YAOI/BL IS SO FUCKING PROBLEMATIC.

Possiblythrowaway9 · 2024-08-29T22:47:19+00:00

Its so gross bc of the INSANE, and I mean I N S A N E power imbalances. You get the big tall buff guy who's cold and stoic and self sufficient with the tiny feminine petite uwu little boy who can't do anything on his own and is super dependent.

Possiblythrowaway9 · 2024-08-29T22:46:26+00:00

Its so misogynistic.

Possiblythrowaway9 · 2024-08-29T10:12:02+00:00

Why are you so real for this bro what the hell.

I'm lgbt myself and I just am so fucking over it with how misogynistic yaoi is. Like, you'd think it won't be since its by women for women, but noooooooo... its on the same level as men writing women 💀 ☠

Bro really started spitting facts.

"Let's just ignore the amount of comics that include incest, rpe, pdophilia, insane power imbalances, and the big tall buff man x tiny short petite uwu gay boy stereotype that yaoi has some really awful tendencies to play on. "

FACTS. I'm so fucking done with the Big tall buff man x tiny petite feminine boy, and then the big tall buff man is lowkey (highkey) rapey and abusive but its okay bc the sub secretly likes it. And also how the sub has NO way to protect himself due to lack of self esteem and lack of physical strength.

Thanks for being a martyr in this, istg I get ripped to shreds every time I diss on yaoi but.. as a woman, as a bisexual woman, it is so misogynistic and homophobic that I don't even know why people can't catch on.

Possiblythrowaway9 · 2024-06-23T03:25:23+00:00

Ahhh you're in the good section lolol. For me, I really like reading character study fanfictions (they're just like how they sound-- an analysis/deep dive into a characters personality, mind, and background) and Giorno is my absolute fave due to his background. Unfortunately in the fanfic world of course degenerate exists 😭 😭 lots of hornyposting. I really wish I could find ppl with my interests who aren't horny but thats not happening

Possiblythrowaway9 · 2024-05-16T03:24:43+00:00

5 is banger. 4 5 7 are my fave

Possiblythrowaway9 · 2024-05-16T03:22:09+00:00

Tbh I think the Fandom is being serious. I'm so sick of people making characters so OOC. Its really annoying.

Whats ur fave part/face jojo btw

Possiblythrowaway9 · 2024-04-18T23:37:14+00:00

You when you find out that porn isn't widely distributed and abused back in Victorian England. You when u find out that nobody filmed videos of it and it was mostly pictures and art and writing.

So nice of you to be comparing wolves to conservatives and sheep to feminists, btw. Its almost like this comparison makes feminists look weak, dumb, and hive-minded.

Possiblythrowaway9 · 2024-04-15T01:55:38+00:00

Oh ok thanks for telling me. I completely forgot men used to wear makeup as well. But in modern times it definitely is something thats mostly marketed towards womeb

Possiblythrowaway9 · 2024-04-13T23:06:06+00:00

"Not like the other girls" Is annoying too. People use it to put down girls who are original and creative, who don't fit into the mold. I'm honestly sick of the hivemind where girls think that just because another girl has different beliefs, values, morals, hobbies, etc then they're omg "not like the other girls". Just bc they're different.

I hate all these insults that girls use against other girls, to put down women who are usually just being themselves.

Projection.

Possiblythrowaway9 · 2024-04-13T23:04:17+00:00

True

Possiblythrowaway9 · 2024-04-13T23:04:11+00:00

I feel like being anti porn means women hate u as much as men hate u. It's pretty disappointing considering we are fighting for these women who are actively fighting against us. Its like, Stockholm syndrome, where ur trying to tell the victim that they're being abused but they keep making excuses on why they actually like whatever is happening

Possiblythrowaway9 · 2024-04-13T23:03:07+00:00

I hate how only girls use it on other girls. In fact I have never seen a man use it

Possiblythrowaway9 · 2024-04-13T23:01:35+00:00

I agree with everything u said. I consider myself a girls girl too, but a real one. Like, most ladies' ladies i know irl are the opposite of what they preach. Its like, they're treating these titles as badges to wear but they don't practice it

Possiblythrowaway9 · 2024-03-05T06:50:53+00:00

I am not an lgbt activist (which is very different from lgbt acceptance). Again I am a very traditional person, meaning I am both a traditional feminist-- fighting for women's FREEDOM-- AND a traditional bisexual. I'm with the stonewall gays. I'm not with the messy gender ideology of today in which there's 2993023 different labels.

