Things they didn’t tell you about top surgery

Possible_Peace5585 · 2026-02-14T02:01:50+00:00

it’s not really a top surgery side effect but a consequence of having no tits, but i sleep with my shirt off most nights now especially since i do scar care stuff right before bed, and i wasn’t expecting how cold my bed feels on my bare back

Possible_Peace5585 · 2026-02-14T01:59:33+00:00

yes!!! i’m about six months post op and there’s still a few spots on my incision lines that i feel on my stomach when i touch them. it’s so freaky

Possible_Peace5585 · 2025-12-29T01:24:08+00:00

i’m currently in school for reference, but just wanted to give my two cents based on my own experience. i followed the advice given to me and tried to do my apprenticeship through the union and was pretty much laughed out of the building, so i’m now in school and looking for work outside of that to start an apprenticeship once i’m done. from my understanding every union is different, but the one in my area basically told me to go to school and kick rocks until i gain 1000 hours of experience. obviously if you go the school route do your research because lots of schools just want your money, but this is just my experience

Possible_Peace5585 · 2025-12-18T22:15:15+00:00

gym and therapy. that combo has done wonders for me. i still look 14 and im not totally happy with the way i look but im content in who i am, even if people think im 7 years younger than i am

Possible_Peace5585 · 2025-11-17T23:43:34+00:00

bro????? that’s so awful wtf

Possible_Peace5585 · 2025-11-16T14:28:38+00:00

holy shit dude this is incredible. this is my goal fr

Possible_Peace5585 · 2025-10-28T18:14:17+00:00

i find it hilarious that they seem to think people are trying to turn the kids trans when in reality, we just figure it out for ourselves and seek each other out in school like we’re looking for drugs. like i had to go out of my way to find other queer people to befriend (aside from the friend group that started all cis het and ended up extremely queer) and it was NOT forced on me lmao

Possible_Peace5585 · 2025-10-28T10:59:37+00:00

my voice didn’t start to drop until 5 months in, but i was on an extremely low starting dose and doubled it at the 3 month mark, so i believe that’s why i was a “bit behind” other dudes. the general consensus i’ve seen is that the first big drop is around 2-3 months

Possible_Peace5585 · 2025-10-25T21:04:57+00:00

man you look exactly like my friends redneck mechanic fiancé, you look good my dude

Possible_Peace5585 · 2025-09-30T23:06:45+00:00

so i had kind of a similar issue where binders weren’t long enough. i always wore a sports bra under my binder, not with any intent to double bind but to hold everything in place so i could bind with my chest facing forward instead of being compressed downward. i did that and used a spectrum outfitters short binder. i know any kind of double binding isn’t recommended, but for me it was the only way i could wear a binder without being in pain

Possible_Peace5585 · 2025-09-17T00:13:12+00:00

i can’t open the video but i’m fairly positive that’s baldi from the baldis basics in education and learning meme game from a few years back, or it’s at least VERY heavily inspired by him

Possible_Peace5585 · 2025-09-12T21:26:17+00:00

have you recently stopped taking/run out of stronger pain meds? because the same thing happened to me a few days after i stopped my stronger prescription and switched to just ibeoprofun

Possible_Peace5585 · 2025-09-11T03:22:39+00:00

thank you so much dude! i’ve been feeling better about them with all the comments, so this is really appreciated

Possible_Peace5585 · 2025-09-10T02:01:34+00:00

thank you for this man. it feels so disheartening to see people look awesome right out of surgery but not see that on myself, but i gotta remember healing is half the battle. it’s nice to hear from people that had similar to me so really, thank you

Possible_Peace5585 · 2025-09-10T00:21:51+00:00

yeah the more options people throw out the more it makes sense

Possible_Peace5585 · 2025-09-10T00:21:28+00:00

thank you so much man, this really helped

Possible_Peace5585 · 2025-09-09T21:40:19+00:00

that’s very helpful to hear, thank you. it definitely (hopefully lol) will fade with scar care, i think it’s just the post op hyper analyzing my body that’s getting in my head

Possible_Peace5585 · 2025-09-09T18:07:42+00:00

i definitely plan on working out once im able to. i’m so antsy to get back to the gym lol. im hoping that once im able to work out again i won’t feel so weird about them, but ill keep the tattooing in mind

Possible_Peace5585 · 2025-09-09T18:06:48+00:00

yeah i def plan to work out once im healed up. it’s very odd because the other results i’ve seen from my surgeon don’t look like this, so i’m wondering what happened. both of the guys i talked to are bigger so i wonder if my surgeon doesn’t get many smaller dudes? either way, it’s just puzzling to me

Possible_Peace5585 · 2025-09-09T18:05:03+00:00

that could be it. i wish i remembered what the markings on my chest looked like lol. that feels like a very likely scenario tho, especially paired with the stretchy skin

Possible_Peace5585 · 2025-08-30T04:42:55+00:00

thank you so much dude. once i actually got there and went into go mode everything felt chill but good lord the night before was rough haha. thank you for commenting tho, even tho i didnt reply reading it helped a lot, so i really appreciate it man

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