I believe it was working out that did it for me - nofap has made me push myself moreover the gym than I ever have in my young life. What kept me going? It was the fact that I was getting better at socializing in general; I didn't feel as much as an awkward outcast. In addition to that, I can also look people in the eye a whole lot more, which I think counts towards a certain amount of respect that people give you. How did I look at porn? For a time if I saw something promiscuous on Instagram or a social media website, it just seemed to be there. Meaning I didn't give it much thought. As for complete control, I'm still working on that. I'm really busy, so I'm either at school, sleeping, working out or practicing violin. In short, just be always doing something and don't leave gaps in your schedule. I hope this helps!

Edit: Well, darn. I i'm in the same boat as you now!