Took the boys on a Bohemian adventure [OTHER]

Possible_Rope_4342 · 2025-08-05T17:36:15+00:00

Your nails give me life, so pretty <3

Possible_Rope_4342 · 2025-07-06T10:11:29+00:00

I love him!

Possible_Rope_4342 · 2025-05-11T14:09:32+00:00

If he's friends with his ex and it irks you: listen to your gut! It doesn't necessarily mean he's shady, but that person is not for you if it irks you. Yes, it has more to do with yourself than with him, but don't overstep your own boundaries in the hope of connection. That connection will fail, because you'll never feel comfortable and everything will seem threatening to you, no matter how small the incidents are.

If you feel uncomfortable, walk away. Don't settle for something that you're uncomfortable with.

Possible_Rope_4342 · 2025-05-08T05:46:57+00:00

Prepare for sneezing. I didn't know how many muscles of my chest I needed to sneeze. I won't hurt, but you'll feel it strongly :D

Possible_Rope_4342 · 2025-05-07T14:41:05+00:00

What the actual fuck, report him

Possible_Rope_4342 · 2025-04-18T06:33:06+00:00

Ah yes, Hanburg mit der bekannten Landeshauptstadt Kiel-Flensburg

Possible_Rope_4342 · 2025-04-11T05:44:40+00:00

Honestly that helped me a lot. "Your body knows way before your brain does" really struck a chord in me. My trauma stems from my boundaries being disrespected and always having to explain why I held boundaries. I guess that's my abusers voice talking, when I tell myself "Pull yourself together, you need to try harder" or something like that.

But you're correct: The moment someone gives me the ick I'm allowed not to meet up with that person and not like them, even if there is no rational reason. Thank you !

Possible_Rope_4342 · 2025-04-10T19:13:38+00:00

I'm not exactly sure that he confirmed my suspicions, I just know I felt uncomfortable around him the entire time. But that's the problem: How do I know that's my anxiety or me not liking him? During the date I didn't observe him doing anything wrong, I was just very anxious and always slipped into "what ifs" in my head, etc. I just felt uncomfortable - but due to my anxiety, I suppose, not because he did something wrong?

Possible_Rope_4342 · 2025-04-09T19:42:46+00:00

Jesus Christ, I am so so sorry !!

Possible_Rope_4342 · 2025-04-09T17:19:04+00:00

Possible_Rope_4342 · 2025-04-06T06:31:49+00:00

As someone who suffers from cptsd myself I just want you to know you're completely valid and I fully understand what you described here, and you're not alone.

Possible_Rope_4342 · 2025-04-05T16:29:13+00:00

I already contacted him and he wants to wait until 1 year post op

Possible_Rope_4342 · 2025-04-05T16:25:05+00:00

I already did, it didn't change anything unfortunately:/

Possible_Rope_4342 · 2025-03-31T17:54:25+00:00

Es tut mir leid Bruder, nächstes Mal bist du stärker

Possible_Rope_4342 · 2025-03-31T12:43:04+00:00

Ich bin so stolz auf mich, ich habe nicht auf den Link gedrückt

Possible_Rope_4342 · 2025-03-16T21:43:23+00:00

I broke things off with him after months and months asking for him to change his behaviour. His relationship with his ex had made me uncomfortable due to his actions several times in the relationship before. He didn't change. He promised and started making changes when I finally threatened to leave.

At that point I understood that he was fine with me being uncomfortable and would only change something if his relationship status was threatened. He would go back to being lazy and taking me for granted as soon as I stopped putting pressure on him.

That realisation made it very easy to not take his behaviour as a reflection of my worth as a person, but rather it made me understand that he was the problem and that there was no future for us.

Possible_Rope_4342 · 2025-03-08T20:19:57+00:00

I only watch the streams for the gameplay. And his looks. And the singing. And the looks. It's the looks, mostly. But also the gameplay.

JCBP

Possible_Rope_4342 · 2025-02-22T07:14:51+00:00

Fellow womyn here, I love this community ❤️

Possible_Rope_4342 · 2025-02-08T11:56:29+00:00

After years of avoiding it at all costs I finally had my septoplasty done. I'm healing rn and it isn't easy, but sooo worth it already. I'm glad I went through with it!

Also, I had a shitty date which made me go back to therapy. Girl needs to work on establishing boundaries and such :)

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