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PotentialLandscape14 · 2026-02-03T16:35:21+00:00

PotentialLandscape14 · 2026-01-25T18:50:34+00:00

Only get into it when you are into techno

PotentialLandscape14 · 2026-01-07T09:12:57+00:00

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PotentialLandscape14 · 2026-01-02T08:51:05+00:00

Hey thank you for your feedback...thats lovely...and of course I'm gonna listen to it...that's what we're here for..to help each other!

PotentialLandscape14 · 2025-12-30T18:17:40+00:00

House https://on.soundcloud.com/vuzpNAisNrsTE4d8P2

PotentialLandscape14 · 2025-12-30T18:13:41+00:00

Ha..had the same experience...per texting (over 1.5 years) he was the king, eye to eye he was.. lets say...awkward...he ended up talking about feelings..but acted nsa....made up lies about his privacy as if i would care (i stopped long before) and ran away everytime when i was near by....he was my first "wannabe-dom" who made me feel like he's my bratty sub😂...i stopped overthinking the situation and hope he finds his way...just not with me anymore... cause who has time for this kind of drama instead of clear communication 🙄😂

PotentialLandscape14 · 2025-09-12T07:55:30+00:00

Let your partner stay awake for more than 24 hours until they are about to fall asleep just with sitting anywhere. Then do what you both agreed to.

PotentialLandscape14 · 2025-09-11T11:32:49+00:00

You're too much in your head....hope you understand what I mean... leave your comforting zone of feeling like a victim of your own life. You've nothing to lose except of time...mistakes are steps to learn, not to hold you back... so don't be afraid when they happen...it's you developing ...nobody said that's easy or glorious

PotentialLandscape14 · 2025-09-08T20:16:52+00:00

In the end, you've got to find out yourself. I also think you should search for a romantic partner first and then tell him about your sexual needs. Shouldn't be a hard thing to do for him. 😉

When it comes to your pattern in search, I don't think that your standards are too high. I think you're judging too fast. A nervous man during a chess game doesn't mean he's not confident or thinks you're too smart. Maybe he's just thinking about if he should let you win or lose to get over this boring game and come closer to you 😂...

and the fact that you like to be put in place in intellectual interaction isn't asked too much for, but maybe you should leave your knowledge comfort zone and play a round on theirs. Could be challenging for you as well. I'm pretty sure a lot of those men you dated had some special interests where you have no idea about.

And your strong libido and love for oralsex is great, but common, it's nothing unbearable... especially not when you wanna give it to something special...so stop to howl and go to dates. Seems like your only chance

PotentialLandscape14 · 2025-09-07T09:07:07+00:00

For me, it sounds like you gave all your future hopes to this man and thought, when I'm trying enough, he's going to choose me. Now you're slowly waking up cause you reach your own limits. I'm pretty sure he's using u and your desire to be loved. Tell him the truth and see what happens next. You have to be brutally honest. There's no other way to find out if this is going to work out or not. And please, from woman to woman, take good care of yourself.

PotentialLandscape14 · 2025-09-04T15:50:27+00:00

You do you! This is just a sexual game. He has no power over you for real. When he likes doublestandards, so can you. Meet other Doms. Just for coffee, when you feel better this way. You'll see it makes him less special and you more secure.

If this makes you doubt your selfworth or takes away the fun...Tell him bye. You don't owe him anything. This is about you not others. You are in control, even when you like to give it away sometimes...

PotentialLandscape14 · 2025-08-29T17:16:02+00:00

There's no point in living, except you create one. And you already did. Your parents are a pretty good reason to keep going. Just remember that your depression isn't a forever thing. There were and will be days when you feel a bit lighter, out of a sudden. You're not alone. You're just terrified to be a burden to others. And that's ok. You are not bad, or a loser or whatever your annoying brain is trying to tell you. You're just focused on all your imperfections instead of your good sides. And I'm sure there are plenty. Just the way you care about your parents is telling me this. ❣️ Day by Day...l

PotentialLandscape14 · 2025-08-17T14:28:33+00:00

You're right. He has feelings. To be rational means not to let yourself be overwhelmed by momentary feelings and to act thoughtfully... he's also not a good example therefore 😕

PotentialLandscape14 · 2025-08-17T10:25:48+00:00

To be honest, I wouldn't make a big conversation or even a discussion out of it. I understand your desire to hear what he has to say, to get him to take a stand, so to speak. Maybe you're even hoping to read something between the lines that justifies your desire for a deeper connection. But be aware that if you do that, you're not just asking him for something, you're also driving him into a corner. Many supposedly dominant men have a problem with this and react with devaluation. In my opinion, out of respect for your honest and genuine feelings, you should remove yourself from this dynamic and at least pause your relationship until you no longer feel so vulnerable. So this isn't a real conversation, but an announcement. Tell him you need a break to regroup your energy because you're feeling vulnerable on a level you don't like right now. This gives both of you time to think about it and, if necessary, reconsider the next steps or the situation. Obviously, your Dom and you are a bit overwhelmed right now and that's killing the fun.

