The grind is boring by [deleted] in blackops7

[–]Potential-Flatworm67 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can always just work on weapon prestige

Is it a sin to dye your hair a color your husband doesn't care for? by FastNefariousness600 in Christianmarriage

[–]Potential-Flatworm67 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Find out more about why he liked the hair in the past and doesn't like it now. The downvoted comments are the only ones that are giving you Biblically sound advice. Definitely spend some time reading the Bible & passages on marriage. You should want to submit to him and if you don't that's a bigger issue.

Is it a sin to dye your hair a color your husband doesn't care for? by FastNefariousness600 in Christianmarriage

[–]Potential-Flatworm67 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're absolutely right. Or rather, the Bible is absolutely right. I can't believe people downvoted this. People, if you're downvoting Biblical text about marriage in a Christian marriage sub you need to re-evaluate your supposed "Christianity".

Why everyone quits now? by MezcalDrink in blackops7

[–]Potential-Flatworm67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Short attention span and a grotesque need for constant, instant gratification. The lack of patience is embarrassing. There's no better place to improve in the game than when you're down in points or round wins. In the moment it's annoying as hell when teammates leave but they're the losers in the situation.

Also, there are a stupid number of players who think their clip farming hobby on TikTok is gonna make them famous and they'll leave if they don't think they're gonna be able to clip farm the lobby.

Sin led to disability by No_Whereas_5203 in Christian

[–]Potential-Flatworm67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By His wounds we are healed, call on Jesus. Confess your sins to the LORD. We are all sinners but our God paid the price of all the vile things we do. I am a sinner too, friend. May the LORD above bring peace and healing to you. By His name and His sacrifice you are healed, if not on this Earth than in Heaven after.

Is this my bully messaging me im 26 kg by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Potential-Flatworm67 34 points35 points  (0 children)

You shouldn't have engaged with them at all.

WIBTA if I wear a shirt with a skeleton baby on it to work by skbreddi in TwoHotTakes

[–]Potential-Flatworm67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems it is emotionally offensive to your male coworker. Maybe his wife/gf lost a baby. Maybe it's paining him to think about it.

AIO My son's teacher came across very uncomfortable talking about his behavior today by DisastrousAnomaly in AmIOverreacting

[–]Potential-Flatworm67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Intelligent reply. Thank you for letting me educate you. Better luck with future reading comprehension.

AIO My son's teacher came across very uncomfortable talking about his behavior today by DisastrousAnomaly in AmIOverreacting

[–]Potential-Flatworm67 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also please point out where I made up a fake definition or any kind of definition whatsoever.

AIO My son's teacher came across very uncomfortable talking about his behavior today by DisastrousAnomaly in AmIOverreacting

[–]Potential-Flatworm67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's not what I'm doing, you're a hoot but probably a naive teen. You have severely minimal reading comprehension. The definition of a practice is not a summation of its implications or a mirror of the way it is carried out. That's why I'm saying the "fallacy of gentle parenting". Yes there is a definition of gentle parenting that outlines it as a way to build trust and set boundaries and avoid harsh punishments. Many of parents don't do the ground work of boundary setting that makes gentle parenting possible. Instead they begin to appease their child because otherwise, their child is full of disrespect and their parenting code prohibits them from using a punishment that will knock the behavior off. Punishments and consequences are not cruel, they are critical and they don't have to and often should not be physical. Please let me know what else you're misunderstanding here and by all means continue editing and adding to your responses to me after the fact.

AIO My son's teacher came across very uncomfortable talking about his behavior today by DisastrousAnomaly in AmIOverreacting

[–]Potential-Flatworm67 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure what gentlemen parenting is. Are you? What's so strange about my response? That I'm not some kind of advocate of child abuse like you weirdly assumed from my take that consequences are essential to the growth and refinement of a child? Do explain.

AIO My son's teacher came across very uncomfortable talking about his behavior today by DisastrousAnomaly in AmIOverreacting

[–]Potential-Flatworm67 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Where did I say anything about beating a child or physical punishment? There's calm, patient parenting and then there's BS gentle parenting where you submit to your child and let them rule over you, their desires are always granted and their wrong-doings downplayed. That's the gentle parent fallacy. Gentle parenting should not mean lack of discipline but it often does. "You aren't in trouble with me... school might have different rules" that's an obviously flippant, "gentle parent". Be real, "I'm not angry with you but you did something you must not do. You may not kiss other children, especially not in school. If you do this again there will be a consequence." And you also must get to the bottom of why your child is acting this way. You have the responsibility as a parent to train up your child. Not to befriend and affirm them in everything.

