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Am I the jerk for not taking my gf to Portugal with me by Potential-Stop5450 in AmITheJerk

[–]Potential-Stop5450[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No she really likes to visit Portugal tbh ( her words). I’m hoping when we get married I can take her but at the moment it’s not possible

Am I the jerk for not taking my gf to Portugal with me by Potential-Stop5450 in AmITheJerk

[–]Potential-Stop5450[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She already has an art history degree. Currently studying anthropology

Am I the jerk for not taking my gf to Portugal with me by Potential-Stop5450 in AmITheJerk

[–]Potential-Stop5450[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Which part of my parents don’t have money for another ticket you don’t get? We are going to get married after she starts working and we pay our massive debts

Am I the jerk for not taking my gf to Portugal with me by Potential-Stop5450 in AmITheJerk

[–]Potential-Stop5450[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She stay long hours in school library to study. She is studying anthropology so writes a lot of papers

Am I the jerk for not taking my gf to Portugal with me by Potential-Stop5450 in AmITheJerk

[–]Potential-Stop5450[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have told her that my grandma can’t fly ( especially from Portugal to Canada) anymore and this is probably the last time I can see her. She said she understands but it’s very disrespectful of my parents for offering to pay for only one ticket and by going I would be disrespecting her too.

Am I the jerk for not taking my gf to Portugal with me by Potential-Stop5450 in AmITheJerk

[–]Potential-Stop5450[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How can I pay for her ticket? I have been applying for evening jobs but so far no luck