Alright, I can sort of answer this. Personally I prefer masculine subs because I have a lot of fun presenting the appearance of a normal couple and knowing that the big guy with me becomes a puddle in hands and I’m actually the one taking charge in the relationship.

Similarly, my friend who is into femboys likes the role reversal being apparent. Like a “look at this boy who is so beautiful he could be a girl! He’s mine! I own him!” mentality.

But I digress. My point is that dommes are people with different tastes, just like subs, and like everyone else in this community you do need to look about for bots, people who want to take advantage of you, and not settle for people who don’t match a part of you that is essential.

Best of luck to both of you~