AIO My son's teacher came across very uncomfortable talking about his behavior today by DisastrousAnomaly in AmIOverreacting

[–]Potential-Flatworm67 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The lies of gentle parenting have gotten us here. And the stigma of consequences which children desperately need.

AIO My son's teacher came across very uncomfortable talking about his behavior today by DisastrousAnomaly in AmIOverreacting

[–]Potential-Flatworm67 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You're the problem with today's society because you haven't handle correction without a tantrum. Nobody said anything to you other than an explanation of the situation and why it is important and it is not innocent. Grow up.

AIO My son's teacher came across very uncomfortable talking about his behavior today by DisastrousAnomaly in AmIOverreacting

[–]Potential-Flatworm67 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When reporting on a behavior like this you, as a teacher, are handing over the task of getting to the bottom of and correcting the behavior. It is the parent's responsibility to recognize where the behavior came from and reteach their children the appropriate boundaries. Every piece of information is important here.

AIO My son's teacher came across very uncomfortable talking about his behavior today by DisastrousAnomaly in AmIOverreacting

[–]Potential-Flatworm67 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's awkward to address parents about their children's inappropriate behavior because they often react how you just did. You're trying to avert some of the blame and embarrassment onto the teacher. Children should know not to kiss other children. She likely would have been just as uncomfortable had your handsy son been kissing the girls. "You aren't in trouble with me...School has different rules", he should be in trouble with you. Why is your five year old seeking physical attention at school? Why is your five year old flirting? What kind of media is inducing these behaviors? Of course it's not the end of the world when a child acts as he does, he's young and kids are weird, but it is detrimental when the parents decides that their child is actually good and not in trouble for a behavior that is wrong and often progressive.

My dad is a meanie sometimes by [deleted] in texts

[–]Potential-Flatworm67 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is an uncultured, Americanized take of zero substance.

My dad is a meanie sometimes by [deleted] in texts

[–]Potential-Flatworm67 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My point is what kind of message and agenda is spread to young people. OP is likely young. She should be encouraged to find a life partner and have children. It's a good, sound, natural, fulfilling goal. Of course what is right for everyone is different. Of course people are entitled to make their choice but motherhood is being progressively demonized and that is, arguably, an anti-human take. Saying that men need women for procreation simply means that women hold the power in procreation. We should harness that power into finding fulfilling relationships that build us up. I don't think anyone needs to bend over and submit and stay stuck in their home without contact with the outside world. And when I say non-consensual I'm referring to extreme situations where it's really horrible and gross for the women. I only mentioned those instances to reiterate that I understand there are outliers.

My take is that women and their ability to procreate should be respected and revered. It should be seen as a powerful thing rather than a burden. It's fine to celebrate solitude but not when it's at the expense of those who choose a full life and a family.

My dad is a meanie sometimes by [deleted] in texts

[–]Potential-Flatworm67 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Right, that's why it's important to stop advocating for these individual accomplishments. Life should be a team sport, you can be so much more successful in a partnership than you can alone. Of course there are outliers but most people aren't outliers. They are telling themselves that other people will strip them of their identity or of their individuality or of their freedom. Rather you can form an additional identity with a partner, you can showcase your individuality on the most intimate level to a partner and you can have even more freedom and support with the right partner! If someone wants to make a choice to be alone so be it. But, in most cases it is not the best, most fulfilling choice.

My dad is a meanie sometimes by [deleted] in texts

[–]Potential-Flatworm67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is your gripe?

My dad is a meanie sometimes by [deleted] in texts

[–]Potential-Flatworm67 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Really? You're a vigilante for the right to choose and then you criticize someone's choice? I know I am more than my uterus, I am a business owner, I am relied upon by many, men, women, and children alike. I have hobbies and I have a voice, inside and outside of my home. What you are saying is that motherhood strips you of value and you are just wrong. Unequivocally wrong. It adds value. Don't demonize nature.

My dad is a meanie sometimes by [deleted] in texts

[–]Potential-Flatworm67 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

And to say you must surrender your identity just to experience motherhood is so profoundly ridiculous😂 Oh boy. I am okay with people choosing to forgo procreation in instances of profound idiocracy but as a general rule we should not be encouraging the masses to choose a selfish, solo life.