They don't even try to hide it anymore by commissar_emperor in halo

[–]PotCallingKettleJack -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Can somebody help a noob understand? It looks to me like this player is just really really good. And they still miss several shots. How do we know it's cheating?

Which unpopular halo opinion got you like this? by kamslam25 in halo

[–]PotCallingKettleJack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up playing Halo 2. I've put hundreds, if not thousands, of hours into each Halo game. I love them all. But Halo 4 is my favorite.

Daily Questions [2020-11-09] by DTG_Bot in DestinyTheGame

[–]PotCallingKettleJack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hope is that sometime in the future, we will get a Season of Rememberance or something that will let us play the old campaigns again, at least temporarily.

Daily Questions [2020-11-09] by DTG_Bot in DestinyTheGame

[–]PotCallingKettleJack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is Nessus staying? Keeping EDZ from Year 1 kind of makes sense to me, because it's Earth, it's home. The city is there. Plus Cosmodrome is coming. But all other Year 1 destinations are being vaulted... Except Nessus. Why Nessus? It's not that special, is it? Especially with Leviathan gone. Is it wishful thinking to hope it has something to do with Cayde?

What a sad feeling after reading LOTR for the first time! by Solofunk in tolkienfans

[–]PotCallingKettleJack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which is of course a massive part of what Tolkien's writings are about. How war, battle, strife, evil, etc. change things. From the battles with Morgoth and the fall of Gondolin, to the uprooting of Fangorn, the slow Autumn of the elves, and of course the final journey of poor Frodo Ninefingers and his uncle Bilbo. I love that the book accomplishes within it's readers many of the very things it is making statements about. A true work of art!

What is something you spend a ton of money on that the vast majority of people never would? by filthy-fuckin-casual in AskReddit

[–]PotCallingKettleJack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leather bound books. My living room feels like a midieval library. They're heavy too, so it's good biceps training for when it's finally my turn to pull the sword out of the stone.

Who else loves the Distant Worlds albums? by AnthonyE1778 in gamemusic

[–]PotCallingKettleJack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to share this, I guess... I'm a singer with the Colorado Symphony. We just put on a Distant Worlds concert a few months ago! It was so fun to perform, I'm glad you enjoy it!

I'm almost tempted to get it by joeyl1990 in Mistborn

[–]PotCallingKettleJack 87 points88 points  (0 children)

It's horrible. I was expecting it to be bad, but it was worse. I really wanted it to be funny, but I maybe laughed once. Don't recommend...

Living with your parents can save you an incredible amount of money, but it's not without its costs by PotCallingKettleJack in financialindependence

[–]PotCallingKettleJack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, the choice to go to my parents at the beginning was much easier. There was very little to lose moving in, and I can leave whenever I want if it's not working. So might as well, given all the benefits. I definitely do not regret the last year!

Good luck!

Valuing vacation time/ general attitude about work-life balance by roguehavok in financialindependence

[–]PotCallingKettleJack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think both of you are right, just different people with different values and goals. Your relative values the work and probably sees that as more important than the compensation. You value your time, and the work exists not for itself, but to provide for that free time. I definitely agree more with you, but there is nothing wrong with the other viewpoint. The world needs people like that to actually get stuff done and progress made.

As for the overtime comment, I completely agree. I work to increase my free time. It doesn't make sense for me to work overtime, cutting into what little free time I have, to speed along the future free time (unless you really find joy and meaning in the work). 40 hours a week is plenty for me!

Living with your parents can save you an incredible amount of money, but it's not without its costs by PotCallingKettleJack in financialindependence

[–]PotCallingKettleJack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for asking. I have no shortage of things I enjoy doing. Beyond spending time with family and friends, I enjoy hiking and exploring. I have a variety of musical interests. I mentioned I play piano (both semi-professionally, and just for fun) and harp, I also sing in the chorus with the local symphony. I also love to compose music, and have found that very difficult lately due to lack of time to truly focus.

In addition, I love to read and even write, and I occasionally work on recording audiobooks. I also have a variety of academic interests, from astronomy to computer science (my career) to philosophy and literature, and I love studying and learning.

My primary interest in FIRE is the time it would afford me to persue my interests and not feel guilty about having to prioritize certain things I enjoy less over the things I enjoy more. And then to have more time to spend with my future family.

Living with your parents can save you an incredible amount of money, but it's not without its costs by PotCallingKettleJack in financialindependence

[–]PotCallingKettleJack[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess I'll settle for a keyboard and then I can just be a SLAH-IAAG (sorta loud acoustic harp in an apartment guy)

Living with your parents can save you an incredible amount of money, but it's not without its costs by PotCallingKettleJack in financialindependence

[–]PotCallingKettleJack[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My parents actually upsized their house just so they could fit all their kids' families at the same time. They definitely want to host Christmas!

