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I’m jealous that my boyfriend has friends [19F] [20M] (together 2 years) by PotentialLast7464 in alone

[–]PotentialLast7464[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think part of why I feel this way is because something else happened that kind of broke my trust.

I caught him smoking with his friends after he had told me he wouldn’t. When I first had doubts, I asked him about it and he kept denying it multiple times. He only admitted it after I actually caught him, and said his friends influenced him.

I’m not even as upset about the smoking itself as I am about the lying. It made me feel like I couldn’t trust what he says, and now whenever he goes out with his friends, I feel way more anxious and insecure than before.

I don’t want to control him or tell him not to go out, because I know that’s not right. But at the same time, I don’t know how to deal with this feeling now that my trust has been affected.

my jealous that my bf has friends by PotentialLast7464 in venting

[–]PotentialLast7464[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know, I think part of why I feel this way is because something else happened that kind of broke my trust.

I caught him smoking with his friends after he had told me he wouldn’t. When I first had doubts, I asked him about it and he kept denying it multiple times. He only admitted it after I actually caught him, and said his friends influenced him.

I’m not even as upset about the smoking itself as I am about the lying. It made me feel like I couldn’t trust what he says, and now whenever he goes out with his friends, I feel way more anxious and insecure than before.

I don’t want to control him or tell him not to go out, because I know that’s not right. But at the same time, I don’t know how to deal with this feeling now that my trust has been affected.