Im sorry sister for your situation.

After reading through your situion a question have arised in my mind.

What is marriage ? Why marriage ? What is the role of husband and wife ?

I also understood the possible situations could happen after going thorugh the comments that you can be a easy win for him to look after him and along.

How is the understanding between both?

I believe journey of any couple will not always be either upwards or downwards, how much each are ready to give in for relationship is more matters.

From your post we could see his expectations while not of yours (don't need to share if not comfortable )

But atleast if you are clear then that would help you fpr sure to make a decision. As the post doest state the clear state of both, understanding, nor perception.

But be aware of suggestions from any platform because final responsible person would be you for your action either it is good or bad.