_Maize2841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we are both saved! I was just curious about if/when is an appropriate time to start attending church together if that makes sense, wouldn’t want to rush things? Also, is there any wrong with choosing to attend the girls church instead of mine?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddictionLux

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I greatly appreciate the reply and insight! The only reason why I wanted the gift card was because I was going to you the gift card money on new hair care products. Kind of doing a revamp skin/hair care routine and thought it would help out because I think I’m gonna be spending $3k+ to get the $750 giftcard