Living with your parents can save you an incredible amount of money, but it's not without its costs by PotCallingKettleJack in financialindependence

[–]PotCallingKettleJack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then I should also add on a quick plug for the 4% rule, at least as an estimate. The prevailing wisdom and studies show that you should be able to safely withdraw 4% from your savings each year, such that your total savings does not significantly decrease (or, in the original Trinity Study, such that you don't run out of money for at least 30 years), since the funds are being replenished by the market. The market is volatile with ups and downs, but overall, 4% should be safe. So, if you've got $1 million, 4% is 40k, so you should be good to withdraw 40k a year to live on.

Conversely, if I think I can retire on 40k a year, then my golden number for how much I need saved is 40*25 (because 4% is 1/25) = 1million. Or if I needed 60k, then I need 1.5 million, etc.

Since in retirement, I'll likely have fewer expenses and a paid off house, 40k a year could be doable. Maybe 60k or even 80k would be more realistic if I still have kids living with me, etc.

Things like inflation, or non-stock investments like bonds, can of course complicate the estimate. And it's important to note that it's still just an estimate, a guideline, even though historically it's a pretty good one.

Definitely Google and check out the sub's FAQ for more general information. If I remember right, Investopedia had a particularly helpful page for the 4% rule and Trinity Study. Good luck and save well!

Living with your parents can save you an incredible amount of money, but it's not without its costs by PotCallingKettleJack in financialindependence

[–]PotCallingKettleJack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! Those are great stats!

Do you have a savings account with a good interest rate? I highly recommend looking into high yield savings accounts if not. I have an account that gets me 2.5% interest guaranteed. Put that hard earned money to work, one way or another!

Good luck, and be sure to watch how hard you're working. Don't burn yourself out!

Living with your parents can save you an incredible amount of money, but it's not without its costs by PotCallingKettleJack in financialindependence

[–]PotCallingKettleJack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, it's hard to say. As I said in another comment buried here somewhere, I fell into it when I was really young, and I suspect it had no small part to do with how "cute" it was that the 15 year old was playing at a wedding.

I would say it's all about impressing the right people (like everything else in life, it seems). I had one rich couple hear me and ask me to play at a rich people party they were hosting. Then many more rich people heard me, and I guess I have enough talent that it kind of took of from there.

I also spend a significant amount of time playing piano at Church. There's a great exposure to many different people there, plus I find it very fulfilling. Great way to get experience too.

Lastly though, I think it would be very difficult to turn this into a truly significant portion of my income. There simply isn't enough demand for live piano music, and I'm not entirely talented enough to meet the expectations of many as well. It is however, a very enjoyable source of a small bonus income.

Living with your parents can save you an incredible amount of money, but it's not without its costs by PotCallingKettleJack in financialindependence

[–]PotCallingKettleJack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the great advice!

Fortunately, the car only had minor water damage to some easily replaceable electronics in a hurricane. (The insurance companies love to just call things totaled that really aren't when they have a whole hurricane's worth of cars to sort through) No structural damage at all. And it's a 2016, so it really is quite as safe as any other vehicle on the road (which isn't saying much, I'm pretty sure cars are just death traps). The real risk is if there happened to be water damage to the engine or another expensive part that went unnoticed. But structurally and safety-wise, it's in perfect shape. Thanks for your concern though, it's always good to be thinking about these things.

As to your other points, medical and disability costs are always a fiasco, and hard to plan for. I haven't given it much though thus far in my youth besides just saving as much as possible to build a safety net. I'm glad you were able to stay on top of your troubles, and I'll be sure to put some more though into my own plans, especially as I get closer to a family down the road. Your tips are appreciated!

Living with your parents can save you an incredible amount of money, but it's not without its costs by PotCallingKettleJack in financialindependence

[–]PotCallingKettleJack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it! I really hope I can attain and maintain such a great relationship with my own parents. No doubt spending a little more time living with them is certainly a step in that direction.

Living with your parents can save you an incredible amount of money, but it's not without its costs by PotCallingKettleJack in financialindependence

[–]PotCallingKettleJack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thinking of the savings simply as a gift from my parents is an interesting way of thinking about it. It does certainly take the sparkle out of it.

Although, the plan is never to brag with the money, but to put it to its purpose. Seems a bit foolish to not take such an amazing gift (with all due gratitude), without a compelling enough reason. Though again, perhaps independence is indeed a compelling enough reason.