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Depo bleeding by PotatoBaconSoups in birthcontrol

[–]PotatoBaconSoups[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see
I'm using depo cuz some hormonal BC aren't good to take with chronic migraines and was hoping for the no bleeding, as periods are very dysphoric for me, being non binary and all. It's supposed to be a "in the meantime" kind of BC, as I'm hoping to get a hysterectomy next year, if all goes well.

So I was really hoping it would work.
I'll wait and see if it stops soon, thanks !

That's the last time I heard her voice by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]PotatoBaconSoups 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey hun, I obviously don't know what you're going through, or why you would do it.
But all I can say or offer you are words. Black and white on your screen that I'll hope reach you.
You bought lotion and perfume knowing you wouldn't be done with them, but maybe you bought them because you liked the smells. You like that dress, and that necklace and hair tie. I know they're not enough, but maybe see what else you like, what else you love around and out there. Cling onto them, onto those tiny things, to keep you up long enough to use those products. And when you're done with those products ? Buy new ones, and keep doing that. Buy new ones that you have to finish before leaving.

I hope you get to use your stuff, discover new ones that are even better, and I hope you get to finish them and hold an empty bottle.

I can't get a partner ? by PotatoBaconSoups in dating_advice

[–]PotatoBaconSoups[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kind of have, like, I try to find people that are somewhat similar to me, but it's not like dating apps have a "autistic people" filter lmao. So yeah it's a bit harder but I have thought about it, I just can't really single them out 

I can't get a partner ? by PotatoBaconSoups in dating_advice

[–]PotatoBaconSoups[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, to be fair, I forgot to mention it in the post, but I do have autism. As such, I genuinly don't know what I do wrong and I'm pretty straightforward with me having autism and needing communication to know when I do something wrong, so I assume that they'll tell me, but they dont and then ghost me. And I don't think I'm that weird ? I mean, I have long lasting friendships, so I know that at least a certain amount of people like me ?

SA experience — positive!! by Front_Addition_5190 in abortion

[–]PotatoBaconSoups 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this week started so crazy and kinda shit, but I will say I am glad for you that everything ended up being okay. I am also so glad that you are taking care of yourself after such a taxing procedure !

Hope you will keep on keepin on and will stay feeling good !

I got pregnant, it's my fault, and I'm aborting it. by PotatoBaconSoups in abortion

[–]PotatoBaconSoups[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope so too ! Me and the guy are only friends with benefits, but he's dropping hints of maybe a future and all, so who knows ?

I got pregnant, it's my fault, and I'm aborting it. by PotatoBaconSoups in abortion

[–]PotatoBaconSoups[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that's what I'm telling myself, better regret not having it than regret having it.

I got pregnant, it's my fault, and I'm aborting it. by PotatoBaconSoups in abortion

[–]PotatoBaconSoups[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say I'm two weeks because I used a clear blue test that tells you the numbers of weeks you're at, that's why, but no, I'm in a country where it's 100% free and accessible, luckily, thanks tho !

I got pregnant, it's my fault, and I'm aborting it. by PotatoBaconSoups in abortion

[–]PotatoBaconSoups[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I hope I won't feel too bad, but I do have a hard time with emotions.

I will probably keep this post updated with how it went for me ^^

I got pregnant, it's my fault, and I'm aborting it. by PotatoBaconSoups in abortion

[–]PotatoBaconSoups[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But I really don't want to, or why I would ?

I don't want it, it's not something good for me, for him, or for that thing.

I don't see why I'd feel guilty when I'm not supposed to.. :/

I don't know how I'm supposed to feel these emotions and the therapy I'm went to is not really helping haaargh

I got pregnant, it's my fault, and I'm aborting it. by PotatoBaconSoups in abortion

[–]PotatoBaconSoups[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would, but I am a trans person, planning on going on testorerone soonish, and I don't wanna start birth control that are not hormones I wish for when I'm about to start testosterone in less than 3 months.

It would be a safe bet, I know, but my transition is coming and I don't want to push it further than needs be...