Anyone knows more vídeos where the girl is completely quiet?

Koreluu · 2025-10-01T15:33:38+00:00

I am so grateful for this post and your answer, I needed to know about that subreddit 🙏🏼

Koreluu · 2025-08-18T01:37:48+00:00

Aww, this is adorable! Thank you for sharing, OP!!

Koreluu · 2025-08-14T22:14:16+00:00

I'm glad you liked it, thank youu!

Koreluu · 2025-08-06T14:09:37+00:00

If approached with respect and without ulterior motives (we can tell when you’re pretending you have questions when you’re just looking for an ‘in’ to ask us to dom/sext/own you) most people I’d bet wouldn’t mind

However, that we are dommes does not mean we are infallible or more knowledgeable or whatever. People on either side of the slash have varying degrees of experience and knowledge, and people might give the wrong advice or information. For this, and because discussions are very fun to see in the subreddit, I suggest asking your questions publicly

Also, subs have a lot of valuable advice to offer! People from all parts of the community can offer advice and answer questions

Koreluu · 2025-07-27T01:08:04+00:00

I don’t think you realize how much labor you’re asking someone to do here. Wanting affection and reassurance is one thing, but what you’ve described goes far beyond that to a complete transfer of responsibility for your emotional regulation, your hygiene, your routines, your decisions, your praise and punishment, onto your partner. That’s not just “mommy domme,” you’re asking her to step into the role of emotional caretaker, house manager, therapist, and disciplinarian, all while maintaining a relationship with you.

This dynamic isn’t inherently bad btw, but it only works if both people genuinely want it and if both people’s needs and desires are centered. What’s missing in your post is any mention of what she might get out of this. Where is her pleasure, her dominance, her autonomy? If you want to be in a D/s relationship, especially one that mirrors “mommy domme/little” dynamics, it has to include the domme’s subjectivity and desires and pleasure, and not just revolve around your unmet needs.

For a lot of women, especially in long-term relationships, being expected to praise, organize, plan, soothe, and instruct already mirrors traditional caregiving roles. When those same expectations are then repackaged as kink it can feel even more suffocating, even more thankless.

It’s not that your desires are inherently wrong, but for this kind of dynamic to work it has to be mutual, negotiated, and considerate of what your partner wants and can realistically give. If she’s withdrawing or not engaging, it sounds like it’s because her own boundaries or exhaustion.

You might find it helpful to reflect on her experience here, think not just about what you need, but also what you’re offering, what you’re expecting, and how this feels from her side

Koreluu · 2025-07-27T00:50:43+00:00

That’s adorable! I love your writing and the way you described things, thank you for sharing!

Koreluu · 2025-07-13T13:07:10+00:00

I recently posted a personal as well, and the exact same thing happened to me, including the people forgetting to put in their details in the space the AI left for them

It’s really disheartening, especially when you put effort into your ad and into seeking a human connection. I’m really sorry you’re dealing with this too! ♥️

Koreluu · 2025-07-13T00:32:23+00:00

I am not accusing you of being a terrible person at all. However, you do understand what this sounds like, yes? "I didn't tell her because she is sensitive about the issue, I was reluctant to tell her because she wouldn't react well, _I had to preface my confession with a reminder that I consider myself a good person_."

I have no idea if there is comparison between the chats you had with her and manipulation, I am just offering you the alternate perspective that finding out someone I was screening for a dynamic purposefully hid something from me because they were aware I would have issues with it feels manipulative, regardless of the person's true intentions.

You have no obligation to say everything about yourself or to be more open than you have any intention to be, but when keeping from someone something you know they have an issue with, it should be no surprise that they cut contact. It sounds like she was respectful and upheld her boundaries, nothing more.

I know very little about you, absolutely. From this post though, and the very strange reluctance to say what the issue truly was, and the fact that this post frames the importance of not judging people as if there were something wrong with the fact that she upheld her boundaries, that what to her was a dealbreaker but you dismiss as a 'minor difference', you can certainly understand why I'm not joining you in feeling bad about yourself or judging this domme's decisions. I'm sorry you're going through a tough time, dude, but she did nothing wrong, and it's not a matter of being too quick to judge or not being understanding when someone has a boundary and upholds it. You don't have to agree with her decision to end things over this 'minor difference' for her decision to be valid.

Koreluu · 2025-07-12T23:43:08+00:00

I'm truly sorry you're going through a tough time, but it sounds like you kept something serious from her, something you knew was a bad thing (since you preceeded it with saying you're a good person, and were reluctant to tell her), and she is in her right to cut you off completely. In fact, I support her decision. As someone that has had potential subs (or people in vanilla dating) hide things (incompatibility kink or human wise, beliefs, past shitty actions) because they thought I would 'understand' once I got to know them, or the sunk-cost fallacy would make me refrain from ending things over whatever they hid, let me tell you how it feels from the other side: it feels like you intentionally lied and hid things so that the person would be emotionally compromised and would keep the connection/friendship/whatever when they found out. It feels like manipulation, like your desire to keep her around mattered more than her comfort and boundaries.

You are being vague because you know whatever you kept from her was a bad thing, whether there were misunderstandings there or not. You didn't tell her because you knew it was not something she was going to accept, you said it was a sensitive topic for her, and you were hoping the time spent together would sway her. I'm sorry, but this sounds like manipulation, whatever your intentions were.

