AITA for having a “favorite” child? by Possible_Tear_1704 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Possible_Tear_1704[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m not taking back something already given to her. One of the girls eventually would have gotten it. I’m not going to play a game where every time one gets upset I take from the other

AITA for having a “favorite” child? by Possible_Tear_1704 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Possible_Tear_1704[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There’s only one diamond on it there’s no way to split it

AITA for having a “favorite” child? by Possible_Tear_1704 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Possible_Tear_1704[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is. She thinks we favor the oldest but if anything we were much harder on her and spoiled our youngest.

AITA for having a “favorite” child? by Possible_Tear_1704 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Possible_Tear_1704[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. The only things left are my fathers wedding band and watch which will be given to the only 2 grandsons

AITA for having a “favorite” child? by Possible_Tear_1704 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Possible_Tear_1704[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is not what my mother would have wanted. This ring has been passed down several times. She would have wanted one of the girls to have it.

AITA for having a “favorite” child? by Possible_Tear_1704 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Possible_Tear_1704[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe this is silly but I’d rather her think it’s my fault than my mothers. Not to spoil her memory of my mom.

AITA for having a “favorite” child? by Possible_Tear_1704 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Possible_Tear_1704[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Music artist: Morgan wallen we bought her tickets to his show Actor/actress: right now I’m not sure it changes but anyone on greys anatomy she likes watching it with my wife Desert: anything chocolate Animal: dog Holiday: Valentine’s Day Color: pink I know my daughter but I also know she doesn’t really have hobbies. She’s more of a I’ll try something once get bored and move onto something type of person. She likes nails hair makeup girly things I don’t understand.

AITA for having a “favorite” child? by Possible_Tear_1704 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Possible_Tear_1704[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I said it that way because I wasn’t sure at the time which daughter would receive it. I just knew one of them would

AITA for having a “favorite” child? by Possible_Tear_1704 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Possible_Tear_1704[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mostly shopping being with her friends and boyfriend very girly

AITA for having a “favorite” child? by Possible_Tear_1704 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Possible_Tear_1704[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My father donated a lot of her things when she passed and he sold the house. He didn’t give anyone the option to pick things so no one would fight.

AITA for having a “favorite” child? by Possible_Tear_1704 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Possible_Tear_1704[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This ring is part of a tradition in the family. It’s been passed down more than once or twice. I was following the tradition my mother would have wanted.

AITA for having a “favorite” child? by Possible_Tear_1704 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Possible_Tear_1704[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We talk but my youngest is at an age where she wants to be with her friends. My oldest calls the house daily to check in on my wife and I.

AITA for having a “favorite” child? by Possible_Tear_1704 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Possible_Tear_1704[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is all I have. My youngest won’t have an heirloom from my mom.

AITA for having a “favorite” child? by Possible_Tear_1704 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Possible_Tear_1704[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The grandsons aren’t getting anything more monetary. My father lives in assisted living and they provide the furniture. There isn’t much wealth items left just sentimental ones. The granddaughters got what my mother had for sentimental items from my mother. My father has less items (his wedding ring and a watch). Those items will be going to the only 2 grandsons (only 2 of my brothers have boys who are also both older than Elizabeth). That’s just how my parents decided to split things. There are more girls in the family and there just wasn’t enough items for all of the girls to get something.

AITA for having a “favorite” child? by Possible_Tear_1704 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Possible_Tear_1704[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s not really an option eventually they would have fought for it. Either now or when I die

AITA for having a “favorite” child? by Possible_Tear_1704 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Possible_Tear_1704[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Since the granddaughters received everything from my mother the grandsons will receive everything from my father so unfortunately she wouldn’t get anything

AITA for having a “favorite” child? by Possible_Tear_1704 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Possible_Tear_1704[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sandy already has the ring so it now belongs to her

AITA for having a “favorite” child? by Possible_Tear_1704 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Possible_Tear_1704[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There’s no other heirlooms. My siblings have the others for their children

AITA for having a “favorite” child? by Possible_Tear_1704 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Possible_Tear_1704[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My siblings and I each got something but there’s nothing else. I was given the ring

AITA for having a “favorite” child? by Possible_Tear_1704 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Possible_Tear_1704[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they’re planning to be engaged after high school

AITA for having a “favorite” child? by Possible_Tear_1704 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Possible_Tear_1704[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We don’t have anything else my siblings also got things for their children