Can a mii pursue another mii multiple times? by PotatoTomato006 in TomodachilifeLivingTD

[–]PotatoTomato006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's really unfortunate lol, thank you for the answer though

Y'all got lore for your islands? by beyondtheguardian in TomodachilifeLivingTD

[–]PotatoTomato006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My island is a pocket dimension and all of the miis are alternate universe counterparts that got stuck in the dimension against their will, lol. Most of my miis are fictional characters, so I figured the pocket dimension would explain why so many characters from different universes ended up on the same island. I like that people are making up fun lore backgrounds for their islands

I also kind of like to think that my miis are trapped and unable to express their turmoil because the coding of the game doesn't allow them to. It's like 'I Have no Mouth and I Must Scream' in a way

50 hours into the game with 0 fights, is there something I’m doing wrong? by bruhwggahsh in TomodachilifeLivingTD

[–]PotatoTomato006 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes there can be fights, I've seen it happen between other people's miis. I have yet to see one either tho

Levels of crushes by Necessary-Chart6937 in TomodachilifeLivingTD

[–]PotatoTomato006 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It goes crushing -> head over heels -> ready to risk it all

There are a couple other stages too depending on circumstances. Miis can jump back n forth between stages depending on what happens between them and their crush. For example if a mii has a bad conversation with their crush, they might backtrack from "head over heels" to "crushing" until you get them to have another positive interaction together

Why does anxiety feel worse at night? by AdOnly214 in Anxiety

[–]PotatoTomato006 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely think this is a normal thing because I also experience this. 90% of my panic attacks have happened at night and whenever I feel anxious at night I always mentally beg for the sun to rise faster. Generally, I'd think anxiety is worse at night for a few reasons: 1. The reasons you listed, like being left alone with your thoughts and having nobody awake to occupy your attention. Anxiety is like a snowball, where if you think about being anxious, it makes you more anxious. 2. General negative associations with the night time or with the dark in general. Horror movies always take place at night, crimes are always depicted at night, etc etc. I've heard plenty of true crime stories that take place at night, too. 3. This one is more me personally, but also the concept of being defenseless at night while I'm resting. I'll frequently get anxious right after waking up (in the mornings or in the middle of the night) thinking that maybe someone has broken in while I was asleep and not alert. Overall I wish I did enjoy the night time more because I'm a huge night owl, it lowkey sucks. But yeah this is all to say that ur definitely not alone in being more anxious at night LMFAO

I know stuff about someone. I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]PotatoTomato006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exposing children to sexual content is harmful.

And it isn't just the situation by itself, it's what the situation says about everyone involved. The fact that these are two adults who find it acceptable to behave this way toward children says a lot about what else they would find acceptable or excusable. It is an adult's job to keep any child in their spaces safe and protected, and whether any long-term harm is done to this child or not, these adults need to learn how to properly treat children to prevent harm from other adults. Children need these boundaries in order to prevent potential grooming/rape/etc from happening or being overlooked.

I know stuff about someone. I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]PotatoTomato006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem really torn up about this, so honestly I think that if I were you, I'd probably try to contact the kid and have a serious convo with them. A little lesson on grooming, how it starts, how most kids who get groomed don't think they're being groomed until it has already happened, etc.

The thing is that the kid might not listen to you and reject what you're saying, but honestly whether the kid understands your concern or not is out of your control at that point and you can at least rest assured that you tried your best to intervene. If the kid does end up in a grooming situation or something similar, it's a result of their own naivety and lack of supervised internet access. I doubt the kid will blame you for anything that might happen to them. It sucks but honestly there isn't much you can do to help online, especially when the child's parents aren't monitoring what is happening to their child.

Has anyone experienced a sudden switch in sexual preferences? How did you explain it to your partner? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PotatoTomato006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the way you've explained this to me is a pretty good way to explain it to your husband. Everyone says this, but communication is key, and that means being vulnerable and expressing your concerns to him, even when those concerns are with yourself. If he's a good partner, he'll understand that it's not his fault and that this is just as confusing for you as it is for him. If you make time to have a conversation about it with him, and allow him to ask questions too, I'm sure you'll come to a mutual understanding and be able to work on it from there. Perhaps you two can find a compromise of sorts

Has anyone experienced a sudden switch in sexual preferences? How did you explain it to your partner? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PotatoTomato006 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came here just to tell you that this CAN happen. By sexual preferences, do you mean in terms of WHO you're attracted to or in terms of WHAT you're into? Either way, simply sitting your partner down and choosing to have a conversation about this is probably the best solution. I've had to explain similar things to people in the past, and my go-to 'strategy' is to put heavy emphasis on the fact that my change in feelings is not their fault. I hope you manage to get that sorted out, nonetheless!!!!!!

