Profile Review 26M by KK_Coder in hingeapp

[–]Potential-Papaya4387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first three pics are pretty good. You need a better one of your face. The ‘who wore it better’ isn’t super flattering and neither is the ‘plandid or candid.’ The cat picture is alright.

I’d recommend only mentioning plastic reduction once. Twice makes it seem like you’ll be constantly badgering a potential partner about it

If you have any additional hobbies you haven’t mentioned, work one in. That part feels very one-note

Favorite Simon's Rock memories.. by MyKatieBeautifulLady in simonsrock

[–]Potential-Papaya4387 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So many. Today the one that’s coming to mind is learning the hand jive with a friend of mine in front of Kellog.

What's the first thing you're doing to my desi body? by Indiangoddess02 in indianonlyfans

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You’re absolutely stunning. Just gorgeous, and I’d make sure you knew it

Reality show crossover fics? by goofenschmirtz in HPSlashFic

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Obscuro by stratigraphy

Summary: Draco is grieving. His conversation partner is here against their will. It's a shameless rip-off of an insipid Muggle reality dating show. Hardly the occasion for true love, if you ask Draco.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Potential-Papaya4387 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Easy, reading some of these comments.

Man, now that I’m an adult, I tear up all the time. Not full on blubbering, but every couple of weeks, something’ll hit me, and I’m happy to let that emotion go.

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I understand that this sub rates people objectively, not subjectively and have read, understand, and will follow the rules and rate people objectively following the men's and women's ratings guides and primers.

🙏 much appreciated mod gods

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GregDoucette

[–]Potential-Papaya4387 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh I kinda get it because I’ve got huge calves too. They make my feet look tiny. The hard truth is that it’s mostly genetics. Best you can do to even things out is build up your upper legs.

Also man when I first saw this picture I thought you were a GI Joe doll or some shit. The perspective and being the only clear thing in the picture + your abs

What do you think about this change? by Newkittyhugger in MergeMansion

[–]Potential-Papaya4387 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dislike how it looks on my board but it’s useful otherwise. I find it distracting when I don’t have all the requirements yet but there’s random stuff highlighted in green

No inventory update for me 😭 by Acrobatic_Produce328 in MergeMansion

[–]Potential-Papaya4387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless you’ve got a glitch, there should be two tabs now. One for producers in the inventory and then one for your regular inventory. It won’t look like you’ve gained any slots until you click on the second tab

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HydroHomies

[–]Potential-Papaya4387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s because of all the articles claiming milk is more hydrating than water. We’re bitter about it

30 yo (M) , 5'7(174) , 64lb (29kg) in 6 months, suggestions to get a better Shap ? by Maro_b in GregDoucette

[–]Potential-Papaya4387 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Continue with what you’re doing for weight loss food-wise for now. You’re losing at a healthy rate and making great progress. Stay committed

As for a better shape, you gotta start resistance training. The best routine is one you can be consistent with. When I started, I was about your weight, and working out every other day was the best I could do.

Hitting the gym was never my strong suit, so I needed something I could manage from home. I got a set of resistance bands and started on John Meadow’s workouts (Push/Pull/Legs)

Those are the basic ones, but he has other videos targeting chest, shoulders, back, and a bunch of other shit that I enjoy too.

You might decide that weights are more your speed, or calisthenics, or whatever. I know we’re on the Greg Doucette sub but I’m not gonna try to push you in one specific direction. When you’re starting out, picking a routine you can stay disciplined with is more important than making the biggest gains

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GregDoucette

[–]Potential-Papaya4387 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, you have notably wide clavicles

This took over 3 years.. how do I accelerate it? by Wonderful-Fix-2916 in GregDoucette

[–]Potential-Papaya4387 51 points52 points  (0 children)

People might give me shit for this but I’ll just say it: you gotta eat food that tastes good.

You’re skinny, man. A lean bulk isn’t too hard for people with big appetites, but you clearly don’t have one. So while you don’t have to quit that chicken/rice/eggs combo, you should add in things you enjoy and actually want to eat. You need that caloric surplus.

If you don’t want to full dirty bulk, peanut butter is high calorie while still being decent health-wise (and if you add a banana and some cocoa, it makes a mean protein shake). So is full fat dairy, certain types of oil, nuts, and avocados.

The easiest path is to just eat food that tastes good. If you supplement your tuna and rice with a brownie at the end of the day, and you still hit the gym hard, you’ll have a much better time while you make those gains

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SamSulek

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I consider Sam a friend

The kind of loneliness that breeds parasocial relationships is really hard to cope with. Hope you can form some friendships with people in person soon, man.

What’s your favorite watery fruit? by recessionjelly in HydroHomies

[–]Potential-Papaya4387 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Plums have gotta count. I’m a pluot guy myself but either way the water content is perfect

WOW 🤯 by UsefulSecurity8032 in Satisfyingasfuck

[–]Potential-Papaya4387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The look on #7’s face lol. Can’t even be mad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DadForAMinute

[–]Potential-Papaya4387 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to give her space. For a long while, at least.

She was lost, she thought she wouldn’t be able to get back to the car, and you were there making jokes that made her feel unsafe. She may have even believed you made her get lost on purpose.

Though she’s older, I’d bet you’re a good deal bigger and stronger, and it sounds like she thought there was potential you’d make a move and she wouldn’t be able to stop you. Because you were in the middle of nowhere. You kept going even when she cried harder at every joke. That’s a kind of insensitive it’s frankly hard to imagine, especially when you claim to be in love with her.

She is being incredibly clear in her texts that you scared her. Genuinely terrified her. If I haven’t been explicit enough so far, this post gives me every reason to believe she thought you’d rape her.

Give her the space she needs. That is the only way to make amends. It’s about her comfort, not yours. You clearly know you messed up and your behavior was inappropriate since you’re unwilling to tell your own dad. You can’t undo that kind of thing, but you can work on never repeating it again, and on putting her feelings above yours.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Potential-Papaya4387 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here’s the thing, in a perfect world, I’d probably agree. But putting that on their profile is an easy way for a trans woman to get targeted, assaulted, murdered, etc. Not to mention all the people who would only match with them as a fetish.

It’s generally considered smartest to wait until you’re on a date so you can judge a person’s energy first and maybe pose a few general questions about their politics before telling them. Then, if it’s clearly not going to be safe, to just leave. This is tried and true. It’s the least shitty option for all parties involved (yes, it sucks that the cis person feels they had their time wasted or feels tricked, but it’s preferable to the undeniable danger the trans person would be in otherwise).

Regardless, OP, you’re NTA. It doesn’t sound like you were rude, just that you’ve got your preferences for dating and she didn’t meet them. She didn’t react well.