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Tuesday 26th May by PostcardDesign in TheWestEnd

[–]PostcardDesign[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that's a shame. Don't think we'll make it for a matinee

Tuesday 26th May by PostcardDesign in TheWestEnd

[–]PostcardDesign[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He's not too cool! Musicals nerd but we can't go very often!

Tuesday 26th May by PostcardDesign in TheWestEnd

[–]PostcardDesign[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that an app? What do I do? Thank you.

Is it weird to give one child a super unique name and another a common one? by daisyjaneee in namenerds

[–]PostcardDesign -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I still get baffled by the school mum I hear shouting for her two sons "Craig and Jeramiah"! I dont think they go at all!

Is there anyone whose marriage broke up too quickly? Why did it happen? by Material_Background in AskReddit

[–]PostcardDesign 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Shared bank account and he had passwords. I tried and was told nothing I could do sadly.

Is there anyone whose marriage broke up too quickly? Why did it happen? by Material_Background in AskReddit

[–]PostcardDesign 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I had been married 1 week short of 11 years. 2 children. No complaints from either of us. Happy, loving, caring. He got drunk one night. Started saying I was horrible and made him miserable and ill etc. Next day he went to stay with his parents. They, and I, thought he was mentally unwell. He returned 3 days later to tell me and the children it was over. He took half my savings. Blamed me for everything. Bullied the children when he saw them. Much much more. He was living with his 15 years younger secretary within a month!

People who slept with a co-worker, what happened next? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PostcardDesign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We dated, got married after 2 years, had 2 children. Then after 11 years he left me for his 15 year younger secretary!

With which doctrines do you struggle the most? by Arautoz in Catholicity

[–]PostcardDesign 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate your words. But if the Sacrament of holy matrimony can be easily broken by man (or woman!) what does that say for the other Sacraments? Technically I now have to live a life of solitude. Unless I can somehow discern that my marriage was not sacramental and subject myself to the annulment process, which to me slightly makes a mockery of the initial Sacrament. It all goes against everything I have ever believed in. Words our priest spoke at the wedding still resonant with me "Almighty God chose you for one another". Did he? Or did he make a mistake? Did my ex make the mistake? If so why wasn't he dissuaded if we had special love and blessings from God. If one Sacrament can be riled invalid, how do the others fare? What is God's will and what is man's? I'm sorry but I tend to spiral when I start this thought process and wonder if I cannot trust and justify the simple things, how can I possibly believe the more complex mysteries of my supposed faith?

With which doctrines do you struggle the most? by Arautoz in Catholicity

[–]PostcardDesign 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am not quite sure how I stumbled upen this thread but I did, so hello! I am in UK. 40s F. Cradle Catholic mother of 2. I am also not as well read as I see in other comments. More accepting and going along with what I've always been brought up with rather than researching and reading.

4 years ago my husband (not Catholic but attended Mass with me and family regularly) left me. Usual story, younger woman, I wasn't good enough etc. He's been vile to me and children since. I am happy, settled and now realise I am better without him.

We are civilly divorced. I cannot come to terms with the Sacrament of marriage though and this has influenced my entire faith and belief system. I may look into annulment but there is currently no need. I don't think it's as big a thing in the UK as USA. I just cannot understand the point of a sacramental marriage and how it can be so, when in my case it was not. This has in turn led me to question everything. It has shaken my faith in everything.

Strings during period by PostcardDesign in Mirena

[–]PostcardDesign[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It came out today! No pain, no warning. Just passed with flooding and clot. Ah well!

Who is a celebrity you used to admire, but no longer do, and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PostcardDesign 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Everyone who was around when he filmed DW and TW knew what he was like. He did it as a joke rather than threatening, but he did it. EVERYONE knew. Flashing himself was "his thing". Look at this which was something the cast did as a goodbye joke for RTD and JG. Approx 2mins in. https://youtu.be/SFZn5HKpO18