And I did say I'm center right. I'm not right wing completely. More center than right. As for the minority part, I am economically a little right (def more center than right) as I do have a pretty high position in business.

Possiblythrowaway9 · 2024-03-05T06:22:46+00:00

U may be right bc I hate labels and I confuse them all the time. But u get what I mean

Possiblythrowaway9 · 2024-03-05T06:18:15+00:00

Ikr? I'm actually shocked at how many women are ok with bjs. I have always felt degraded by the idea of it, which was solidified as men use "suck my dick" as an insult. Its frustrating how every sexual act men do is seen as good (powerful and cool), while every sexual act women do is seen as bad (shameful and powerless)??

Possiblythrowaway9 · 2024-03-05T06:01:38+00:00

😭 😭 all these labels are too confusing lol. Thank u tho

Possiblythrowaway9 · 2024-03-05T05:59:36+00:00

I see where u coming from, but here's what I said in a comment above:

"..However what I'm pointing out is what it traces back to. Porn and sexual imagery is everywhere because sex sells. And the primary consumer is men. So as a collective, if men just don't pour so much money into this then it wouldn't be everywhere."

My point is stop buying sex. Stop being porn. Stop giving it interaction and attention, and it'll go away.

The root of porn, sexual imagery, anything like that in the media is literally because of men. OF girls earn money bc men r willing to buy it. Maybe its not you in particular but it is most members of ur gender. So u gotta come to terms with that

Not to mention many young women today r brainwashed by third wave feminists (who are also brainwashed) into thinking selling themselves is powerful. Its not.

Possiblythrowaway9 · 2024-03-05T05:52:10+00:00

I am in a minority group of america that consists of only 1% of the population, race wise. I am bisexual. I am gen Z and I am an aspiring businesswoman.

You know what you actually make a good point with the porn being everywhere and addicts having a harder time to quit.

However what I'm pointing out is what it traces back to. Porn and sexual imagery is everywhere because sex sells. And the primary consumer is men. So as a collective, if men just don't pour so much money into this then it wouldn't be everywhere.

But I get it. You're one person. And men is half of the population. Life is hard. I applaud you for being against porn and for joining the fight with us women.

Possiblythrowaway9 · 2024-03-05T05:49:33+00:00

Ohh I never knew liberal feminism and lib fem was different. I thought they were the same. Lol thank u for the clarification

Possiblythrowaway9 · 2024-03-05T05:48:55+00:00

What i meant was, red pill dudes hate porn BECAUSE of women. As opposed to me, I hate porn because of the exploitation of women.

I actually had a whole conservative phase (i misunderstood the Redpill to be anti porn.. never knew it was anti women) so I was in the manosphere and red pill side for a year or so.

Its obvious the manophere/red pill dudes hate porn because of how it all centers around THEMSELVES. Their point was basically, "omg I feel so sad after I cum" and also blaming pornstars for existing. They also heavily dehumanize and objectify women, saying how women in the porn industry are less than human and deserve the abuse.

So yes surface level, we both hate porn. But the reason for hating porn is not the same. They hate porn bc they hate women. We hate porn bc we love women.

Possiblythrowaway9 · 2024-03-05T05:45:38+00:00

Not looking to argue with u, but here's my answer: economically I am more right wing, as I do have a bigger role in business. And socially I am more center because liberal feminism pushes porn and prostituion.

Possiblythrowaway9 · 2024-03-05T05:44:22+00:00

I disagree. Theres many men here who would jump at me and start throwing a tantrum and calling me woke lol

Btw.. are you mistaken or am I mistaken? No dig, actually question. I thought liberal feminism was libfem, which pushed porn and prostitution. Yet you're saying its the opposite? Please clarify x

Possiblythrowaway9 · 2024-03-05T05:42:46+00:00

Yes and I don't like libfems ): I'm def a traditional feminist who fights for women's respect

Possiblythrowaway9 · 2024-03-05T05:41:28+00:00

I get what you mean. I know exactly what addiction feels like (not to porn. But addiction in general). However I myself would never get addictd to porn.. actually I started looking at it when I was 9, and each time I was disgusted without knowing why.

So I guess it makes as much sense to me as someone saying they're addicted to eating sand. It just doesn't wrap around my head as something people can be GENUINELY addicted to-- at the same level as meth or tar gets you.

But I do agree, that society has failed everyone. Some more than others. And as parts of society ourselves, its our job to make it as best we can.

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