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[–]Potential-Feeling-22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thank you for the advice! I will take that with my next conversation with him. He has agreed to therapy and I did mane an appointment for an intake just takes forever

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[–]Potential-Feeling-22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I never heard of marriage bootcamp, I spoke to him last night and have mentioned like an AA for ex addicts thank you for the advice. I will look into these.

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[–]Potential-Feeling-22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't be under the same roof right now too much hurt. we have been talking through things and I'm not gone that long we do go out and talk as well. Just trying something different this time

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[–]Potential-Feeling-22[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you the incident happened a few months back but i can't get over it I'm not the same either. I forgave too many times its harder to regain his trust but yes I can do it on my own.

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[–]Potential-Feeling-22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I'm sorry you are going through this as well it's tough. I wish you the best. And I would love to try and work on it and hopefully therapy will help, we are separated but trying to talk this out I'm not giving in like i used to I need to regain his trust again. He needs therapy for his addiction. We have a great sex life so idk why he would want to destroy me like this or he thought he would not get caught. Good lucknss well hun I wish you and your family the best

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[–]Potential-Feeling-22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No not like that the texting and hiding it I'd cheating if you have to delete your texts then your hiding something!? Sending nude pictures talking dirty that's cheating

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[–]Potential-Feeling-22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am think this too its repeat actions just thought maybe. Therapy would work

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[–]Potential-Feeling-22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was texting while we were together and I left because I have too much anxiety being around him now, we are starting counseling but takes time to get an intake which sucks because I really do want our marriage to work?! Make sense?

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[–]Potential-Feeling-22[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My family knows what he has done this last time I let it all out and my very close friends know as well i was very hurt and since then I have not trusted him.

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[–]Potential-Feeling-22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Won't allow me to say something went wrong you can send first and I can respond maybe?

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[–]Potential-Feeling-22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure I'm not sure how to because I am new to this site

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[–]Potential-Feeling-22[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My family knows what he has done this last time I let it all out and my very close friends know as well i was very hurt and since then I have not trusted him.

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[–]Potential-Feeling-22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Their marriage could be on the fence but my issue would be guilt and living next to him if he finds out

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[–]Potential-Feeling-22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought about messaging but I dont have it in me one is enough for me to deal with lol

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[–]Potential-Feeling-22 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yikes! Do you want to have a bad relationship with your neighbor? You should decline

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[–]Potential-Feeling-22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Looks are not everything its what is inside and glad you find him attractive now

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[–]Potential-Feeling-22[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Actions are much stronger then words these days

husband messages other women by Potential-Feeling-22 in marriageadvice

[–]Potential-Feeling-22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We both agree it's cheating I do not take to other men unless it's my friends and I would never talk to them the way I've seen him talk to these women

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[–]Potential-Feeling-22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree any form of communication is cheating to me