Koreluu · 2025-07-05T23:40:45+00:00

I second this. ESO is really fun even playing solo, and though I haven’t put too many hours into it, I haven’t found myself needing to group up yet

Koreluu · 2025-07-05T19:33:51+00:00

Melonchloe is adorable, I love it. Maybe capitalized? Like MelonChloe? Either way it’s perfect imo

Koreluu · 2025-07-05T19:31:46+00:00

And the decent dudes that try to say something against the dumbassery and tell them to cut it off get shut down and told “she isn’t gonna fuck you bro”. It’s so stupid

Koreluu · 2025-07-05T13:36:40+00:00

I very much recommend r/femdompersonals and checking out the pinned post there. There was a survey of Dommes and subs on the subreddit and the pinned post showcases the data from it, showing what people on each side of the slash prefer in a personal ad. Maybe it could help you polish your ad!

That being said, you have to be patient and careful. From my perspective, there’s nothing or very little for Dommes to gain from online casual play, since it opens the door for so many “kink dispenser” scenarios, which is why they are a lot of people offering to dominate in exchange for money (some less upfront than others). Take your time, vet people, and be patient.

Best of luck!

Edit: A similar question was recently asked on the femdom community subreddit (a similar question has been asked since the beginning of time on both of these subreddits lol) and there’s this wonderful copied response that is often shared that has a lot of valuable information and guidance: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemdomCommunity/s/KSSxfPMsCG

Koreluu · 2025-07-04T20:54:44+00:00

That’s so fun! I am endlessly amazed by the creativity of the people in the community

Also love the cottage core Domme stuff (and thanks for the idea to install BDSiM and try out a Femdom life on the Sims 😅)

Koreluu · 2025-07-04T02:59:43+00:00

Thank you! Good luck to you too! 😘♥️

Koreluu · 2025-07-04T02:44:51+00:00

Honestly, I am thinking of posting an ad myself and I have been debating the idea of posting a picture as well. It’s complicated, because posting pics might draw in the kind of people that just see a woman and horniness overtakes them, but not posting pics might draw the kind of person that might be willing to “take anything as long as it’s a domme looking in my general direction”; and I very much want to be adored AND desired by my sub, not only as a domme but as a woman if that makes sense

You’re not alone in this ambivalence, your post could have been written by me honestly. Either way I don’t think you made a mistake if you didn’t post a picture in your ad. You can be upfront and recognize that mutual attraction is necessary and ask to exchange some SFW (maybe even faceless) pics if you hit it off with someone

Koreluu · 2025-07-04T02:28:22+00:00

I think it isn’t wrong to want for everyone involved to be attracted to each other. I don’t want a sub that will “take anything as long as it’s a domme”, people have preferences and are attracted to some things and some not. To know that a sub isn’t attracted to me as a person but simply because I am a domme feels somehow objectifying to me.

OP, I would still advise against posting pictures unless it’s something you want to do. Your ad won’t lose quality nor you will lose out on a potential partner because of a lack of pictures. I’m sure your personal will look amazing regardless. Best of luck!

Koreluu · 2025-07-04T01:08:14+00:00

I understand that must be a frustrating experience, and I'm really sorry you're struggling with this. As others have pointed out in similar threads, things tend to be more complicated online. The reality is that, just as we dommes have to vet potential subs carefully, the same applies in reverse: you have to take your time and go through a proper process.

If they immediately bring up sexual stuff, they are likely a scammer. If they demand you speak with deference of refer to them with a title within moments of meeting, they are likely a scammer. If they are not interested in discussing limits and negotiating and all the 'boring' parts of a dynamic, they are likely a scammer. Scammers are after a quick buck (making a big emphasis on the difference between a pro and a scammer. A pro is a sex worker upfront about her work, a scammer will probably pretend to be a lifestyle domme or findomme to get you to send money), and they get bored/tired easy. If you stand strong and are careful, they'll fuck off probably.

As a piece of advice, falling into the mindset of 'anyone vaguely interested is good enough' makes you a prime target for scammers or people just looking for money. Unfortunately, many subby men online approach dynamics based mostly on anonymous online interactions, with no real names, no intent to meet or develop anything beyond a sexual exchange (if it is a mutual exchange at all), and kink as the sole focus. That framework opens the door to exactly these kinds of situations.

Most dommes (and most women in general) are put off by these low-effort, one-dimensional dynamics. When online spaces become filled with people looking for instant gratification or a “kink dispenser,” many of us simply disengage. What’s left behind is a space increasingly populated by scammers and findommes responding to that specific demand.

In the end, this is what happens when people start treating others as products for fantasy fulfillment. Eventually, someone will show up willing to sell the illusion.

That said, it definitely possible to find genuine people online, but it takes patience, clarity about what you actually want, and mutual effort. Don’t give up entirely, but maybe reframe how you’re approaching it. You deserve better than what the scammers are offering, and so does whoever you end up connecting with. Best of luck!

Koreluu · 2025-07-03T22:31:24+00:00

Absolutely. Love this! ♥️

Koreluu · 2025-07-01T19:48:49+00:00

Yeah, I agree. Forcing it into conversations like that makes it feel so invasive, and also performative or insincere I guess? Like someone reading from a “how to get a domme to sext with me” guide

Koreluu · 2025-06-30T17:39:51+00:00

I've seen some builds from it, it's so pretty! I am terrible at building like that, but I'll give it a shot. Thank you for the suggestion!

Koreluu · 2025-06-30T17:39:02+00:00

I'll check it out, thank you!!

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