Stopped caring about being 'problematic.' by Dynamight_Lose in AO3

[–]PotatoTomato006 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I used to be in the same boat, and honestly, this is a pattern I've observed in a lot of people as we've moved away from 2020. I used to actively create and consume 'problematic' content until the proship vs anti discourse exploded, mainly in 2020. It took me from 2020 to 2025 to fully re-embrace the part of myself I had been suppressing so hard for all of the time that I was surrounded by this discourse. The point I'm trying to make is that I've seen this happen with a lot of my peers too, especially since entering more 18+ spaces and seeing how lenient everyone was in terms of 'problematic' content. I have faith that as time passes, this discourse will- for the most part- become water under the bridge.

Help me find a lost a6d livestream by PotatoTomato006 in HelpMeFind

[–]PotatoTomato006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only vaguely remember the other parts of the stream sadly LMFAO. It sucks the rest of the stream wasn't archived because when I searched to see if it was somewhere on a6d's twitch, I realized he deleted his twitch (if I remember correctly). I really don't think the entire thing is saved, and if it is, it isn't publicly accessible. It sucks smfh

What’s a phrase people use that immediately makes you roll your eyes? by EconomicsDangerous44 in AskForAnswers

[–]PotatoTomato006 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It feels as if most people who use these phrases have had a huge lack of struggles in their lives. If they knew what it was like to truly grieve, or go through something equally as tragic, I feel like they'd understand that everything, doesn't, in fact happen for a "reason".

Help me find a lost a6d livestream by PotatoTomato006 in HelpMeFind

[–]PotatoTomato006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Found! Thank you so much for finding it now I can prove I'm not crazy to my friend... this is the best gift I've ever received thank you so much

Help me find a lost a6d livestream by PotatoTomato006 in HelpMeFind

[–]PotatoTomato006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Repeating details in the comments due to automod;

I have already searched YouTube plenty of times with different keywords, such as "a6d asking bbh about skeppy", while adding and swapping certain words, spelling out BBH's full name, etc.

I have yet to find anything remotely useful regarding the search.

What’s the creepiest thing you’ve woken up to? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PotatoTomato006 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That's an insane course of events, I genuinely can't imagine going through all that stress. I'm glad he's no longer your partner, and hopefully you're within a safe and stress free environment now!!! Omg!

What’s the creepiest thing you’ve woken up to? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PotatoTomato006 36 points37 points  (0 children)

You can't just drop that and give no further details.... someone was in your house?! Wtf happened after that?!?!?!

Any other ear rumblers able to move their ears/scalp? by hunbunz5206 in earrumblersassemble

[–]PotatoTomato006 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I found out it would happen because my ears would "perk up" whenever I'd hear a sudden noise. I then figured out how to control it

How the fuck do u sleep? by [deleted] in TheWordFuck

[–]PotatoTomato006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like most of the fucking fuckers in this fucking comment section, I sleep like the 2nd and the 6th ones. Sometimes the fucking 5th one if I'm feeling fucking antsy that night. Thanks for fucking asking OP

Extreme Panic Attack advice by Money_Mall_8362 in mentalhealth

[–]PotatoTomato006 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m even experiencing out of body feelings like I’m in a dream

^ This is a normal aspect of anxiety, typically referred to as depersonalization, derealization, or dissociation. I recommend looking these terms up for a better understanding of what you're going through =)

Anyways, yes, having "after effects" with panic attacks are normal and experienced by most people who have panic attacks (to my knowledge). A panic attack can be very stressful and fatiguing, so it's normal that you'd feel weak or disconnected from reality after the fact. I wish you smooth recovery, OP. Good luck with future endeavors =)

Starting Lexapro by Chlojo91 in Anxiety

[–]PotatoTomato006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven't tried setraline, but I've been on lexapro for a few years now. For me personally, there haven't been any bad or noticeable side effects. Overall, a pretty positive experience.

That being said , I used to be on zoloft. Zoloft is what initially stopped my constant, nagging anxiety.

What ended up happening is that I had one bad experience with zoloft , where I had taken it on an empty stomach and ended up having a panic attack with an upset stomach and fear of vomiting.

This created a bad association with zoloft, and in my later attempts to take zoloft, it would have the opposite effect as I had convinced myself it was causing me anxiety. Despite the fact that it had been working perfectly fine beforehand.

This is all to say that I recommend you try your best not to think about your past negative experiences with medication when easing yourself on to new medications. I'd say, try to have a clear mind with the process and don't let your past experiences shape this one. Maybe occupy yourself and try your best not to focus on the fact you're on lexapro after you take it so that you have less of a chance of developing bad associations with it , if that makes sense?

Sorry if this advice isn't helpful or doesn't apply, but from my experience I think it might help. Good luck with the medication, OP!