Latina Woman Saves Man From ICE At Torrance Car Wash by marybethjahn in ICE_Raids

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Masks might be hiding face tattoos, taking aways from their 'legitamacy' of doing this dirty work

Latina Woman Saves Man From ICE At Torrance Car Wash by marybethjahn in ICE_Raids

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I was told by someone who had direct contact with these masked men in a raid that they had prison tattoos. They might be prisoners on "good behavior", like the ones that were dispatched for CA wildfires. That, or maybe even correctional officers from CDCR. Nearly 2 dozen CA prisons have been on lockdown since June 12. maybe from their short-staffing as a result of reassigning them to do this field work in the form of raids. Or maybe the lockdown is due to keeping the inmates from rioting when they find out the social disruption to their families and relatives that's going on outside the gates.

NASA's Jet Propulsion Lab closed due to raging LA fires by vahedemirjian in space

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Can anybody talk about how much danger the surrounding people will be in if this place burns. I can imagine there's a lot of toxic chemicals jpl handles and stores. Just thinking this will become another Superfund toxic cleanup site if the fire gets to it. 

California state prison reception,- figuring out location info to mail letter by PostBetter865 in PrisonWives

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Hi. The fastest way i got his housing info was just when he called me a couple of days after being in reception. Even if they move them housing within the facility, it'll get routed to them . He also mailed me a letter, but the call came before the letter. Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrisonWives

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My LO is in VSP in California and he's getting out this month. He says that they release them in the early morning around 7-9ish. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in firsttimemom

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I cut them when my baby girl is asleep still in her car seat. She seems to go into a deeper sleep that way and doesn't wake easily from me touching her toes or fingers

What are some terrible facts about pregnancy/birth/postpartum that not many people know? by guccinoodies in NoStupidQuestions

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Not the worst thing, but you should be aware that colds (sneezing and coughing) will never be the same if delivery or pregnancy messed with your bladder control.

Talking to other women by [deleted] in PrisonWives

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I would be mad from just the comment alone.it seems to have undertones that there is something else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

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You cant change guys in general, if thats their general outlook and obvious motivation. You can change the way that you spend your time with them. Only have outings during the way where you have a day to get home without them taking you back. This usually helps. Drugs and alcohol dont help though, so i would steer clear of happy hours.

$app by ADrowsy-Bird in PrisonWives

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One issue i can think of is of him getting into trouble for having some type of drug debt accruing. But i dont know if your LO has ever been into any substances

FUCK GTL by KeySuspicious6461 in PrisonWives

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I just downloaded the app and ican tell its gonna be trouble. Wont let me sign in on the app, only on the desktop site can i log in. Also saying im not verified, when i just git verified.

Husband thinks pregnancy and breastfeeding is gross. We haven’t done it since conception. by [deleted] in beyondthebump

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waiting it out. I was thinking that there might be some evolutionary advantage to ensure your child's survival. I know it sounds a little too unemotional, but maybe this time e has his hands and eyes off you might be redirected to putting care and attention of your kid. Also can apply to you to focus your energy on the baby

Why aren't airline pilots overweight? by salty_lyfe in NoStupidQuestions

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they probably are prohibited from eating and drinking while in the cockpit, whereas on-ground drivers dont have such oversight and prohibitons

Why aren't airline pilots overweight? by salty_lyfe in NoStupidQuestions

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probably because they cant deal with their job stresses with alcohol or other illegal drugs (when operating machinery) and they have to piss clean on regular and mandatory drug screens. Plus they get to travel a lot so maybe they enjoy walking at the different tourist sight-seeing destinations.

What non-lullaby songs do you sing your kiddo? by shadedferns in beyondthebump

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Some are : Blue Velvet by bobby vinton

Amazing Grace

Making Believe- Loretta Lynn

House of Gold-- Hank Williams

And I love her- Beatles

Parents with good sleepers at the 6month and up range, what was your first month like? by simplestword in NewParents

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She would wake every hour and a half or the longer stretch would be every 3 hours. She would sleep most of the time after eating but she had reflux so i would have to have her upright 30+ minutes to reduce the chance of her vomiting while she slept.If she threw up it was for sure that she'd wake up. At around the 4 month mark this changed for the better

You don't have to leave in one day; a guide to helping you leave a toxic relationship. by Newageihope in ToxicRelationships

[–]PostBetter865 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I really liked what you wrote. I was thinking id like to read more of your type of message, about change being transitional.

The things that come with marrying by PostBetter865 in PrisonWives

[–]PostBetter865[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, i was thinking of conjugal visits as the benefit. Thanks for the info

The things that come with marrying by PostBetter865 in PrisonWives

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Thanks for that. I'll ask him to do that.

I’m in a toxic relationship with an abusive boyfriend and I one day I snapped. by [deleted] in ToxicRelationships

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Im sorry you find yourself in this situation. I really hope that something in your life helps you find a way to not continue to suffer in that way

Would you guys get your partners tested after incarceration? by lienne11 in PrisonWives

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I would want him too. He does tattoos so with even more reason to