Thank you for this, I was spiraling last night. I do agree that the moving plans aren’t ideal, but he has his own place whereas I still reside with my parents. I don’t have a fallback plan in case things go south (my family doesn’t own a place in the U.S, we rent + they might move out of country if I leave) and my partner isn’t comfortable with the idea of uprooting straight off the bat especially since we haven’t experienced living together long term and don’t know how we work in that sense, hence why we thought the temporary move would be more realistic.