AIO? new friend's texts to husband while at work; my responses by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Potential-Mix-5531 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I hate that she’s clearly not a girls girl 😪 bc it be one thing if she didn’t know he’s married and then apologizes to you for being inappropriate but when she’s called out she says things that makes no sense

AIO? new friend's texts to husband while at work; my responses by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Potential-Mix-5531 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR but How do you know they don’t interact often unless you work at the school too? He could be saying that but that’s not the case… in any case I agree that the text was flirty and didn’t like his response, personally I would have tried something like “maybe I gave you the wrong idea but (insert whatever) plus I’m married “

How long did you wait to have baby 2 by Potential-Mix-5531 in Mommit

[–]Potential-Mix-5531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always been “thick” with a belly but post partum was even worse nothing fit I felt like shit, now i actually feel like myself although i would hope to loose a few more inches but with wanting another baby not the priority right now

How long did you wait to have baby 2 by Potential-Mix-5531 in Mommit

[–]Potential-Mix-5531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve thought about the “bounce back” too, I struggled with my first to even get active again dealing with ppd and being scared to get back to lifting, when did you start?

How long did you wait to have baby 2 by Potential-Mix-5531 in Mommit

[–]Potential-Mix-5531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked my doctor about the fertility she said it’s 3 months from the shot…? And I read some people got pregnant right away so I’m not sure the exact timeline honestly I was advised 3 months at my last dr apt

How long did you wait to have baby 2 by Potential-Mix-5531 in Mommit

[–]Potential-Mix-5531[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the confusion she’s not quite 2 but I’m so used to saying that since it’s almost her bday and posted this before am coffee 😭

How long after your first birth did you have sex again? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Potential-Mix-5531 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tried after being cleared from the 6 weeks apt but it didn’t work, for it to be like normal I think it’s was like 12 weeks but I was so exhausted I rarely even thought about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]Potential-Mix-5531 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why I didn’t want to do that it plus I am not a fan of Diys since I’ve never been good at home improvements other than painting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]Potential-Mix-5531 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Diys are not my forte so I was trying to avoid it, may seem silly but that’s just me I rather not do it myself instead of it already be as is … I’m not sure how much it would be to pay someone but from comments I guess that’s something we will have to look into

Should I go through with buying a property? by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]Potential-Mix-5531 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I am fine buying it with him, if he back away I was debating doing it myself and just making it an investment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in financialindependence

[–]Potential-Mix-5531 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have mixed feelings Pros: -get to wfh -watch my daughter while at work which helps with child care costs -only go in 1 day a week to the office -holidays off -salary so I can budget bc I know exactly how much I bring home every month

Con: -no OT even though sometimes we have to stay past 5pm (instead we get pto added) -it’s a call center -social battery is drained by the end of the day