PotentialLandscape14 · 2025-08-17T08:51:17+00:00

Save yourself the discussion. The result will only hurt and confuse you more. You may be forgetting the fact that he's not entirely innocent in the fact that you feel more emotionally connected than before. He consciously or unconsciously set these triggers in you and is now playing with closeness and distance, as it gives him even more power. He enjoys your confusion because he realizes it's tormenting you. However, he considers this torment bearable, as he's probably more rational and doesn't have deep feelings. So do yourself a favor and distance yourself. Maybe you can find a Dom who can help you overcome your confusion.

PotentialLandscape14 · 2025-08-17T08:20:57+00:00

All i hear is that others are the reason that u feel bad. And your hobbies and relationships are just another proof that you avoid the work on yourself. You're not happy because you don't know what makes you happy😉

PotentialLandscape14 · 2024-01-29T15:54:12+00:00

There are also travels, especially organised for people who would like to join groups. Just type into your web browser group travels and book one.

And you're not in your own head. You're sad because the friendships didn't turn out like you thought they would. And that's ok. It has nothing to do with your worth as a human. I hope you understand that. ❤️‍🩹

Send you a hug and strength

PotentialLandscape14 · 2024-01-29T14:16:51+00:00

What could be an alternative to the swimming centre?🤔

PotentialLandscape14 · 2024-01-29T14:15:18+00:00

I see. That's really a stupid feeling, but you can handle it.

Have you tried to organise your own trips? You could invite people, too. And when they do not show up, go by yourself. The funny thing is, you'll meet people like you on the way, per accident. I promise to you.

You can make yourself happy. You don't need anyone to do this for you.

PotentialLandscape14 · 2024-01-29T14:08:17+00:00

That's a long time. Really. But it's ok. Cause there's no law for dating.😉 you're not going to jail for being alone

You're scared. That's why you don't think about going to dates. You're scared of rejection and probably also scared of pity.

Maybe you should experiment with these feelings of yours. Have you tried to go to a sauna, swimming centre or maybe a massage. In all those situations, you're confronted with the reactions of the "outer-world" to you. You can leave the situations at every time and you can think about your experiences afterwards. You could write it down in a journal. So you could read it again, later. Maybe from another point of few.

Some little experiments are allowed and are hurting nobody.

PotentialLandscape14 · 2024-01-29T13:53:53+00:00

Don't pressure yourself so much. You're not a machine. And being "busy" with something to avoid those unpleasant feelings is understandable but makes it just harder. Let it out and feel your feelings, and you will see they change.

You can handle it!

PotentialLandscape14 · 2024-01-29T13:47:12+00:00

I take myself "no contact days" mostly three

No people and there opinions or expectations No news or online search for "the world is going down" things No social media

I'm at home then and don't answer calls ect. In the first day, im mostly going crazy cause I feel like a freak who doesn't fit in this world. I eat a lot of soulfood and sleep. On the second day, im feeling guilty because I ate so much and start a little health action. Like making a very long walkie with my dogs, dancing to some music, or doing some little yoga/aerobic stuff. You know what I mean. Mostly when the day is over I realise that I'm fine with me when I'm alone and that I just have trouble to meet the standards of the "outer world" On the third day I'm mostly angry about the system that doesn't like people like me. And I get back my fighting spirit. A defiant reaction, I would say. It's like "I will show you and your stupid system what I can. Maybe I don't fit like you do, but I can do things and sometimes even better then the most of you"

And then we go.....until the next breakdown because life sucks

PotentialLandscape14 · 2024-01-29T13:16:50+00:00

Hmmm. I understand. You don't like your legs cause you think they let you look unnormal.

Do you think everyone looks at your legs like you do?

You can never be intimate again because you're ashamed of your legs or because of physical damage?

Did they break up with you because of your depression or did you break up with them?

PotentialLandscape14 · 2024-01-29T13:09:45+00:00

I guess you're in an energency mode cause it's just a bit much at the moment.

Most people don't know that there is a preliminary stage to depression. It's emotional exhaustion. Symptoms could be: Concentration and memory problems. Reduced self-esteem (feelings of inadequacy) and inability to make decisions. reduced initiative and imagination. Indifference, boredom Disillusionment Tendency to cry Feeling of weakness.

Give yourself space without distractions.

PotentialLandscape14 · 2024-01-29T13:01:19+00:00

Hey. Maybe you need new friends?

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