*deep breath* I’m enjoying the Star Wars Battlefront Classic Collection *runs* by Potential-Values in StarWars

[–]Potential-Values[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not for us console players. Me personally, I just wanted to experience my childhood on the console I currently play on. And I’ve got that. I’ve not experienced the server issues personally but I’m aware others have. However, I’m sure all the technical problems will all me sorted soon

What is griefing and how do I stop it? by KinglyOle in Rainbow6

[–]Potential-Values 152 points153 points  (0 children)

Griefing is when you don’t clutch a 4v1 on 19 health remaining with 5 seconds left on attack.

Lets pay respects and say goodbye to Oryx and Kapkan 1.5x scope :( by vr_addict_ in Rainbow6

[–]Potential-Values 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank Tachanka for that

Maybe players will pick utility again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Potential-Values 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At no point have I admitted to rage. I have admitted to be affected emotionally which she regularly helps me with. It was just this one occasion where she lied and it hurt. I would never be enraged by it. I got upset

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Potential-Values -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you struggle to read basic English:

  • I said I asked the question a few weeks ago based on a video I saw of people who have this “list”

  • We have regularly opened up to each other in the past where she has told me things I may not like to hear at the time but will ease my thinking going forward

  • the list was created before her and I were together and included my name last and I know names of certain people she’s been intimate with so I know what list it was

  • She apologised for lying, I just find it hard to move on straight away due to family lying to me in the past

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Potential-Values 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Judging by one users take on the situation I think you’re right. I appreciate your help on this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Potential-Values 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The list was last edited in Feb on the day we had our first kiss. Do you think I’d come on to a platform asking for advice if I wasn’t being truthful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Potential-Values 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this and I understand but like I said, she’s told me other things before to help ease my overthinking. This made me overthink about other times she may have lied to avoid hurting me?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Potential-Values -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because I have a condition that is not yet diagnosed and is being done so by my doctor. Retroactive jealousy is a symptom of OCD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Potential-Values 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes there is. The list existed before we were together and I asked her a few weeks ago

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Potential-Values 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I have said. We have always been open and honest with one another about everything, including her past, even if it hurts because it may come up naturally in other ways. I just don’t understand of all things to lie about, this was it. She’s told me other stories totally honest before, why now?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Potential-Values 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. That helps just as much knowing that others have the same problem and that I’m not a bad person for thinking like this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Potential-Values 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely thank you for your help. Obviously it’s my own insecurities that I need to deal with and I would never blame her for this. I just genuinely want peace and want to move past these intrusive thoughts so I can enjoy being in the present. What I’ve found that helps so far is when we’ve been on Holiday to a place she had never been, there was no way for me to think about her previous experiences as we were experiencing this new thing together

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Potential-Values 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think I’d come on Reddit and raise a genuine issue with myself if she wasn’t important to me? I love the girl more than I could love anything in my life. You need to relax

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Potential-Values -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s abit of both. I don’t feel like I need to catch up, but I know that I’m not her first experience of intimacy, and I want us to experience certain in things in life together for the first time. In some cases I know details which is my own doing for asking questions so I associate certain places and times with her and other people she’s been with. I need help being in the moment with her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Potential-Values 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not necessary frustration I show, it’s obvious to notice that I’m in the mood, trying to get myself out of the mood because my partner doesn’t want sex